"Men That Like Shemales Are Closet Case Homosexuals"

[Haley]

I agree with you Haley, that this is not a good site for dating t-girls. But some of your advice could get someone hurt or is based on hiding the truth. Without trust? your never going to have a good relationship.

You meet some guy and start off by not telling him your a t-girl? [that is a bomb shell, if he ends up caring for you] then your going to tell him even later on, guess what I was also a t-girl escort. [more bombs in the air] So how is he ever going to trust you again after that? [could be a doomed relationship before it starts]

Relationships is all about building trust between two people... I wish you the best of luck Haley, because your a special person and you need no more heart ache in your life.

Guys who are looking to date T-girls, hit this site. Has tons of nice T-girls on there. Some are looking for a loving long term relationship built on trust. Some just looking to date.

http://www.findashemalelover.com/

Now on to Barbie, I think and I could be wrong. That she has a loser magnet and she picks out bad people to date. So if there is a room filled with good guys and one bad guy? She will find the bad guy out in the room. I think Barbie is looking for her Knight and wants love? But that Knight better have a battle axe to break down all her walls, as she at this point does not believe it will ever happen.



O'C

I didn't say I would hide the truth. I just said I don't offer it up to every guy who takes an interest in me? Why should I? Just because he likes me? What if I don't like him that way? Is that the way I'm supposed to respond to guys who approach me in the theatre, on the street, or at some venue.

"Hey there. My name is Karl. Would you like to go for a drink sometime?"

"Sure but first you should know I'm a tranny."

Yeah, that's going to go over real well. Hello single life, and if I'm real unlucky, hello emergency room.

If a guy is interested in me and wants to go on a date, I might say yes. Then we'll go on our date. Maybe dinner, drinks, a movie. Get to know each other. See if this guy is what I'm looking for. Decide if I like this guy. Maybe go on another date or two. Get a better feel for the guy, and if everything looks good, then I'll tell him. Either he will be secure enough in himself, or developed enough respect for me to not react badly, or he will want to attack me. But at least I gave it a try.

The fact is, if a guy is so insecure with himself, he would attack me for my medical condition, then it won't matter when I tell him.

[Will_E_Worm]

Are u like retarded or something? Real girls don't got cocks, therefore they can fake there sexual hornyness, cause there's no erections. Most lesbians in straight porn are just actress's, there all pretending to be just to turn u guys on. In the real world, lesbians are butch looking, and very manly, no joke. I do believe alot of women in porn are at least bisexual, but at least they admitt who they are, and brave enough to say who they really are,

No, there are plenty of good looking females that are lesbians.
Many that just make lesbian and solo movies are lesbians.
They are uncomfortable making b/g scenes.
Uncomfortable with having sex with a male and you're a female?
Lesbian.

unlike most guys
who say there still 100% straight but i like a shemale cock in my mouth and to fuck me up the ass like a little discrete closet homosexual boy! On a serious note,, WHY SO SERIOUS ? lol

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If you're talking about guys on the net. I'd say most are just saying that to get a reaction.

[Barbie_Swallows]

(I see why O'C likes you so much.)

I have to agree with so much of what you said except for one part.

Perhaps i should pray to the "Virgin Mary" maybe she'll find me true love. But in reality u know thats never gonna happen, cause we're consider freak shows, sex objects, and men only want us behind closed doors, away from there friends & family.

Don't sell yourself short. If you really want to find true love, you will. Of course you should not be looking for love in the escorting industry, where most of the men are only interested in you because you are transsexual, and not because you are a woman. Of course you are going to fail in finding love. These guys are pursuing a fantasy. A taboo. Something forbidden and as long as you think of yourself as a fetish or a sextoy, then you are going to be stuck with these guys. Chasers don't make good boyfriends because they will never let you forget you are trans. (Sorry guys.)

