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little nervous. I?d like to put your mind at ease. Here are some questions that
I hear very often.
Q. If I like shemales, does that make me Gay?
A. No. If
you were Gay, you?d be attracted to men. Being attracted to shemales is
something else. Most of my clients consider themselves straight and rightfully
so. A Tgirl who has transitioned can be considered to be a woman. If the
transition is successful, there won?t be any way to tell that she?s not a woman,
short of doing a DNA test or a gynecological exam. As a matter of fact, a Tgirl
works at being beautiful. It?s never just throwing on a pair of jeans and a
t-shirt and stepping outside. She always wants to look her best. In that sense,
being with a shemale is like being with the ideal of a woman. That only leaves
one question: does she still have her penis? When she peels off her panties,
what wonders do you discover? Do you discover a beautiful pussy or do you
discover a nice cock? Obviously, once she loses the cock and gets a pussy, she
loses the appeal in the eyes of the man who seeks a shemale.
If you are
contemplating seeing a shemale, it is highly probable that you have seen shemale
porn. You know what a shemale is. The porn turned you on and you wonder if the
real thing would be as thrilling. If I can go by what my clients report, the
answer is yes, if you choose the right shemale. Your first time is not the time
to be taking any chances. Do a little research and find a girl who really turns
you on. If you like me, I?d be very honoured to be your first.
Q. I want to
see a shemale. How do I tell her what I want and what I don?t want?
A. You
should tell her that this is your first time. Book for one hour. Beyond that, if
the shemale was the right choice and she knows what she?s doing, she?ll handle
the rest. Knowing that this is your first time, she?ll take her time and she?ll
make sure you?re comfortable with everything. She?ll get a feel for what you
like and what you don?t like and she won?t push you to do things that you don?t
like.
Don?t try to orchestrate the session as if you were the director of a
movie. That?s her job. Your job is to relax into the experience and try new
things. Enjoy yourself. Believe me, you are going to ask yourself why you waited
so long.
Q. How do I know if I will be the one penetrating her or whether she
will be doing the penetrating?
A. There?s two things to consider. Oral and
anal. Most shemales will go both ways orally but only accept one way action
anally. When it comes to anal, there are terms for this:
Top: the person
doing the penetrating
Bottom: the person being penetrating
Versatile: a
person who can either be a top or a bottom
This is something you can ask a
shemale on the phone if you can?t find out on her site: are you a top, a bottom,
or versatile? Then you will know if this is the right girl for you.
You might
benefit from a little insider knowledge here. If a girl says she is a bottom,
you should question whether she can achieve an erection. Shemales take female
hormones in order to make themselves more feminine. There is a tipping point
when the female hormones overcome the male and the sexual organs cease to
function. Erections become impossible and ejaculation stops happening. At this
point, there is only one option left open to the girl ? go under the knife and
get SRS (Sex Reassignement Surgery). Just because a girl is a bottom, it doesn?t
necessarily mean she is non-functional but it certainly can mean that. In case
you?re wondering, I am fully functional. I can achieve and maintain an erection
and I can ejaculate.
Q. I found an ad for a gorgeous shemale but, try as I
might, I can?t find out much about her. What should I do?
A. Google the phone
number and/or the name in the ad. This should lead you to other ads she has
posted. It should also lead you to her website if she has one. Be very careful
of ads that seem too good to be true. You know the saying. It?s probably a scam.
Not a good first experience nor a good experience at any time. Find a girl who
has a real website and who you trust has been around. Beautiful shemales don?t
magically appear out of nowhere. And professionals will have all the fixings. A
nice website, a history you can trace, and a good reputation. A free ad and a
free website doesn?t tell you much about the person. A girl who changes her name
and her phone number every time the clock strikes twelve probably has good
reason to do so.
Q. I?m attracted to shemales but I?m afraid I might like it
too much and I?m afraid of what that might lead to?
A. Pleasure is pleasure.
You can like shemales and still like women too. Don?t deny yourself the
opportunity to experience something that really turns you on. So you might like
it ? there could be worse problems for you to have. Try it and see. If you don?t
enjoy it, you?ll know not to pursue it. If you like it, you?ll have a new source
of pleasure in your life. Being attracted to shemales doesn?t hurt anyone.
Shemales are human beings just like you. They need love just like anyone
else.
Q. I?ve never done anything like this before and I?m contemplating
calling a shemale. Is this discreet or will I get myself in trouble?
A. Any
professional escort will pride herself on her ability to be discreet. This is
also something you can ask the girl when you call. Remember that you too should
be discreet. Don?t phone the girl from the lobby of the hotel or from the foyer
of her condo. Don?t knock on her door so loud that the neighbours are disturbed.
When you are with the girl, keep the noise down as much as possible. When you
call the girl, you can expect that she will not call you back unless you
specifically request that she do so. You can expect that she will keep your
number safe and will not hand it out to anyone. The same goes for e-mails and
text messages. At least, this is my practice.
Take a few moments to read the
girl?s rules on her website. Do your best to follow these and you will make the
girl feel comfortable. She?ll return the favour and treat you with the same
respect. Don?t underestimate the importance of good hygiene. Be clean and sober
when you meet her.
Sunshine
