Discussion?...I Hope This One Could Trigger It

[toban]

Well Jenllani, I was the first to view your post here, just seconds after it was entered on the Forum. Because of the sincerity with which you have posted, I realized that it demanded much more than just a simple flippant answer. I have been thinking about this now for two days and I believe that I can honestly answer your question now. I have even modified my original reply of yesterday, to reflect my current thoughts.


Your question can have no real implication for me at this time in my life, since I am too far along in years to even contemplate such a scenario and my current profile quote of George Burns, that “Sex at age 90 is like is like trying to shoot pool with a rope” is a good example of the reason why.


So, I must admit that currently, I am the kind of guy who simply finds the woman who has that "something extra" quite irresistible, but I no longer have the time, the energy nor the inclination to become intimately invol ved with her. If I were about fifty years younger though, I believe that if I were in love with such a woman, I would be fully supportive of her whether with or without SRS. Then, I’m sure my answer would be much more to your liking!

And no, I do not consider myself either gay or straight, but I do know that I am different!

[prettyboy]

If I were in a loving relationship with a GG and she lost the use of her pussy [I don't know, pussy rot or something] I would continue to love her , support her and our children and find enough 'erogeny' in her body to satisfy my sexuality and hopefully she would find the same. But I would still seek the company of a Shemale every once in a while to satisfy the desire and need that I feel for them.
If I was in a loving, sharing ,giving relationship with a TGirl and she decided to have SRS i would support her, continue to love her and hopefully we would find enough 'erogeny' to satisfy our sexuality, but I would still seek the company of a Shemale occasionally to satisfy that need.
Any way you cut it once a straight man has opened his sexuality enough to allow himself the pleasure of the cock he aint living without it for the rest of his life. Not this guy anyway.

[tslisaparadise]

So I thought about it ....

I would not enter into a relationship with someone who wanted SRS. I would enter into a relationship with someone who didn't want SRS, or wasn't sure.

However, if I was in the latter type of relationship, and she changed her mind (semper femina mutabile est - woman is changeful always), I would support them in that decision. It would depend on the status of the relationship (new or old, happy or not) as to whether I would be willing to stay with her. Not to be cold, but I have had enough experience in staying in a relationship and being unhappy.

Don't know if that was entirely helpful, as I stayed on the fence a bit, covered my options as it were. I guess the short answer is no, the long answer is maybe.

Thanks for asking the question. As I said, tough but fair.

thanks for being honest,but lets play the devils advocate,say you had the hots for me and you rented me again and again and after a year of seeing me once a week you knew in your heart of hearts that i was the one for you and you asked me out on dates then became attached to my kids who are wonderfull i might add fell in love with me knowing full well i would lose my mrs.wiggly,now could you honesty look into my eyes in this picture and walk away hmmmmm somethin to think about

[flight09]

I hope this one could entice most of the silent t-girl admirers here, long time members and especially the newcomers to post even just a simple answer 'Agree or Disagree'.

My question to all of you who loves to have a sexual encounter with us transgendered people (t-girls) or who are courting anyone of us, who even want to marry us, as some propositions I have read on some post here, whether in jest or earnest.

DO YOU WANT US T-GIRLS AND ESPECIALLY SHEMALES YOU ADORE AND SOME YOU JUST FANTASIZE, TO UNDERGO A SEX RE-ASSIGNMENT SURGERY? AND IN YOUR HONEST AND TRUE FEELINGS WOULD STILL WANT TO BE WITH US OR FOR SOME TO STILL SEEK THE SERVICES (WHICH I KNOW, SOME OR ONE GUY HERE I PERSONALLY KNOW DID) BUT! WOULD YOU STAY WITH THIS PERSON (SEX CHANGED) AS A PARTNER?

Please! don't patronize us and say if she's a 'HOT BABES' sure! just share us your sincere and truthful answer. As I have been already (without me realizing it) a senior member here already wow! I remember I just sign up here Nov-2006 and now I'm a senior member. And I have seen and read the pulse of a large number of gentlemen here.
And there is only one thing they loved about a T-girl and it's their treasure. Of course you also love their femininity, curvaceous and soft body, their presentation as a woman, but you all must admit you love a woman who has something extra. And what if that something extra is gone, would they still be bewitching, alluring, sexually attractive.

The floor is yours gentlemen members. A simple 'YES' I'll still love her or donate to her funds or 'NO' no way.