When I go about my day, I get hit on by men quite often and these men have no idea about my trans history, and I don't offer it up to them. When they see me, they see a woman, and when they hit on me, they are hitting on a woman. I'm under no obligation to out myself to every guy who takes an interest in me and neither are you. If you really want to find true love, then look someplace other than the TS escort scene. Go to a normal venue and I'm sure a normal guy will hit on you. You are gorgeous! A guy would have to be gay to not hit on you. You just have to go where the normal men are. (Sorry guys.)

Think of it this way, if you wanted to meet a black guy, you wouldn't go to a KKK ralley.

You don't want a guy who loves you because you're trans. You want a man who loves you regardless of your trans history and you're not going to find those men here. (Once again, sorry guys.)

Thank u for ur advice sweety, but even when i meet guys outside the sex industry, they still act like little mama boys! For example, i went to remingtons last sunday (girls nite) i was sitting down watching the dancer on stage stripping, then i noticed this cute customer walked past by me, and kept checking me out. In my mind, i was like ok, he's probally a fag and just looking at u cause u got big tits. He sat way at the end, and noticed he was still checking me out. He finally approched me, and smiled and asked if it was ok if he could sit beside me, i'm like sure. He offered to buy me a drink, i kindly said no. He said i was his first transsexual he was talking to in person. I'm like oh wow, and? He was like he's been fantasing about shemales for the past 2yrs, from jerking off to internet tranny porn. And that he always wanted to be with one.


When i asked him what he wanted to do with a shemale, he said suck my cock, and fuck me up the ass. I'm like that's cool, i told him i was surprised cause majoirty of men who are into shemales are bottoms. He's 27yrs old, from missisauga very cute, he kinda reminded me of xbf dallas cause he was wearing similar jacket like his. Anyways, i told him that shemales are basically wearing a very expensive halloween costume to look like women. He was confused and puzzeled, he's like why would u say that for? I'm like well, it's true, if they didn't have any money, they'd look like regular guys silly. He laughed and said oh yea of course. Then he was like i see Nina Arsenault on tv all the time and always wanted to meet her, and i think she's beautiful. I'm like i know her, she's a nice person. I'm thinking to myself, why talk about another tranny when ur with one right now? Wierd eh? Lol.... I asked him if he was a little nervous talking to a shemale for the first time, he said i'm not gonna lie, i am a little.


I told him there's a porno theater next door where u pay one dollar to get inside and u get ur own room to have fun. There's a leather sofa inside, with a big screen xxx porn screen and u can lock the door from the inside so u can have all the privacy u want. I told him i'm not sure if there open or not, so why don't i go check it out and i'll be right back in 2 mins. So I came back, saw him and told him it's closed, he ignored me and walked past by me, and left the club right away. And in my mind i was like what did i just do? I keep forgetting that i come across as too strong and straight forward and these are first timers, and u have to do everything slow with them, just like a new born baby, or else it'll start crying all nite, lol.


I think he was just a big pussy and scared by fooling around with me in person that will confirm his homosexuality side u know. I still thought it was rude to walk past by me like that and leave the club and ignore me, don't yea think? He did however said earlier that he wasn't gay, and he was 100% straight, and that the male dancer on stage is grossing him out. I'm like yea but why are u in a gay strip club for? He made up some stupid exscuse why, oh i was trying to find girls like u,, where u dance and shit. This just proves that men who like shemales are confused, big pussys, and got major issues big time! They all seem to act like little boys that need a mama to take care of them. Hehehhee. Anyways, what do u think why he just left the club and ignored me for? Do u think i came across as too pushy and shit? lol.



B@rbie Swallows

[O'C]

I agree with you Haley, that this is not a good site for dating t-girls. But some of your advice could get someone hurt or is based on hiding the truth. Without trust? your never going to have a good relationship.

You meet some guy and start off by not telling him your a t-girl? [that is a bomb shell, if he ends up caring for you] then your going to tell him even later on, guess what I was also a t-girl escort. [more bombs in the air] So how is he ever going to trust you again after that? [could be a doomed relationship before it starts]

Relationships is all about building trust between two people... I wish you the best of luck Haley, because your a special person and you need no more heart ache in your life.

