Help a Newbie read ads

[Qster]

I am relatively new to the T-Girls world, I have only been with two, one in Toronto and one in Montreal. I had a great time both time, both t-girls were fantastic to me as a newbie. The first t-girl I met was strictly a top, even though her ad said "versatile". The second t-girl I met was strictly a bottom.

I enjoyed their company either way but I am wondering if I am missing something in their ad which tells me whether she is a top/bottom/both.

Thanks for any advice.

[far2crazy]

well it is odd for her to say versatile and then only top. she may not have understood the terms herself, or for some reason did not want to bottom (if you a large or if she was um... well not clean to recieve (either through fluke or lack of preparation))

the only confusion I have seen (on this board) is one girl was saying "top" to mean dom (the girl was a post op which sorta makes it hard for her to top without a strap on)

[Nice_Eye_Guy]

The "versatile" girl simply may not have been in the mood to bottom for you, for various reasons. YMMV (your mileage may vary) is just a reality that you have to deal with if you visit escorts.

[Admin]

There's always the age old "Bait and Switch"

The retailer will say anything to get you through the door with your money. Then they switch up the product on you.

[Qster]

Most ads do not mention the words "versatile" "top" or "bottom". How can I tell otherwise. I feel silly asking on the phone, feel like I should have known before I call...

[Admin]

Most ads do not mention the words "versatile" "top" or "bottom". How can I tell otherwise. I feel silly asking on the phone, feel like I should have known before I call...

Treat it like anything else you are going to buy.

Would you go blow several hundred dollars on something else unless you thought it was right for you?

If they don't say in the ad what their into, you as a customer should phone and ask. If they give you grief move on, they are petitioning for your business in their ad. They way they react to customer inquiries should be some example of what their service may be like.
Probably most of the problems start when you don't ask all the reasonable questions you have.

Check the reviews, read some of the many postings here and you may find out more too.
Emailing is often a good way to express you needs but you may find some models may not respond as well as others this way, since not all are checking email regularily.

[capitus]

caveat emptor. Take everything you read in the ad with a grain of salt (i.e. 8" means 6", 'non-rushed' means 45 minutes on a good day, etc).

Like the Dude says, read the reviews, you get a pretty good idea of what you can expect from these (6" means 6", 'non-rushed' means non-rushed, etc). Tell the lady upfront what you are looking for (politely, of course) then hope for the best.