Why All the Drama?

[capitus]

Folks,
Really, what's with all the drama? It's like tgirls can't wait to rip into another tgirl, usually a former (and future) friend, about stupid crap....

Now, truthfully, is this real or is it orchestrated? Do you REALLY act like this when you are outside this forum? Don't get me wrong, it can be entertaining. I'll be the first to admit I giggle a little while reading the drama-threads, a little schadenfreude if you will. But this can't be real...normal people don't act this way (and I know because I met one once)!!!

If it is real, it seems like a shitty way to go through life.

Lighten up, because in the grand scheme of things IT DOESN'T MATTER.

[Foxy Basket]

Some of the threads on this forum are flat-out ridiculous. Especially when you think about all the other issues we could be spending our energy working to fix.

Instead of ripping a girl for her hairstyle, why not send an e-mail to your MP, asking for the removal of solicitation laws?

Why bitch about another girl's surgical failings when you can push the Ontario government to provide better trans-focused health care?

How can we argue about who's more feminine, passable or beautiful when we're constantly being shafted by every other part of society?

Dammit, if you want to fight over this kind of meaningless bullshit, then save up some money, book a flight to Chicago, and sign up for the next episode of Jerry Springer. I'm sure they'll be happy to broadcast your stupidity to the world, so that everyone can keep thinking that all trannies are vain, self-obsessed, retarded whores.

For fuck's sake, there are so many of us fighting for recognition and respect, but you keep dragging us all back down with your petty bullshit. You aren't helping matters; you're just making it worse.

WAKE THE FUCK UP!!! Or, better yet, just SHUT THE FUCK UP and stop making the rest of us look bad.

/rant

[Rantsalot]

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Capitus. Simple. It's because they can. Some use the threads wisely some abuse them for various reasons. It happens on many other sites too of course. Meh, trick is learning from it all and knowing who you want to know well or just want to be acquainted with.

ditto - TGirlNikki

R.

[LadyMissKier]

Folks,
Really, what's with all the drama? It's like tgirls can't wait to rip into another tgirl, usually a former (and future) friend, about stupid crap....

Now, truthfully, is this real or is it orchestrated? Do you REALLY act like this when you are outside this forum? Don't get me wrong, it can be entertaining. I'll be the first to admit I giggle a little while reading the drama-threads, a little schadenfreude if you will. But this can't be real...normal people don't act this way (and I know because I met one once)!!!

If it is real, it seems like a shitty way to go through life.

Lighten up, because in the grand scheme of things IT DOESN'T MATTER.

Haha, schadenfreude. Thats all it is.

And I'm Orchestrating and manipulating this whole thing.

This is just a socio/psycho-logical experiment. To be honest the results were quite different from what I thought, but Im not quite done.

-the posters on here are more intelligent (on average) from what I can gather, but this is typical of homosexuals when compared to white males

-given the age, from what I could gather, seems that many of the "posters" are emotionally immature, but intellectually mature.

-There are a few more in the works as I learn more, more question are coming about.

Yes I am a real tgirl...

[Admin]

Some of the threads on this forum are flat-out ridiculous. Especially when you think about all the other issues we could be spending our energy working to fix.

Instead of ripping a girl for her hairstyle, why not send an e-mail to your MP, asking for the removal of solicitation laws?

Why bitch about another girl's surgical failings when you can push the Ontario government to provide better trans-focused health care?

How can we argue about who's more feminine, passable or beautiful when we're constantly being shafted by every other part of society?

Dammit, if you want to fight over this kind of meaningless bullshit, then save up some money, book a flight to Chicago, and sign up for the next episode of Jerry Springer. I'm sure they'll be happy to broadcast your stupidity to the world, so that everyone can keep thinking that all trannies are vain, self-obsessed, retarded whores.

For fuck's sake, there are so many of us fighting for recognition and respect, but you keep dragging us all back down with your petty bullshit. You aren't helping matters; you're just making it worse.

WAKE THE FUCK UP!!! Or, better yet, just SHUT THE FUCK UP and stop making the rest of us look bad.

/rant

[capitus]

-the posters on here are more intelligent (on average) from what I can gather, but this is typical of homosexuals when compared to white males

uh, does that mean white males can't be homosexuals? and the intelligent posters on this site are de facto homosexuals? or that posters on this site can't be heterosexuals? Hmmm. Very Interesting. (this last bit sounds best if said with a Freudian german accent).

[capitus]

Some of the threads on this forum are flat-out ridiculous. Especially when you think about all the other issues we could be spending our energy working to fix.

Instead of ripping a girl for her hairstyle, why not send an e-mail to your MP, asking for the removal of solicitation laws?

Why bitch about another girl's surgical failings when you can push the Ontario government to provide better trans-focused health care?

How can we argue about who's more feminine, passable or beautiful when we're constantly being shafted by every other part of society?

Dammit, if you want to fight over this kind of meaningless bullshit, then save up some money, book a flight to Chicago, and sign up for the next episode of Jerry Springer. I'm sure they'll be happy to broadcast your stupidity to the world, so that everyone can keep thinking that all trannies are vain, self-obsessed, retarded whores.

For fuck's sake, there are so many of us fighting for recognition and respect, but you keep dragging us all back down with your petty bullshit. You aren't helping matters; you're just making it worse.

WAKE THE FUCK UP!!! Or, better yet, just SHUT THE FUCK UP and stop making the rest of us look bad.

/rant

Can I get an AMEN!!!

p.s. Nikki, yer cute.

[Rose]

I was confused about that homosexual/white male comment also lol.

[intowntonight]

Right on, Nikki! I am glad that my donations to your college fund are paying off.

I can understand people abusing the anonymity of the forum to generate flame-wars for fun, but I don't get why active escorts would want to participate.