Guys who are looking to date T-girls, hit this site. Has tons of nice T-girls on there. Some are looking for a loving long term relationship built on trust. Some just looking to date.

http://www.findashemalelover.com/

Now on to Barbie, I think and I could be wrong. That she has a loser magnet and she picks out bad people to date. So if there is a room filled with good guys and one bad guy? She will find the bad guy out in the room. I think Barbie is looking for her Knight and wants love? But that Knight better have a battle axe to break down all her walls, as she at this point does not believe it will ever happen.



O'C

[Haley]

I just wanna make this clear one more fucking time! All these men that love shemales, love to get fucked up the ass & love to keep it discrete. So depressing. Perhaps i should pray to the "Virgin Mary" maybe she'll find me true love. But in reality u know thats never gonna happen, cause we're consider freak shows, sex objects, and men only want us behind closed doors, away from there friends & family. All the men i fucked, always tell me, oh don't tell anybody cause i'm straight, and i got a girlfriend. Fucking losers man! I think most men that love shemales are big pussy's big time! Transsexuals seems to have more guts in general to be brave enough to be who they are knowing society won't accept them, more so then the men that wanna sleep with us. It's sad but a true fact. What can u do? That's fucking life! We're only good enough for one thing and that is for oral sex & to get fucked, period. Shemales are also consider like drugs in society, cause people do it behind closed doors, the same with us, they screw us behind closed doors in private, and don't want anybody to know about it.


Like i already came out of the closet twice,, first for being a gay boy, then i came out of the closet the second time for being transgender, and admitting who i am openly everywhere i go. Ok a few times i tricked a few straight boys and sucked them off and they didn't knew my secret idenity, but who cares. I'm fucking honest majority of the time about me being a shemale. I just find it depressing that i feel like i have to be forced back into the closet due to men that we're dating or fucking, are not comfortable being open about us in public. I feel like there ashamed of us, but there probally more ashamed of themselves for liking shemales, cause everybody else will view them as gay. I don't believe there 100% fag at all. But i do believe there bisexual, but they just don't want to admit it. Men that like shemales, also like real girls too, its a well known fact, since we look alot like them, pretty much, well without a pussy of course. Another thing i like to mention, alot of people in general view us as noveltys, as if we came out of the walt disney cartoon movie. Cause we're like totally out of this world u know.


We're different, there's no doubt about that. I'm just tired of getting discriminated for who i am, and what i believe in. Can't everybody just accept one another and get along? In the real world,, never! Alot of times when i'm with guys that r into me, they always ask me questions like, am i gay if i like shemales. I feel like a therapist and a hooker at the same time u know, lol. It just makes comon sence, since we're half man, half woman, it would be clear that men that love us are half gay, half straight =bisexual. Don't yea think? U tell me! Let's just say it's not easy being a shemale, cause even fags in the gay community hate us, cause we get all the attention from straight boys that they mostly desire, and all of the spot light everywhere we go and they don't. Cause there stuck with pure 100% fags like themselves! There just bitter, cause inside they feel like women, but look like men. And we transsexuals look and feel inside and out as women. Alot of haters & jealousy out there. Even some real girls are threatened by us, cause there worried there man will want us when we're alone with them, and sometimes we look way hotter then they do! They hate us cause they can never compete with a tranny.





B@rbie Swallows

(I see why O'C likes you so much.)

I have to agree with so much of what you said except for one part.

Perhaps i should pray to the "Virgin Mary" maybe she'll find me true love. But in reality u know thats never gonna happen, cause we're consider freak shows, sex objects, and men only want us behind closed doors, away from there friends & family.

Don't sell yourself short. If you really want to find true love, you will. Of course you should not be looking for love in the escorting industry, where most of the men are only interested in you because you are transsexual, and not because you are a woman. Of course you are going to fail in finding love. These guys are pursuing a fantasy. A taboo. Something forbidden and as long as you think of yourself as a fetish or a sextoy, then you are going to be stuck with these guys. Chasers don't make good boyfriends because they will never let you forget you are trans. (Sorry guys.)

