Advice for your first meet with a t woman.

[Rantsalot]

A long overdue work in progress.

[Paco]

409 posts and you haven't hooked up with a TS yet?

WOW.

I thought you were a pro.

Or is this a hypothetical question?

[Rantsalot]

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409 posts and you haven't hooked up with a TS yet?

WOW.

I thought you were a pro.

Or is this a hypothetical question?

A long overdue work in progress.

[sensual_lover20]

409 posts and you haven't hooked up with a TS yet?

WOW.

I thought you were a pro.

Or is this a hypothetical question?

You'd be surprised how many people lurk on the forums and have never hooked up with a t-girl. They dream about it but never go through with it. Damn shame to never live out a dream.

[Rantsalot]

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Been thinking about this topic for quite a while. Originally it was going to be an extremely long read to cover as many questions as possible for first timers. Contrary to what some may say.....yes I've met many lovely ladies and I don't regret meeting any of them, not a one, all of them great and yet all different too. You don't believe that then good you don't believe it and you can go on your way.

All I can say is this and this statement is true. You want to meet a t woman. Great. If you can get the courage then do it but just remember to
BE YOURSELF and remember that always. Keep in mind too that yes all of the ladies are wonderful people just as everyone else here but theyre not all the same. It's all about personality. Just like in day to life...like in these forums for example, you'll get along great with some and with others you'll get along mutually.

Sorry to spoil it everyone but what more can be said?

Some may ask

Who do I personally like?
Who is a good partner in bed?
Is there a risk to being "labeled" for writing about something or not writing about something?
Why do you like t women?
Whats the best way to approach a lady?
Am I going to be satisfied if I meet....insert name here.

etc etc etc.

Just BE YOURSELF and then answers will follow and for petes sake keep it real. Dont be an ass and say one thing then do another if you meet a lady.
Easier said than done I know. Like me I try to keep it real as often as I can.

This thread could literally go on forever in many directions and hopefully by some miracle people from both sides will contribute at least one or two sentences on what to say to first timers. I have a feeling where this thread will go anyways but here's hoping.

Ok first timers, there isn't more that can be said here at this time. Got questions then ask and perhaps you'll get help. Remember to just be yourself and be open minded.


Cheers.

[sensual_lover20]

My advice is to just be bold. If you cannot even go through with it when you are willing to pay someone who will pleasure you for that money, you probably don't deserve it. Holding back on things always puts you in regret. As they say, curiousity killed the cat. So I say just go for it, take a risk, take a chance and just break away.

[tslisaparadise]

My advice is to just be bold. If you cannot even go through with it when you are willing to pay someone who will pleasure you for that money, you probably don't deserve it. Holding back on things always puts you in regret. As they say, curiousity killed the cat. So I say just go for it, take a risk, take a chance and just break away.

hey thats my song hahaha nice touch I'll spread my wings and I'll learn how to fly
I'll do what it takes til' I touch the sky
And I'll make a wish
Take a chance
Make a change
And breakaway
Out of the darkness and into the sun
But I won't forget all the ones that I love
I'll take a risk
Take a chance
Make a change
And breakaway

[sensual_lover20]

hey thats my song hahaha nice touch I'll spread my wings and I'll learn how to fly
I'll do what it takes til' I touch the sky
And I'll make a wish
Take a chance
Make a change
And breakaway
Out of the darkness and into the sun
But I won't forget all the ones that I love
I'll take a risk
Take a chance
Make a change
And breakaway

Lisa, when I wrote that I was thinking about that song. It does apply to the situation. I wondered if anyone would notice that. I should have known ... I should have known ... never rule out Lisa Paradise.

[Rantsalot]

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before this thread dies all i can say is I hope that some people who are even curious about seeing a girl take whats said here to heart.

At least Lisa Paradise owned up and posted here. You know, Lisa just being Lisa. Considering how touchy this topic could be I really thought others would post. Even something simple like " See me because I have great experiences with first timers.'

We'll see

Just remember though, most ladies have great similarities but all different.
one way or another.

Lisa is not like Tia and Tia is not like Alyssa and Alyssa is not like Evana....etc etc.

and like sensual lover said too, be bold but I'll also add don't be an ass about it either.

You know what...another big shock is that some of the beginners or vets don't throw a word in like " See (insert name here) cuz she'll ....." I guess thats what reviews are for but reviews can only say so much.

[markerverse]

Rantsalot

Believe me , I'm not being cynical asking what prompted you to address 'a first date' with a tgirl? You covered a multitude of ground, identifying the various scenarios between two people meeting for the first time. All appropriate in a given circumstance.
Now if you would satisfy my wandering curiosity and provide a motive for the advertisement ...... seems I missed it in your topic introduction .... I'd be pleased.

thanks for your patience.

[toban]

Do it, do not hesitate, just do it!

I believe that if someone has a very compelling interest in seeing what it is like to be with a transexual, then they should act on that desire and get on with it.

If they do not, they will forever regret being hesitant, because that interest in T-girls will never go away. It will just keep on bugging them forever and ever until they succumb.

Remember that nothing "new" has ever be accomplished without a "first timer" who has done what is necessary to start it off. I understand that Noah had never before built a big vessel but even as a "first timer", he apparently did a really superb job on that arc so being a "first timer" should not be something you should be afraid of. There are lots of girls here who will gladly initiate you into the brotherhood {for a slight fee naturally} and then you will no longer be a reluctant to see another and another and an.....

If you are new here and possibly considering that first encounter you should realize that every one of us here was at one time a "first timer" just like you, and we are still here and lovin it!

You too can capture that euphoria, but only if you first get on with it and I'll betcha that first encounter will be the start of a great new "hobby" which will serve to keep you coming back again and again for more!

[Rantsalot]

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markerverse, simple really, periodically the forums will have a thread by a newcomer asking questions on who they should see, what are the ladies like, how do you get along with them etc etc A few responses appear on the thread and that new member is never heard from again either because the help wasn't all that useful, they got frightened about the scenario , they actually DID meet a lady on account of what people said and either were disappointed or ecstatic or confused etc etc. It just feels necessary to let them know as a whole instead of just having individuals just wander around trying to find something to give them that push.

There is no motive here or even a game being played or favors asked. Assistance for the sake of assistance.

O.k. first timers.

I also agree with toban....just do it .

[markerverse]

Rantsalot

I appreciate the courtesy of your reply.

[Paco]

"Advice for your first meet with a t woman."

Lock the door, and hope they don't have blasters.

[Rantsalot]

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Paco.

I don't care if you're trying to make light of the situation or whatever, trust me I really don't, you're at least giving us something in what you say.