Being Bottom

[tsfreak]

Please share your experience ..will it hurt for the first time..how to do bottom without hurting the arse

[iamin]

Use lube, dere will b little pain at first den it will be normal

[tsfreak]

Use lube, dere will b little pain at first den it will be normal

Thank you..

[ripcord]

you can always start with an escort who tops but is not huge in size. someone who has a 6-7 incher and someone who has good reviews on here should be good. as said above use lube. communicate with the escort if its good or hurts. keep trying. if you get penetrated say you wanna go slow and when u get used to it then you can start taking a hard pounding. it will feel good. just go with the flow. its to be nervous just keep yourself relaxed and a little loose.

[Tgirllover07]

you can always start with an escort who tops but is not huge in size. someone who has a 6-7 incher and someone who has good reviews on here should be good. as said above use lube. communicate with the escort if its good or hurts. keep trying. if you get penetrated say you wanna go slow and when u get used to it then you can start taking a hard pounding. it will feel good. just go with the flow. its to be nervous just keep yourself relaxed and a little loose.

Something I've noticed is that despite being inexperienced is that the sizes which used to hurt me don't as much anymore. I do it only a few times a year so I've always wondered why some providers don't pleasure me the way they used to. I also do not practice bottoming either on my personal time.

[ripcord]

Something I've noticed is that despite being inexperienced is that the sizes which used to hurt me don't as much anymore. I do it only a few times a year so I've always wondered why some providers don't pleasure me the way they used to. I also do not practice bottoming either on my personal time.

Part of it is all mental. That it is going to hurt if I take it up the ass. But once you've done it a few times and you know you enjoy it then it changes. Because you are prepared and you know that the sensation of being penetrated is so good. Most people who say they want to bottom and keep trying tend to clench up and thats not really good for penetration.

Also some providers don't really tend to give it their all. For them its like lets get this over with. Then there are ones that actually give good service and can give you a nice fucking. So this particular situation varies a lot with how you are with the escort, are you a regular etc...

[Tgirllover07]

Part of it is all mental. That it is going to hurt if I take it up the ass. But once you've done it a few times and you know you enjoy it then it changes. Because you are prepared and you know that the sensation of being penetrated is so good. Most people who say they want to bottom and keep trying tend to clench up and thats not really good for penetration.

Also some providers don't really tend to give it their all. For them its like lets get this over with. Then there are ones that actually give good service and can give you a nice fucking. So this particular situation varies a lot with how you are with the escort, are you a regular etc...

Thats pretty neat, I've come to realize that there are some sizes I can handle and pthers that I can't. Have you bottomed before? I've noticed that it hurts for days after while doing it. Is that normal or are there ways to mitigate it as well? Also that sometimes there's thin line between prostate stimulation and being too deep.

That much is true, for me I only stick with the ones that put pride in their service. Which sp do you usually see?

if any of this is personal feel free to PM me instead!

[ripcord]

Thats pretty neat, I've come to realize that there are some sizes I can handle and pthers that I can't. Have you bottomed before? I've noticed that it hurts for days after while doing it. Is that normal or are there ways to mitigate it as well? Also that sometimes there's thin line between prostate stimulation and being too deep.

That much is true, for me I only stick with the ones that put pride in their service. Which sp do you usually see?

if any of this is personal feel free to PM me instead!

Well it is not all entirely personal. Yes I tend to lean more towards being a bottom though I call myself versatile. I have never been in a position when its hurt for days. I think that maybe the following day tends to feel a bit iffy but that too not for the entire day. The only thing I always suggest whenever you do anal is that there needs to be a lot of communication and most of all lube. you can never ever have enough of it. especially if its a dick thats big and/or thick thats about to take you to your innermost depths of slutiness and bliss.

Also sometimes having a sizeable cock deep enough is the stimulation some people like to get. It doesn't always necessarily have to be all about physical intimacy. Sometimes its more about a connection. I have been with trans girls who i have been friendly with and the return i see tends to be pretty good. but again this is not something that happens all the time. As I mentioned before not all the girls actually really care about the service. The ones that do actually sit down and have an adult conversation, tend to be friendly, actually give you the time that you're there for, cuddle and provide good after care. I'd say than more 70% of the time (maybe even more but i could be wrong on both counts) its not what you get. It's "allright we're done i have another client on the way up". So most times it's not entirely worth it.

[Tgirllover07]

Well it is not all entirely personal. Yes I tend to lean more towards being a bottom though I call myself versatile. I have never been in a position when its hurt for days. I think that maybe the following day tends to feel a bit iffy but that too not for the entire day. The only thing I always suggest whenever you do anal is that there needs to be a lot of communication and most of all lube. you can never ever have enough of it. especially if its a dick thats big and/or thick thats about to take you to your innermost depths of slutiness and bliss.

Also sometimes having a sizeable cock deep enough is the stimulation some people like to get. It doesn't always necessarily have to be all about physical intimacy. Sometimes its more about a connection. I have been with trans girls who i have been friendly with and the return i see tends to be pretty good. but again this is not something that happens all the time. As I mentioned before not all the girls actually really care about the service. The ones that do actually sit down and have an adult conversation, tend to be friendly, actually give you the time that you're there for, cuddle and provide good after care. I'd say than more 70% of the time (maybe even more but i could be wrong on both counts) its not what you get. It's "allright we're done i have another client on the way up". So most times it's not entirely worth it.