When I go about my day, I get hit on by men quite often and these men have no idea about my trans history, and I don't offer it up to them. When they see me, they see a woman, and when they hit on me, they are hitting on a woman. I'm under no obligation to out myself to every guy who takes an interest in me and neither are you. If you really want to find true love, then look someplace other than the TS escort scene. Go to a normal venue and I'm sure a normal guy will hit on you. You are gorgeous! A guy would have to be gay to not hit on you. You just have to go where the normal men are. (Sorry guys.)

Think of it this way, if you wanted to meet a black guy, you wouldn't go to a KKK ralley.

You don't want a guy who loves you because you're trans. You want a man who loves you regardless of your trans history and you're not going to find those men here. (Once again, sorry guys.)

[O'C]

maybe if we got all the tops together out of this forum and fucked the shit out of her she wouldnt be so bitter..

just a thought
GT

I do not see barbie as bitter at all, she just giving you her view on the topic. She just throws out catch words or catch phrase and some member's gobble them up. She knows people will respond to them.

Example: "little discrete closet homosexual boy!"

I think down deep inside you know who you are as a person. Do not let some person label of you? Piss you off or make you question yourself.


O'C

[gt25]

bitter

maybe if we got all the tops together out of this forum and fucked the shit out of her she wouldnt be so bitter..

just a thought
GT

[O'C]

Are u like retarded or something? Real girls don't got cocks, therefore they can fake there sexual hornyness, cause there's no erections. Most lesbians in straight porn are just actress's, there all pretending to be just to turn u guys on. In the real world, lesbians are butch looking, and very manly, no joke. I do believe alot of women in porn are at least bisexual, but at least they admitt who they are, and brave enough to say who they really are, unlike most guys who say there still 100% straight but i like a shemale cock in my mouth and to fuck me up the ass like a little discrete closet homosexual boy! On a serious note,, WHY SO SERIOUS ? lol

B@rbie Swallows

Now how can you not like her posts?


O'C

[pubking77]

Hi, I'm new here and had to respond to this argument.

First, I am VERY attracted to only certain tgirls. Others, don't do anything for me. I mean.. some are 100% passable and better looking than quite a lot of real females... so how could you not be?

Secondly, I don't mind sucking on a tgirl cock but I would never ever take one in the ass.

I am not attracted to men at all.

I truly believe I am a straight male

I've been told that gay men are not attracted to tgirls

[Barbie_Swallows]

I have to ask this.

What about girls in porn that only play with themselves, toys, and other females, are they all "closet" homersexuals too?

I call them teases and they all need to do hardcore scenes.

Blanket statements are never accurate.

Are u like retarded or something? Real girls don't got cocks, therefore they can fake there sexual hornyness, cause there's no erections. Most lesbians in straight porn are just actress's, there all pretending to be just to turn u guys on. In the real world, lesbians are butch looking, and very manly, no joke. I do believe alot of women in porn are at least bisexual, but at least they admitt who they are, and brave enough to say who they really are, unlike most guys who say there still 100% straight but i like a shemale cock in my mouth and to fuck me up the ass like a little discrete closet homosexual boy! On a serious note,, WHY SO SERIOUS ? lol

B@rbie Swallows

[bubblee]

I have to ask this.

What about girls in porn that only play with themselves, toys, and other females, are they all "closet" homersexuals too?

I call them teases and they all need to do hardcore scenes.

Blanket statements are never accurate.

I think you mean closet lesbians.

The porn connection that you bring up is really interesting -- consider all the hetero males who watch hetero porn and the importance of massive cocks, nympho females, and the big cum shot (exploding all over whatever). The viewers are meant to identify exclusively with the male point of view when watching, i.e. being pleasured by the woman.

So, let's see... a real hetero would never stop to imagine the scene from the female's point of view -- being serviced by a cock etc. Why? Because it's traditionally such a huge taboo and affront to one's manhood.

