I'm curious, how many of you ladies that have taken the time, gone throught the pain (both emiotional and physical), put up with the financial hardships, the posiple oserisation of your families, and the basic abandonment of who you used to be think that is was ever easy at anytime in that process? Now think about us men that have found our sexuallity which most of us have never had a question about, are now seriously doubting what we have been doing all of our lives is what we were supposed to be doing.l What i guess I am tryijng to say ( and this is after a bottle of whiskey and some deep reflection on the nature of the human desire to survive) is that, sure, most of us guys come on like all we think about is a fucking hot lady with a cock, something that we might have always wanted. Have we always been gay or is it just the fact that we have had so much socieiatal normal sex that we now want something that is going to give us more excitement. Ok, Im starting to ramble, but my point is that men that find them selves attracted to transsexuls go through alot of emotional and self doublting just like you all do. We don't show it in the same way but we do. Give me your thoughts on this. Both guys and ladies. Please