Do t-girls dominate guys cause they are just paid for this?

[jared]

well, i've read and seen a lot that t-girls wanna be treated like females and don't like to top in most cases.

There are few reasons to behave like that:
a) some t-girls just simply can't. yes, they can't cause their cocks are not functional anymore.
b) another ones are so caught into an endless loop of thinking about themselves as gg that they don't want to hear anything about domination over guys.
c) some babies just dislike it.

All IMHO.

A lot of t-girls are getting paid for sexual services. so it's logical to assume that most of them do what client wants. But do they like it? I mean, do t-girls like to top/bottom/both or they are doing this cause client pays.
I'm not talking about sex in general, I'm talking about sexual preferences.

So, t-girls that are browsing here: what you prefer in sex with a beloved? when money and power doesn't matter.
when you're having sex cause you want to.
top? bottom? both? kissing? depending on situation?

[sensual_lover20]

I spoke with one t-girl who explicitly told me that she would not top with a guy she likes because it makes her feel unfeminine. However, if she is with a client she will top. I doubt she enjoys it. Then again I don't see how any escorts can REALLY enjoy their job. They just like the money. Similar to accountants.

[Foxy Basket]

If a genetic girl enjoys using a strap-on, does that make her a wannabe-t-boi?

If a t-girl fucks a genetic girl, does that make her a butch dyke?

If a t-girl pushes a guy on his back, jumps on top of him, and rides him with his cock buried deep in her, is she still considered the feminine, passive partner?

(damn, that last one turns me on sooooo much!)

Gender Identity and Gender Expression are completely different things, and sexuality also exists independently of these. Not just sexual orientation, but also tastes, desires and personal interests - and they vary so greatly from person to person.

I wrote a long article explaining the differences, so I won't bother going over it again, but for someone who's secure with their identity, expression and sexuality, it shouldn't be an issue. Unfortunately, a lot of t-girls feel they have to become a hyper-feminine stereotype to legitimize their transition.

I can't think of anything more depressing. . . fighting so hard to cast off the social expectations that were heaped upon us as genetic males, only to adopt and internalize yet another set of stereotypes. Trading one inappropriate stereotype for another. It might be legitimate for some t-girls, but it's pretty obvious that, for others, it's a way of proving to others (and perhaps themselv es?) that they really are who they think they are.

Me personally? I don't top guys because it's not something I enjoy. Nothing to do with my femininity or my female-ness (again, different things!) but everything to do with my sexual tastes. It's not a turn-on for me, but I really enjoy having a guy on his back (tied down, even!) while I ride up and down on his hard cock.

(dammit, I'm doing it again!)


It doesn't compromise my identity to be the aggressor, or to be in control - if anything, it makes me feel more comfortable with myself, because I'm happy just being me, independent of stereotypes and expectations.

I like what I like, as we all do, and I make no excuses or rationalizations for it.

Oh, and I guess I'm one of the very rare escorts that genuinely enjoys it. . . but maybe that's because I haven't become jaded yet. Check back in a couple of years - if I'm still around.

[gabriel69]

If a t-girl pushes a guy on his back, jumps on top of him, and rides him with his cock buried deep in her, is she still considered the feminine, passive partner?

(damn, that last one turns me on sooooo much!)

Yea thats a huge turn on for me to. We shound meet nikki but i think you might be to smart for me to carry on a conversation with.

[cobbler]

Nikki

Once again Nikki you have articulated the issue perfectly. Trying to impose hard and fast rules on something so quixotic as sexual preferences is bogus. Borrowing from the sixties: "If it feels good, do it".
This is assuming it feels good for all parties concerned.

[konabuds]

ok, at least we know what turns Nikki on now. Shazam

[Foxy Basket]

ok, at least we know what turns Nikki on now. Shazam

Yep, that's one of the many, many things that I enjoy. Something about the control, and the angle, just really does it for me. Anyone who's visited me can vouch for that.

Shall we turn this into a game, where people try to figure out the different things that turn me on? It would be a pretty easy game - after all, I'm pretty, easy, and love playing "the game."

