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I wanted to talk or blog about a topic that lately that has left me speechless and worried at times, especially a topic in 2015. *For my 10 plus years in the Adult Industry I have always followed the Porn standards of monthly testing whether it be by Industry Standards or at a Health Department. *In all honesty I was never a big advocate of bareback either in my personal life or in Porn work. *In my Porn videos I was always at ease because I could request and verify my partners test. *Now in escorting or “hooking up” I have almost always lived by the cardinal rule “to treat every guy like he is positive” so SAFE SEX. *It hasn’t been until lately that I noticed something in the younger guys on dating sites like Tender and Craigslist that has me worried that our younger generation is clueless to STD education. *I love younger guys and when I am in the mood to hook up or get that urge then I’ll post an ad or check out an app. *Lately I can not tell you how many times guys have asked “are you clean” or “are you disease free”? * REALLY? *Guys do you really think that by asking the question to a stranger that he or she will be honest? *Maybe by asking you feel a sense of false security but that is total bullshit. *I have found myself becoming defensive NOT because I am offended by the question but I am shocked that all it would take is a “yes” and you are ready to get naked. *Then I started thinking since most of these guys identify as “straight” is it because I am a transsexual women you are asking this? *I mean would you ask a genetic female “are you clean”? *I would almost bet the answer is no, magically a vagina will escape many of the stereotypes that I as a transsexual women have to indulge for a few moments of sexual bliss.
I was in Tennessee when I met a 23 year old African American male off Tender and once we talked about me being a TS and his “curosity” of course the famous line comes out like verbal garbage “are you clean”? *I without hesitation said “Do you think a total stranger who is horny is going to give you an honest answer”? *It took a few moments for him to respond and he said “well are you”? * I guess he just didn’t get it. *Obviously as part of the LGBT community I am not naive to the epidemic that was HIV in the 70′s or have I forgotten about the many friends I have lost to the disease, I guess with that history I am a bit more touchy on the subject but it doesn’t excuse the ignorance that comes with the question “Are you Clean”? * I don’t live in some utopia to think that everyone is clean and everyone is honest. *These guys are probably thinking with the other head and don’t want to face the reality or feeding into the stereotypes of transsexual women all being dirty whores with no morals. *But I am not helping that stereotype of being a slut online either so I can’t be shocked but I can be sadden by it.
Guys “Am I Clean”? * YES! *However not every person you decide to stick your dick in is going to be truthful thus why HIV and other STD’s are still an issue. *You should be focusing on SAFE SEX which still feels good. *Nothing wrong with buying a HIV test from a drug store and both you and your partner taking it, but don’t be naive if someone is also offended by that but wouldn’t you feel better knowing for sure there is a test and not taking someone’s word.
FYI I took the OraQuick HIV test and you can buy it online or find a place near you that has it for sale: *PURCHASE HERE*
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I was in Tennessee when I met a 23 year old African American male off Tender and once we talked about me being a TS and his “curosity” of course the famous line comes out like verbal garbage “are you clean”? *I without hesitation said “Do you think a total stranger who is horny is going to give you an honest answer”? *It took a few moments for him to respond and he said “well are you”? * I guess he just didn’t get it. *Obviously as part of the LGBT community I am not naive to the epidemic that was HIV in the 70′s or have I forgotten about the many friends I have lost to the disease, I guess with that history I am a bit more touchy on the subject but it doesn’t excuse the ignorance that comes with the question “Are you Clean”? * I don’t live in some utopia to think that everyone is clean and everyone is honest. *These guys are probably thinking with the other head and don’t want to face the reality or feeding into the stereotypes of transsexual women all being dirty whores with no morals. *But I am not helping that stereotype of being a slut online either so I can’t be shocked but I can be sadden by it.
Guys “Am I Clean”? * YES! *However not every person you decide to stick your dick in is going to be truthful thus why HIV and other STD’s are still an issue. *You should be focusing on SAFE SEX which still feels good. *Nothing wrong with buying a HIV test from a drug store and both you and your partner taking it, but don’t be naive if someone is also offended by that but wouldn’t you feel better knowing for sure there is a test and not taking someone’s word.
FYI I took the OraQuick HIV test and you can buy it online or find a place near you that has it for sale: *PURCHASE HERE*
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