Thats my problem with bottoming. I'm not sure if it is not enough lube or practice(I don't use anal toys) but once I explore above 6 inches it hurts me for several days to a week. Smaller providers tend to be a day or so so maybe I'm just not built to handle above averahe sizes.

I agree with this. I generally only repeat with providers that I could sit down and from a connection with. It doesn't really matter how much fun I habe with them. I need to be emotionally invested to continue seeing someone.

[ripcord]

Thats my problem with bottoming. I'm not sure if it is not enough lube or practice(I don't use anal toys) but once I explore above 6 inches it hurts me for several days to a week. Smaller providers tend to be a day or so so maybe I'm just not built to handle above averahe sizes.

I agree with this. I generally only repeat with providers that I could sit down and from a connection with. It doesn't really matter how much fun I habe with them. I need to be emotionally invested to continue seeing someone.

Well going to bigger sized cocks is a gradual process. It's not like I took a 6 incher today so tomorrow I can go take a 7-8 incher. Your ripe ass needs some getting used to a similar size one before you can start taking bigger ones. While I can tend to be a bit of a size queen when I'm giving blowjobs anal tends to become an issue then. So lately I'll try to just go for average sized cocks.

For me fun and the connection tend to go hand in hand. Like during one experience where I only really went to do some oral fun I saw that the girl was really enjoying it. It turned me on a great deal to know my blowjob skills were giving her pleasure. So much so that she began to me me gag on her cock. Ultimately she had a good climax and told me I'd given her the best blowjob in really long time.

[Top&Bottom]

I am always curious about the pain and being able to handle a dick in my virgin ass. However, reading the suggestion above seems like it's fun if we use proper lube. And anyone can take a dick in ass

[Tgirllover07]

Well going to bigger sized cocks is a gradual process. It's not like I took a 6 incher today so tomorrow I can go take a 7-8 incher. Your ripe ass needs some getting used to a similar size one before you can start taking bigger ones. While I can tend to be a bit of a size queen when I'm giving blowjobs anal tends to become an issue then. So lately I'll try to just go for average sized cocks.

For me fun and the connection tend to go hand in hand. Like during one experience where I only really went to do some oral fun I saw that the girl was really enjoying it. It turned me on a great deal to know my blowjob skills were giving her pleasure. So much so that she began to me me gag on her cock. Ultimately she had a good climax and told me I'd given her the best blowjob in really long time.

That probably was my problem. I've tried to accomodate sizes I wasn't accustomed to handling. If I tried a provider like Beyonce, I would be hurting for weeks. It seems my safe zone is 5-6 inches. The 7 inch ones are a really tight squeeze. I'll stick to average ones as well.

That's something I've been working on as well. How to give a blowjob without gagging. Generally, when the girl starts straddling my throat to go deeper I gag. Is there a technique that you use to prevent that? My laat session I almost threw up because the girl put her hand behind my head and thrusted my throat. Thats amazing though! I like getting genuine compliments from someone.

[pavijib149]

That probably was my problem. I've tried to accomodate sizes I wasn't accustomed to handling. If I tried a provider like Beyonce, I would be hurting for weeks. It seems my safe zone is 5-6 inches. The 7 inch ones are a really tight squeeze. I'll stick to average ones as well.

That's something I've been working on as well. How to give a blowjob without gagging. Generally, when the girl starts straddling my throat to go deeper I gag. Is there a technique that you use to prevent that? My laat session I almost threw up because the girl put her hand behind my head and thrusted my throat. Thats amazing though! I like getting genuine compliments from someone.

Re pain - Looks like you are not stretched enough (might be due to less practice). Usually, it shouldn't hurt for days unless there is some sort of injury (even small tear/cut inside can take upto a week/2 to heal) or the entry is way too forceful without proper lubing. In the starting when i went with a long & thick once, it hurt for maybe a couple of hours at most and then slight discomfort for a couple of days. Whenever i try anything less than 7 inch now, it doesnt hurt after a few mins of thrusting (it will depend on SP's technique, especially at entry and slow thrusts upwards towards prostate/belly button instead of being balls deep from get go). Entry has to be slow, staying there for a few seconds for your hole to slowly start stretching and then slow thrusting until pain fades if any.
My personal preference if the size is anything over 6.5 inch is not balls deep; i feel balls deep is okay only with 5-6 inch and average girth but that may be just me.

Ive read about gag reflex decreasing exercises online which may help (i personally could try only a few times due to my living circumstances, trying it once/twice while & after reading looked like itll be eventful if pursued further).

Like having a clean, soft and slightly long object like back of toothbrush/comb handle/finger if you have long fingers, etc (make sure it is sterile/clean though - with hot water or antiseptic/sterile mouthwash), nearby throat opening (without poking too hard/too deep) to trigger a gag reflex and focusing on not throwing up/not focusing on gag feeling for 10/20/30 seconds at a stretch for a few times continuously and increasing this time to a couple of minutes.
With enough reps this can be helpful (may not be at a pornstar continuous deepthroat level but surely can be better than what we already are).