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Sound advice, Shyla. I have had that experience with myself and find that douching takes practice. It is a bit of art and science.
When I see an SP whether I am topping or bottoming I always douche just for the practise. Besides, I have been pleasantly surprised on occasion with a dildo in my rear during a session when I was topping. Always be prepared and you won't be disappointed!
It's too bad nine out of 10 guys don't bother to take this advice apparently. I used to top as an upsell only, but now I just don't do it at all.
With hormone use I have a hard enough time remaining fully functional (pun intended) and if anything turns me off at all, it's over.