I decided not to do the poll and ask you this instead on a more personal level, as most of you might not know what is our desires or goals in life, as most of you perceived us as just a sexual figure, who just want money in return for sexual favour. But, it's time I guess for us to know how you really feel about us and about the attachment that comes with us. So this could be the basis for us to design our destiny and for those who cannot part with the said 'Private' part as this could mean lost of their only means of livelihood. As Nikki pointed out, we only get our respect thru this forum and from guys who seeks our services, what would happen if the one true object you desires is no longer there?

On a personal note: I am for SRS and I don't care if no guys would love me anymore or I couldn't have any sexual feelings after the operation. I just want to re-claim the mistakes that nature inflicted on me and I will challenge nature and correct this deformity. We don't need government funding to achieve this, if we will just be subjected to a tremendous and rigorous requirements and red tape. Even if we have to slave oursel ves or prostitute oursel ves to save money to pay for this, I for one will. And I'm pleading to young girls go for it, there's no turning back, when you got older you will know, that female presentation is not enough, after you had your tits and butt implants and other enhancement there is no turning back, so save your money and don't spend even a dime on illegal substance, I know you do it to numb you with that kind of tricks, but I'm telling you your just making it more miserable on yoursel ves, You don't want at age 50 to be in the company of men in a ward in the hospital being treated for prostate cancer, 'coz, that's where you'll gonna end if your official status remained 'MALE' on hospital record. you know this as even in the sex clinic we have in Toronto, all t-girls on record still and are officially 'male' on the record. So if it needed a petition for the government to expedite those who are in dire need of this procedure, to those who are on the brink of suicide, sign a petition if ever there will be one. I know that's life and it's hard to beat life, but it's better fighting than lying six feet under.

( And to end on a high note: To those still questioning their sexuality whether they are 'gay or straight' if you still love us even without that something extra, then you won't be needing to ask yourself that question LOL!)

Thank You!

I love and lust genetic girls. I lust for T-Girls, and I love touching and sensual kissing with a sweet T-Girl. For me I like pre-op T-Girls. So hot and sexy.

I would add that T-Girls are very brave, for them to change and become what they desire to be. In this World that takes courage.
If I T-Girl really wants SRS she should go for it, because she wants it.

[sensual_lover20]

If I were in a loving relationship with a GG and she lost the use of her pussy [I don't know, pussy rot or something] I would continue to love her , support her and our children and find enough 'erogeny' in her body to satisfy my sexuality and hopefully she would find the same. But I would still seek the company of a Shemale every once in a while to satisfy the desire and need that I feel for them.
If I was in a loving, sharing ,giving relationship with a TGirl and she decided to have SRS i would support her, continue to love her and hopefully we would find enough 'erogeny' to satisfy our sexuality, but I would still seek the company of a Shemale occasionally to satisfy that need.
Any way you cut it once a straight man has opened his sexuality enough to allow himself the pleasure of the cock he aint living without it for the rest of his life. Not this guy anyway.

I second the motion.

[TallHunk4TGirls]

Go for it

I would say go for it if that is what you truly want. Most guys are attracted to tgirls because of the hidden treasure you mention. If you have SRS then you no longer are a tgirl and some guys may no longer be attracted. It is totally your decision. If you are taking care of yourself (which I'm sure you are) you will attract guys whether you have SRS or not. TSLisa, by the way, you are gorgeous. Your man is lucky!

[etrigan]

Lisa, I can't entirely discount the scenario. As I said, I was conflicted.

[intowntonight]

I won't get all wordy, because the difference between love and lust has been well examined already. The post that resonated with me discussed whether the SRS was in the plan right from the start. I would probably avoid getting emotionally involved with a tgirl who was was planning SRS. Sometimes, however, these things are not so much in our control. If it happened, then love conquers all.

[tslisaparadise]

I would say go for it if that is what you truly want. Most guys are attracted to tgirls because of the hidden treasure you mention. If you have SRS then you no longer are a tgirl and some guys may no longer be attracted. It is totally your decision. If you are taking care of yourself (which I'm sure you are) you will attract guys whether you have SRS or not. TSLisa, by the way, you are gorgeous. Your man is lucky!

awe thanks hun just because i am getting srs what makes everyone think that we cant rent a tgirl every now and then? hmmmmmmm now thats somethin else to throw in the mix

[Lani]

Thank you!

