Husband into trans escorts

[Mister Pantstent]

No need to get defensive. I didn’t insist that everyone who has this interest must get therapy. But I would imagine some people might, to understand their attraction better.

I also came here to understand this mindset and this world better as it was a shell shock for me and sent me down the rabbit hole of research to gain better understanding.

Maybe my husband has. He doesn’t feel good about his attraction or his desire to fulfill that fantasy.

I may be speaking out of turn, but based on my, perhaps, superficial research, I understand that the majority of the tgirls want to follow through with the final SRS and change their dicks into vaginas. They don’t particularly want to use it on their partner and feel least attracted to that body part on their body. Majority of them keep it for work related reason, or to just acquire enough funds to go through a full transition. The idea is to fully become a female. Majority of the straight men are into tgirls in the preop form, and many leave after the full transition, some stay because of familiarity. This desire for a preop sex signals a fetish and objectivization. Those two are the signs of psychological issues that may be addressed in therapy. I think any time one fetishizes a person, and desire them only for sex, its not exactly healthy, and is not a sexual orientation. So many of you don't care about therapy, and you have freedom to make that choice, others may have tried. I was asking those that have tried or know someone who has.

I may be wrong, can someone comment on that assessment?

As for me being a man, as someone mentioned, I am not sure how someone can even make that strong assumption from reading my post. Is there something masculine in my writing? Lol Perhaps you don’t really know women well. Most women are not as sexually open minded as men, and most of us would be heart broken finding out about my situation for the reason of the intent of cheating and discovering a sexual fetish that involves the opposite sex. Women are a lot more tame in their appetite and less obsessed with porn. We are just different. Men are a lot more salacious. I would safely say that I am on the fridges of being more open minded to people’s personalities and preferences, but I am not as open as many men here or elsewhere.

I wasn't being defensive, just pointing out that your narrow view is not shared.

You use a lot of words just to talk in circles. Hope you find what you're looking for.