looking for a tgirl for a relationship?....think again

[O'C]

Paco:

Here is another hypothesis for you!


Maybe Tank not in a relationship with a TS women because he a moron in person? Or he has bad hygene? He might not have a job? Or he could be ugly mofo and no TS women wants to be with him or next to him? Here is a common facter with Tank and every bad relationship he has ever had, the common facter is TANK!

Ohhh intead of blaming Tank [the man] let's point at all TS women in the world and blame them because Tank not in a good healthy relationship!



Ana:

I like to think of myself as man with two great heads and only one sits on my shoulders! [wink]



O'C

[flick]

I, too, had a tgirlfriend and the one thing you must absolutely have, is an open mind......heres how I would've handle it and did.

1) she is gonna cheat on you(remeber she has a guys mentality...i am not sayin girls don't cheat but guys will be guys

I hope she got paid for it....

2)be prepared that her so called "tranny friends" are gonna try to get with you cause we all know its one big competition to them

Competition's good, it keeps the relationship healthy if you don't go to the dark side.

3) Drama Drama and more Drama

Nothing like talking about all the drama thru some 420 certified. Also, playing video games against each other helps with the stress level as well.

All I'm saying is that the time I spent with her I'll never forget, it was the best time of my life. I'll always cherish the moments we were together. Even now, if I'm downtown, I'll ring her up and do whatever (coffee @ Tim's, midnite snack or...)
Too bad I couldn't bring myself to introduce her to family or else who knows where this could've went.

[Paco]

Paco:

Here is another hypothesis for you!


Maybe Tank not in a relationship with a TS women because he a moron in person? Or he has bad hygene? He might not have a job? Or he could be ugly mofo and no TS women wants to be with him or next to him? Here is a common facter with Tank and every bad relationship he has ever had, the common facter is TANK!

Ohhh intead of blaming Tank [the man] let's point at all TS women in the world and blame them because Tank not in a good healthy relationship!

The first paragraph has nothing to do with what he said.

It's not germane to his argument. He made some observations about Tgirls. Whether or not he does not have proper hygene, not good looking (which would prove his point that tgirls are primarily like str8t and gay males as far as attraction) is not relevant.

The second paragraph pertains to observations about Tgirls. Either he's right or he's wrong.

It's not about tank and hs personal issues, but rather about observations made about tgirls in general.

You're making this personal. I'm looking at what he said, and viewing it as a person who thinks its an interesting question.

What are the breakup rates of TS compared to genetic girls? Rates of infedility etc.

Does their pattern match gay males, straight males, gay females, straight females?

I would bet on gay males.

I find it an interesting question.

[solidtank]

3 words for you Tank:

David Kelley Services.

[Haley]

Solid's comment is based on his limited experience with a very small percentage of girls with trans histories. I keep reading "generalizations" stating "most t-girls are escorts", which in actuality is the complete opposite. Most t-girls are not sex workers. Most t-girls have normal jobs and normal lives and these t-girls aren't usually to fond of people who want them because of their trans histories, so they tend to avoid anything trans related. It's called "stealth". Of course you won't know this because most of you guys only have experience with t-girls who are openly t-girl sex workers, (and I'll be the first to admit, dating an escort of any kind isn't the best move if you think loyalty means property.) It's akin to saying most Arabs are terrorists. It's just not true. There are very small groups of fanatical extremists who happen to be Arab, just as there is a very small group of t-girls who are sex workers.

[solidtank]

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Paco:

Here is another hypothesis for you!


Maybe Tank not in a relationship with a TS women because he a moron in person? Or he has bad hygene? He might not have a job? Or he could be ugly mofo and no TS women wants to be with him or next to him? Here is a common facter with Tank and every bad relationship he has ever had, the common facter is TANK!




Ohhh intead of blaming Tank [the man] let's point at all TS women in the world and blame them because Tank not in a good healthy relationship!



Ana:

I like to think of myself as man with two great heads and only one sits on my shoulders! [wink]



O'C

man you have no clue what your talking about......i was just clearly stating from my experience my observations on dating a tgirl....and you can take that observation and make watever you want of it....just as people make a review of an escort...good or bad....you take it for what it is...like for example another thing i noticed is with alot of the asian tgirls in the community all seem like they are good friends......but in all reality they are sleeping with eachothers bf's and they are sappose to be best friends......anyways yea O'C your way off topic....you lost....i figure you have never really been with a tgirl or interacted with them....if u have you would have some sense of wat i an sayin....thats why if you really wanna date a tgirl....find one out of the community...so you don;t have to deal with all the BS...or if you thick skinned and can put up with it then i say hey go for it

[O'C]

Tank:

Sounds like your after the wrong type of T-girl, maybe it's your judgement? It's like a girl who just dates the bad boy type? [In and out of jail, no job and beats her up] Why is she shocked, when she can not change him and the relationship does not work out?

I for one perfer to sleep alone, then get into a relationship with a wrong person. That I know 100% is not going to work. Do not force a round peg into a square hole. But wish you the best of luck with your next relationship.



O'C

[martio5680]

Tank:

Sounds like your after the wrong type of T-girl, maybe it's your judgement? It's like a girl who just dates the bad boy type? [In and out of jail, no job and beats her up] Why is she shocked, when she can not change him and the relationship does not work out?

O'C

I have to agree With you O.C. It sounds like he's almost trying to start relationships he knows will never work out. I mean Look around man, and get a clue. Not all of the Trans-girls are alike, just like not all of us guys are the same...Thank goodness.
There are Trans-girls out there who are NOT as Tank seems to to think that they ALL are.

[alyssa1]

just do me

I think there has to be understanding and a hell of alot of trust if u want it to work. i never have expectations in the beginning of any relationship.i just go for it!by the way im single now boys and girls! anything goes for me!!! alyssa

[flight09]

dating a shemale would be very hard to do in my eyes cuz shemales want to date straight guys they dont like fags and when straight guys are attracted to a shemale its becuase they look female, but hows that straight guy supposed to bring his girlfriend to christmas dinner without being looked at like a fag

Wow, "Toronto's finest". I love your avatar pic. Who is she?

[youngboy4ts]

Solid tank just my 0.02 cents

It was past forget and think about future instead of worried about what happened in past. It’s called life you live and learn.

I am not taking any one side but truth is you can not clap with one hand. Which means there is somewhere you have made mistake which she didn’t like it or she was not happy with it that’s why may be she has choose to not to stay with you. I mean you can not just blame everything on her. Think about it where did you made a mistake? So the key is conversation and understanding each other.

Every Man that reading here might be thinking you are man and why are you taking girl’s side instead of man. Truth is we all are not prefect. So just blaming on the girl is not right.

Sorry if I said too much but just my 0.02 cents.

Respect!!!

[kristopin]

move on

solid i dont mean to lecture but you have to move on man. there is no point in being bitter and hoping it will change anything. what is done is done. you have to realise that when you first met your friend everything was very cool. this is true in any human relationship, gay or what ever makes no differences. when relationships end someone invariably gets hurt. the natural grief process must be allowed to run its course then you can be whole again. by lingering here and bitching about how everything wnet bad and bad mouthing tgirls is only holding you back. like i said before you must let it go. if you need to get some professional counselling to help organise your thoughts and feelings. i ha ve had to do it in the past. it helps.