for the' am I gay?' fans

[prettyboy]

Gay guys are not attracted to Shemales ! [ ok there are always exceptions]
In fact most barely tolerate them.
So if you are attracted to shemales your are not gay [ well maybe just a little bit.]

If in doubt use the 'Bum sniff' test on yourself. This is how it works... Look at an attractive man, woman or TGirl, then consider whether or not you would be turned on or repulsed if you sniffed there bum.
If you voted positive for the female and shemale but negative on the man, then you are straight [ but slightly twisted, it's ok it's normal]
If you voted positive on all three then you are Bi.
If you voted negative on the female but positive on the shemale and male you are Bi or gay
If you voted positive only for the man then you already know what you are.
If you said no to all three you are either a liar, or very inhibited.

Myself, though I still find GG's attractive and 'sniffable', I have developed a taste for the TGirl { one in particular} that renders GG sex rather bland.
I have had gay sex occasionally in the past, and though it was not totally without pleasure, it felt weird and alien, like food in a strange restaurant that you eat but you would never order again, and quite frankly not very 'sniffable'

[Barbie_Swallows]

Dear Josey,I'm a 42-year-old male, with a wonderful girlfriend, but I'm drawn to trannies. I had a minor homosexual experience as a young teenager and I really do find some "chicks with dicks" hot! Am I gay, or bored? Do you have any advice for me, or should I just find myself a nice tranny and go for it, without telling my girlfriend?

Trans-Fixed

Dear Trans,


Most people eat or watch TV when they're bored, they don't go out and sleep with a transsexual. And yes, that's the right term. Terms like "chicks with dicks," "trannies" or "shemales" are considered offensive and used mostly by an enormous porn industry catering mostly to straight men who are turned on by the idea of a man who looks like a babe but is hung like a horse. For one, many transsexuals retain their male genitalia because it's damn expensive to turn an outie into an innie, not because they want to fulfill some straight guy's repressed homosexual fantasies. Okay, I'm sucking your dick but you look like a chick so it's okay, right? Being attracted to transsexuals doesn't necessarily mean you're gay ("minor" homosexual experiences as a teen on the other hand...). Gay men are attracted to men. Male-to-female transsexuals generally identify as female. I'm not really sure what your attraction is about (sexuality is wonderfully complex and trying to explain it is like trying to explain Richard Simmons). I do know that having sex with someone other than your partner - be they transsexual, bisexual or ambidextrous - without her knowing is cheating. My advice? If you love your girlfriend, don't cheat on her. If you want to explore your transsexual fantasies, there are plenty of porn sites willing to cater to you. You just might want to clue your girlfriend in on your little predilection before she stumbles across your Freaky Tranny or Hot Shemale Sluts DVDs.

Dear Trans-fixed
As a pre-op transgendered woman I want to be treated and respected like any genetic woman. I prefer the term transgender because it doesn't focus on the sexual aspects. Do not call us shemales or chicks with dicks which is highly offensive. Straight men are attracted to women like myself due to our femininity while gay men in general are attracted to men not transgendered women. Your attraction is normal and healthy but keep it a fantasy if you're in a relationship. Personally speaking I don't like men who are attracted to me because of what I have between my legs but date me for the person I am. We are not sex toys to be used by attached men but want fulfilling, loving, healthy relationships. Hugs


Catrina Botelho
{47 votes}
February 1st, 2007

Attraction of Transsexuals
Many people are attracted to transsexuals because of the novelty effect not because of superior sexual abilities. It also serves as an easy excuse to engage in weird sex. For others it provides bragging rights concerning these unusual specimens. A pure 100% unambiguous man or woman would in my eyes make for the best sexual partner in bed. The complementary body parts would have the perfect fit. Hormone levels on the male and female sides would be optimized for peak performance.

Stephen Talko
{1 vote}
February 7th, 2007

Hot Chick In Wolf's Clothing.................
Caroline Cossey......Everytime I happen to flip to this article, my eyes go right to the ~Oh-So~Naughty~Picture of Tula. What a foxy maven. I'm sure, closer up, there would be some dead give-aways that she was a he, like facial hair stubble, large hands and perhaps the old Adam's Apple, but seriously, some of those things would actually work to a guy's advantage once the lights were out. Advertizing and movies are so seductive, that maybe there are more Trannies and Shemales out there than we realize? Maybe, the local gym teacher has a few extra balls in the sports equipment room than are on the inventory, if you know what I mean? Josey, keep up the great work.

Steve Landry
{3 votes}
February 6th, 2007

Trans-fixed: Yet Another Label
I find it both funny and sad that someone who is attracted to transsexuals cannot reconcile this with currently being in a straight relationship, and worries about being gay. One: being gay is *not* something to worry about. And two: have you even considered that, unlike most people on this Earth who pretend otherwise, you just might be bi to some degree (or at the very least, bi-curious)? Having only had heterosexual relationships so far does not in any way exclude the possibility that you can experience another type of attraction, especially when you come across someone who embodies both sides at the same time. It's not an either-or situation, so stop thinking then that you've "suddenly" been traded to the other team.

Charles Montpetit
{12 votes}
February 3rd, 2007

Dear Trans-fixed
I believe alot of people have minor homosexual experiences and also think its quite normal. Its part of growing and experimenting. Trannies are hot and can be very attractive! Ive downloaded some on the internet out of curiosity. If you have a super-dooper girlfriend, why not talk to her about it ? She might be open to the idea of using toys which could somehow turn you on also.
what do you think ?



Nathalie Verbruggen
{2 votes}
February 2nd, 2007

Advice to the Tranny Chaser
Ya know, I won't even give "straight men" who cruise online for us. I'm all about tranny chasers, but I don't need someone who can't accept their sexuality. If you want a pre op transwoman, you're many things... but straight ain't one of em. I've learned to be honest with myself about who I am, and that's why I'm following this path. I don't need someone that can't be honest with themselves. Also, many of the transwomen murdered every year are murdered by people they've slept with, then turned on them. If you think about cock, you're not straight.

Marti Abernathey
{3 votes}
February 1st, 2007
Shemale girls
Hello! I'm Jan, a guy iN Sweden who loves "special" girls, that means girls with something extra between their legs. Why should always be on top, and not the girl?

Jan M?ller
{6 votes}
February 2nd, 2007


B@rbie Swallows

[Simon604]

im not gay my boyfriend is!!!


haha i herd that line the other day.....perfect fit!

[ummm]

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[prettyboy]

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Exactly!

[gabriel69]

I like trannies. iv been with girls, guys and trannies are the only people im realy into . So is that gay? What do you guys think?

[rushrush]

who cares why put any thought into it, if it feels right go for it why label yourself.

[capitus]

I'm only into people who will have sex with me. I find the others repulsive.

[Chuck Spark]

who cares why put any thought into it, if it feels right go for it why label yourself.

exactly

[Nice_Eye_Guy]

I can see how a pre-op t-girl might have concerns about a guy's orientation if he really loved the cock. If she were dating him, she may wonder if he'd still be into her if she was post op.

[tslisaparadise]

im not gay my boyfriend is!!!

the absolute best statement ive read anywhere on the net im still laughing my ass off over that one