I am one of many people in the forum who are contemplating whose college/transformation/rent fund I will contribute to next, and it sure won't be any of the girls who participate in these stupid bitch-fights. They are the ultimate buzz-kill for me.

I equate it to walking into a restaurant, and seeing the cook, dishwasher and servers all screaming at each other at the top of their lungs. I pull a u-turn and find another restaurant, and they get no money from me at all.

[snoodle]

Some of the threads on this forum are flat-out ridiculous. Especially when you think about all the other issues we could be spending our energy working to fix.

Instead of ripping a girl for her hairstyle, why not send an e-mail to your MP, asking for the removal of solicitation laws?

Why bitch about another girl's surgical failings when you can push the Ontario government to provide better trans-focused health care?

How can we argue about who's more feminine, passable or beautiful when we're constantly being shafted by every other part of society?

Dammit, if you want to fight over this kind of meaningless bullshit, then save up some money, book a flight to Chicago, and sign up for the next episode of Jerry Springer. I'm sure they'll be happy to broadcast your stupidity to the world, so that everyone can keep thinking that all trannies are vain, self-obsessed, retarded whores.

For fuck's sake, there are so many of us fighting for recognition and respect, but you keep dragging us all back down with your petty bullshit. You aren't helping matters; you're just making it worse.

WAKE THE FUCK UP!!! Or, better yet, just SHUT THE FUCK UP and stop making the rest of us look bad.

/rant

You have a sexy brain nikki. The brain is the most erotic organ.

[tslisaparadise]

Right on, Nikki! I am glad that my donations to your college fund are paying off.

I can understand people abusing the anonymity of the forum to generate flame-wars for fun, but I don't get why active escorts would want to participate.

I am one of many people in the forum who are contemplating whose college/transformation/rent fund I will contribute to next, and it sure won't be any of the girls who participate in these stupid bitch-fights. They are the ultimate buzz-kill for me.

I equate it to walking into a restaurant, and seeing the cook, dishwasher and servers all screaming at each other at the top of their lungs. I pull a u-turn and find another restaurant, and they get no money from me at all.

Why all the drama? i think because personalitties clash all it takes is one person to say a negative about another then the other hits back and so on and so forth,the internet is for entertainment purposes for the most part,as for girls participating in a bitch fight and it pisses you off im thinkin you need to remember that your none of us act that way in real life not barbie tia lucy lola and myself etc,none of us wants a bitch fight it just happens and with out it this forum and every other forum would be pretty damn boring dontcha think? but the realitty is it will happen from time to time thats just the way of the internet,none of us are right infact we all act pretty childish at times and look pretty silly but only a naive person would think the way you do

[toban]

Forum behaviour is often toxic!

Why all the drama?............................ none of us wants a bitch fight it just happens .................

There is no way that this stuff "just happens"! It happens because one or the other party deliberately goes out of their way to make it happen.

.....................with out it this forum and every other forum would be pretty damn boring dontcha think? .............

No, I disagree vehemently with you on this. Sure, sometimes when it happens it may induce the odd chuckle from some, but by and large, it is a BIG negative and detracts from the purpose of the Forum.

.....................but the realitty is it will happen from time to time thats just the way of the internet,none of us are right infact we all act pretty childish at times and look pretty silly .............

No, that is not the way of the internet at all. I take part in several other forums (not related to transgender issues) and they do not tolerate personal abuse of the type that occurs much too frequently in this forum. These forums both are useful and informative, as this forum is BUT, most importantly, each member there is respected as an individual and allowed to present their ideas, and their ideas too, are also respected, even if they are not necessarily agreed to. The members are not ridiculed, derided or sworn at by other posters. Actually, behaviour of that sort brings immediate removal of the member from those forums.

Yes there is a lot of childish behaviour which not only makes such members look silly, but very lacking in personal intelligence and integrity!

[Rockheart]

Other forums don't have this going on really.
In fact many just ban people and don't let them back in period.

Personally seeing tgirls act like this turns me right off.

Some tgirls that i would normally find very hot, when I think of them, all I can think of is the shit they have posted here.

If you think you are damaging others with your comments, you are doing even worse damage to yourself by appearing intolerant or just idiotic.

Slamming other girls does not make you look better.

[toban]

"intowntonight"

I agree wholeheartedly with your assessment of the current forum situation!

From the many nasty posts made by some girls on these pages I have compilied a personal list of "establishments" at which I will definitely not dine.

It is rather like the local Medical Officer of Health's Report on restaurants which should be avoided because of their lack of sanitary procedures. While this is not a sanitary issue with the girls, it is a definitely a psychological issue.

Right on, Nikki! I am glad that my donations to your college fund are paying off.

I can understand people abusing the anonymity of the forum to generate flame-wars for fun, but I don't get why active escorts would want to participate.

I am one of many people in the forum who are contemplating whose college/transformation/rent fund I will contribute to next, and it sure won't be any of the girls who participate in these stupid bitch-fights. They are the ultimate buzz-kill for me.

I equate it to walking into a restaurant, and seeing the cook, dishwasher and servers all screaming at each other at the top of their lungs. I pull a u-turn and find another restaurant, and they get no money from me at all.

[toban]

Agree 100% Craig

You've said it better than I can so without adding anything but colour to highlight a few statements in your post, I agree totally with what you've said.

Other forums don't have this going on really.
In fact many just ban people and don't let them back in period.

Personally seeing tgirls act like this turns me right off.

Some tgirls that i would normally find very hot, when I think of them, all I can think of is the shit they have posted here.

If you think you are damaging others with your comments, you are doing even worse damage to yourself by appearing intolerant or just idiotic.

Slamming other girls does not make you look better.