The largest problem in my life as I imagine it is for many people is location and timing I could really co for a regular scratch to my itch but no one is close to me and on rare occasion I find someone that is timing seems to be impossible it can be such a pain and results in me scrambling on last minute rare free time to try to get something set up but that does not usually work out. End result play occurs next to never.
I wish someone lived down the street of somewhere en route it would be perfect but that is like bed time fairy tales and such.