I think the fascination with T-girls/porn/ fetishes plays into this -- because you are crossing a line and breaking the taboo. You are experiencing the attraction, the qualities and genitalia of both sexual genders in one "passable" partner. And experiencing your own sexuality through a completely different kind of prism.

That's not gay or bi, it's something else. In this forum, I've read "pansexual" and IMHO it's perhaps a more descriptive and accurate term.

[Will_E_Worm]

I have to ask this.

What about girls in porn that only play with themselves, toys, and other females, are they all "closet" homersexuals too?

I call them teases and they all need to do hardcore scenes.

Blanket statements are never accurate.

[bubblee]

They are not in the closet if are open about it. But if you are a male and you like a girl with a penis you are gay.

Straight up.

Let's play generalities and fast forward this argument to its logical conclusion.

"If you are a male and you like a girl with a penis you are gay..." well ok, but last time I checked, girls don't have penises so I guess T-Girls are really T-Guys?

But really, I don't think either statement is true. I think it's more about a third way that's not so black or white.

[snoodle]

Were not all the same. Barbie my love.

I still dream about getting your beautiful 9" cock in my mouth. Lol
Next time I visit TO.

I have told friends I sleep with shemales.
I am happy that they accept it and respect my choices.

They tease me about it every now and then. But thats okay.

They don't mean any harm, Its all in good fun.

p.s. I consider myself BI

[torontodude123]

I'm sorry boys and girls, but it's true, weather u believe me or not, i don't give a fuck to be honest. But this is what i believe in, that men who are into trannys,, drag queens, shemales, cross-dressers are undercover closet case homosexuals. They have a hard time accepting themselves for being gay or bisexual, and they feel very bad and guilty for being sexually turned on and in lust for another cock to play with, sucking it and getting fucked up the ass. They can't do it for another man, so they go for a guy that looks like a chick, with fake tits, but still have a dick to fool around with, cause it makes them feel much more confortable with there own sexuality. Cause in there eyes they tell themseleves, oh i'm not a fag cause it's not a guy,, it's a girl with a penis. But i like to call it dudes with implants, not chicks with dicks, lol. These men have been told by society that being a fag is bad, and wrong, and they can't deal with it, so they go for shemales.



That explains why 90% of men that love trannys are bottoms, and enjoy sucking dick. Oh yea,, and they all claime there straight, yea right more like a prison undercover fags! No 1OO% straight guys would fool around with a shemale, and that's a fact! So here u have it,, men that like shemales are fags and don't even realize it yet, cause they believe there fooling around with ladies with speacil private parts, lol. I know,, its sad but true, u just gotta hear the truth, and i don't care if people hate me for this, but it's just my fucking opinion. I also believe that men that go for trannys are bi-curious,, then they go for regular guys and become super ultra hardcore gay! I feel like there just using us as a steping stone to experiment there latest homosexuality side. Majority of men i meet for sex are all sissy boys! Even my x-boyfriend Dallas, who by the way when i asked him if he he like me to get a pussy if he would like me more, and he replied back saying, i like the way u are right now barbie, with ur cock.


This is not a joke, i'm for real. They all beg me to fuck them up the ass, and they suck dick better then real girls do, lol. They act all bad and tough in the straight world, so nobody would suspect there fags, and then when there with shemales behind closed doors, they act so girly, what a turn off. They always ask me, oh barbie,, u like my ass,, can u bend me over and fuck me hard? But keep it a secret cause i don't want anybody to know about us, ok. I'm like oh god,, here's another closet case queer wanting to get fucked up the ass like a little bitch. Where are the real men out there that treat us like a real woman? I want my ass fucked. I want a top man out there. I want a real man! But i know that as long as u still got a penis between ur legs when ur a shemale, you'll always attract undercover fags! Hehhehehehhe. On a serious note, i do however feel alot comfortable as a transsexual woman then a gay boy. I can relate alot to the 'Little Mermaid" the half woman, half fish, but just minus the fucking tail to a big cock! Lol




B@rbie Swallows

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