[konabuds]

that sounds like it could be fun nikki....

so, we all have one guess at what Nikki likes? lolol

have a great weekend cutie

[jared]

thanks Nikki for your answer.

The main point of this topic is to understand what different t-girls like in sex with a beloved and if it's possible - why.

[sensual_lover20]

thanks Nikki for your answer.

The main point of this topic is to understand what different t-girls like in sex with a beloved and if it's possible - why.

There is no answer to that. There is infinite wants and desires that differ between each different person. This question could be asked for genetic girls too. Why everyone likes different things we don't quite know.

[jared]

There is no answer to that. There is infinite wants and desires that differ between each different person. This question could be asked for genetic girls too. Why everyone likes different things we don't quite know.

well, you're right.
but I guess everyone has its own sexual preferences.

for example me: attracted to females(been with them) and shemales(never been with them). never paid for any services. would love to try sex with a shemale but not sure when and with whom. prefer to try everything with shemale(I don't understand why can't I suck or kiss her cock but still i can suck or kiss any other part of her body).

p.s. sometimes i've got a feeling that all here - are SO GAY(including me) and that we end our lives in hell.
p.p.s. why can't I be stucked only to gg?

[JAY_SAUGA]

for example me: attracted to females(been with them) and shemales(never been with them). never paid for any services. would love to try sex with a shemale but not sure when and with whom. prefer to try everything with shemale(I don't understand why can't I suck or kiss her cock but still i can suck or kiss any other part of her body).

p.s. sometimes i've got a feeling that all here - are SO GAY(including me) and that we end our lives in hell.
p.p.s. why can't I be stucked only to gg?

you dont want to suck her cock or she dident let you? oh you just said you never been with a shemale what the hell are you talking about, are you saying that you would kiss any other part of her but not her cock ?

you say
"why cant i be stucked only to gg's"
and you say
"are SO GAY (including me) and that we end our lives in hell"

first thing if you just like gg's and shemales that look like girls then your not gay maybe less straight then someone that hates shemales but not gay, if you like men then your gay

if you believe that your really going to go to hell for having sex then why even fuck one is it worth it

[sensual_lover20]

Please if you want to label do it right. Gay as in www.dictionary.com:

6.
of, indicating, or supporting homosexual interests or issues: a gay organization.

Next we must define homosexual:

1. sexually attracted to members of your own sex.

This now poses the question of do you really consider a t-girl to be the same sex. Genetically they are born such a way, but they act and dress as a different sex. In order to be a associated with a certain sex you must perpetuate yourself as that in your daily life. There is no label for gay in this case. Like Nikki pointed out, some guys like girls with big tits and ass, you like them with a cock.


Second point. You make it seem as if liking these girl's is a curse. I think it's the best thing to happen to you. You have diversified your life greatly. Sex is a whole new ball game with t-girls. Also, hell is for Christian believers. Seeing as how I'm Jewish I will weigh my odds I don't think you would go to hell for liking t-girls or else that is not something I would believe in. You have your own battles to fight I guess.

you dont want to suck her cock or she dident let you? oh you just said you never been with a shemale what the hell are you talking about, are you saying that you would kiss any other part of her but not her cock ?

you say
"why cant i be stucked only to gg's"
and you say
"are SO GAY (including me) and that we end our lives in hell"

first thing if you just like gg's and shemales that look like girls then your not gay maybe less straight then someone that hates shemales but not gay, if you like men then your gay

if you believe that your really going to go to hell for having sex then why even fuck one is it worth it

[cobbler]

hell

I think to be drawn to a lifestyle which harms no one and be unable to explore it because of arbitrary societal prejudices is to already be in hell. God will not send you to stand in the corner if you suck a proffered cock. She has bigger fish to fry.

[tslisaparadise]

I think to be drawn to a lifestyle which harms no one and be unable to explore it because of arbitrary societal prejudices is to already be in hell. God will not send you to stand in the corner if you suck a proffered cock. She has bigger fish to fry.

oh do true especially the she part lol good post