The response to this thread shows that many members here are matured, sincere and at least honest on how they feel about the subject. But 'FAIR' warning, you really, really have to meant your take on this... As more number of gentlemen here professed their approval and understanding if the girl they love to hire...dating...proposed to marry...or just their regular fuck buddy' has plans or wanting to have the full transformation (srs). I say this because it might trigger an influx of T-girls lining up for the said surgery LOL! and in 3 to 5 yrs from now the only 'COCK' you would see from a sex provider are those from the 'MALE STRIPPERS' at Remington's club! yes! the club that Barbie loves to hang out with LOL! so be very, very sure of your response here and mean it.

Don't worry! whatever is your feeling towards that procedure we'll never be taken against you and in case somebody from this forum post in here "oh! you don't like us losing our dick, is because you're really gay" If that happens push your mode button on ignore as she or they are just begging for attention. I,We, just honestly want to know how you gentlemen from this forum feels about it period.

And in my opinion, men who adores and finds T-girls sexually attractive (not just for one banged night moment due to alcohol or drugs) are not 'GAY' I repeat for me are not 'GAY'. It's just like women who likes to be with a lesbian, it doesn't mean this women are lesbians! they just want the passion and the eroticism and pleasure 'OR' love that this unique personality can give them, the same kind you know we can give you. So don't worry, you can answer this thread question with a simple 'YES OR NO' if you like.

AND THANK YOU TOO ALL THOSE WHO RESPONDED HERE ALREADY AND WHO ARE STILL PLANNING TO REPLY (and if you're really shy and never ever want to post here, just send me a PM of your response, I just really wanna know how many and how you really feel about it, 'coz, who knows it could change my and other's T-girls mind, hey! I havent made any down payment yet).

sidenote: I remember one post-op, doing her transaction infront of me and with in my hearing distance. "The guy ask her how big is it?"
and her exact reply "big enough to quench your thirst" now, I don't know if what she meant 'big' is her pussy lol! and to Prettyboy oh boy! oh boy! you really made me laugh with that pussy rot or whatever post, hahahahaha I didn't know you're a good comedian, but thanks for posting and to Toban, i'll write a longer response to your post later, but I have to get back to work, no! not doing sex in exhange for roses lol, something regular LOL!
AND TO ALL WHO ANSWERED AND POSTED SO FAR, THANK YOU, THANK YOU VERY MUCH (with an elvis tone).

jenllani

[Rantsalot]

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Live and let live.

If people want the SRS. Good. All power to them. If it were a very close friend I'd go with them all the way to the surgery room if necessary. If they decided not to get the SRS then that's fine too we'd stil be friends.

Bottom line, if someone cant accept you from what you were yesterday, what you are today and what you may be tomorrow then that is someone I wouldn't want to associate with.

[Lani]

Live and let live.

If people want the SRS. Good. All power to them. If it were a very close friend I'd go with them all the way to the surgery room if necessary. If they decided not to get the SRS then that's fine too we'd stil be friends.

Bottom line, if someone cant accept you from what you were yesterday, what you are today and what you may be tomorrow then that is someone I wouldn't want to associate with.

Thanks Rantz!

But, what if she is just more than a friend? what if you are parking your shoes under her bed for a periods of time or vice versa. Would you still find it in your heart to keep that shoes park under her bed after the operation? and in laymans term would you still marry me? LOL!

Anyway, thanks for your very sweet and uplifting response.

[sensual_lover20]

Thanks Rantz!

But, what if she is just more than a friend? what if you are parking your shoes under her bed for a periods of time or vice versa. Would you still find it in your heart to keep that shoes park under her bed after the operation? and in laymans term would you still marry me? LOL!

Anyway, thanks for your very sweet and uplifting response.

Jen, your dynamite. Whoever gets that ring on your finger would be one lucky guy, SRS or not.

[Rantsalot]

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Jenllani. In my case yes.If they were my soul mate / love for the rest of my life I'd stay with them no matter what.

If you can't support them then WTF would you be together for?

[Lani]

Jen, your dynamite. Whoever gets that ring on your finger would be one lucky guy, SRS or not.

Awwww! Thanks j.

He better make sure that it's a finger ring, last time I got a proposal, I was wondering how come the box is bigger than usual and when I opened it...A COCK RING? until now the police hasn't found the body of that man.