Clients Bailing/Ghosting

[Thecolourgrey]

I know all the women can probably relate to this, but it's very frustrating when setting up appointments and scheduling our evenings, to have a client ghost or not show up to the appointment entirely. I understand things happen, however it's usually just ignorant towards us and a loss of income. Wouldn't it be best to let us know you aren't able to make it?

Any thoughts?

[shemaleprotector]

At least have some courtesy and let the provider know that something’s happened and that you can’t make it.

This will also prevent the customer from being blocked or put in a list of no shows.

[wgp14]

I’m on call for work sometimes and I have had to bail last second. But I always let the provider know. It’s a split for some who understand and some who think I’m lieing and curse me out.

[Photo Mann]

Gentlemen. Always treat a lady in the manner that you would want to be treated. It will not always work out in your favour, however, karma is a great thing to have on your side. Namaste.

[The_AshleyAspen]

That's why I charge a deposit, clients are literally invested at that point. Otherwise I might as well be working on my other income streams (camming, marketing, shooting porn, etc.)

[marinav2]

Well escorts flake a ton as well and lie a ton as well too. We look at photos online and then show up and the escort looks nothing like their pics. There are so many scam ads on ******* it is hard to know which ones are legit. I get what you are saying and guys should always cancel if they are not showing up 100%. I have never no showed on anyone but have had them not answer their phone when I arrive or they make me wait an hour plus etc. We live in a sketchy world Ashley Aspen and covid the last few years has made people worse.

[ladyluv]

Escorting is a greasy business. I can honestly say I’ve never ghosted an SP. I can’t say the same for SPs not ghosting me. I’ve been ghosted quite a few times. It’s a wicked game. Been many times I’ve been ripped off, or SPs look nothing like their pics, gave lacklustre service etc.

And to the one that mentioned the deposit…. Keep dreaming. Only a sucker would forward a deposit.

[Kylie Storm]

If you ghost me once .....Ill give you a chance, second time you are blocked for everrrrr.

[psych117]

Yep ghosting is terrible but happens on both ends. An indicator probably not the client or provider you want to be with if they do it. It makes deposits understandable but far from the perfect solution as it assumes only one party can be trouble

[Jewels69]

I'll never understand why guys can't be bothered to just send a quick message to say they aren't coming. I don't care what the reason is - hell, I don't care if there even IS a valid reason - I just want to know you aren't coming so I can move on with my day/evening. No-show with virtually any other professional, they send you a bill for their time; would be nice to be able to do the same as an escort (wishful thinking....)

[Photo Mann]

I'll never understand why guys can't be bothered to just send a quick message to say they aren't coming. I don't care what the reason is - hell, I don't care if there even IS a valid reason - I just want to know you aren't coming so I can move on with my day/evening. No-show with virtually any other professional, they send you a bill for their time; would be nice to be able to do the same as an escort (wishful thinking....)

We live in the age of self-importance, and thusly, SP's unfortunately cease to be a factor of importance in decision making the moment after a client decides to no-show. Common courtesy, like common sense, in unfortunately not common. Way it goes. Clients and SP's alike should focus on building relationships with those select few who behave in an appropriate manner. If the quality individuals on both sides of the fence, were more aligned, the world would be a better place. Ok not likely, but there would be far fewer posts on this forum because we'd all be too busy fucking. Huzzah!

[Photo Mann]

If you ghost me once .....Ill give you a chance, second time you are blocked for everrrrr.

Teachable moment. Madame I will say, that if any client ghosted you, it is likely because you had fucked the soul out of them in a previous session. Your fault. Do me a favour if you would, the next time you're exorcising a bottom bitch, pull your cock out and shove it down their throat. At this point whisper in their ear "this is what your soul tastes like." If that doesn't earn you an honourable mention, I don't what will. Awaiting the review . . .

[Kylie Storm]

Photo Mann 😂😂Omg I just died! 💀

[Photo Mann]

Photo Mann 😂😂Omg I just died! 💀

RIP Kylie Storm. She will be missed. In her name, we party.

[citizenx]

Respect is a two way street.
how many times do the ladies double book, bait'n'switch, lie about the service?

I have never cancelled an appointment without giving the person some indication that something came up.
I have been ghosted more times than I can count, so we've all been there.