Actually I go on a lot of dates with my clients, sometimes just to grab a coffee either for dinner, they're proud to be seen with me, and I'm all woman from head to toe, I believe love is love, and I think it's kind someone posted labels aren't important but they are when they are in the right contexts, whether you define yourself straight for dating trans women or bi is your prerogative , nowadays with that trans community I can't even keep up with the labels if somebody wants me to call them a cyborg, fine as long as I'm not hurting somebody's feelings and most of all respecting their identity . Identifying is important to everybody.

But when we Shame people for their choices in lovers & part time partners it becomes problematic , Remember we also choose to be with you, so educating yourself before you go see a trans woman just might be something you want to do ,

I think when a man needs to question whether he's Gay or not after sleeping with a trans woman , it's not about the trans woman, it's about this man's own guilt about how he sees and perceives himself, These types of clients usually end up mentally dissecting the trans women in their own heads and are usually socialized by pornography and have some sort of guilt that revolves around their secret sexualization of trans women , as they say your secrets will keep you sick and maybe full of hate

I have had clients in the past ask me if they think they are gay? I always respond I'm not your therapist, I'm not a novelty, I'm a human with feelings and deserve to be treated with respect,

trust!!! trans women aren't the gateway drug to being a gay man, Men who are seeking out men seek out masculinity most if not all trans women are hyper feminine , were not seeing a huge spike in the gay population due to man hooking up or falling in love with trans women,

I know some of these posts border on hate speech, transpobia and most of all ignorance, maybe if you don't feel good about paying a trans woman pre-op or postop .. take your business somewhere else , thinking like this dehumanizes trans women who are in a daily struggle to fight this exact ignorant mentality that pushes back the cause another decade.

when we don't see trans Women as humans you are objectifying us, objects can be broken, historically we know when we objectify any woman not only trans women we create an atmosphere for violence, I would be very careful about what you are posting because Canadian laws are very strict on posting hate speech, you are not safe behind your computer, under a false fake alias many people here in Canada have been prosecuted for very similar stuff that has been written in this thread, treading on thin ice ? I think so. If you were smart you would delete your hate speech,

Ladies and Gents on these forums there is a flag post right underneath the person's posting feel free to flag with your comments and hopefully our beautiful ,empathetic moderators can take this down

I think with T girl- forums - trans women were hoping to foster better communication with clients and the people we see, not to be dissected by your own insecurity .. sending everybody love and positivity I wish this whole thread would be deleted because what it does is just create hate?

I find it even more interesting that a trans woman started this post by calling out clients sexual preference, and listing them and categorizing them as fags? And that nobody on the forum reported this? I guess I miss a lot on here, hugely disheartened to see a trans woman alienating herself, remember this is the same trans women who says she's famous for nothing? I will also add she has nothing good to say and is not an ambassador to our community , even though you are under the umbrella of the GLBTQI you can still be writing hate speech, here is something for you to swallow ,you should be ashamed of yourself and immediately make an amendment for this calling out of people, it is absolutely not acceptable and disgusting .

I think for other girls on this forum just don't respond to these hate filled postings , most of all to all trans women you are beautiful, and you are worthy of a great life which includes authentic love, an army of lovers will never be defeated ❤️