desperately need help in the next 24 hrs or less

[kristopin]

thanks

Well i know at least one guy who's wife lost interest in sex after many years of marriage like you. Eventually she allowed him to pursue his sexual desires. They both did not want to split just over sex as they had a family and many years of companionship, plus they truly cared for one another. However he never had sex with her at all by that point so any dangers he may put himself in with his sexual behaviour are of no consequence to her. He was an avid "tgirl admirer" but also admitted to having many relationships with men during his college years.

I would suggest that "Tgirl Admirer" is not really a sexuality, and you should at least consider yourself bisexual. It would probably put you more at ease than hiding behind the moniker of admirer.
I like sex with women and tgirls. I have never met the man that I wanted to have sex with but some would argue with that, especially some women.

Welcome to the world of being FREE to BE Youself.
However as one who has been this way for my whole life, I would warn you that it can be much lonlier. There is always the struggle in my mind of giving up some freedom for more love and companionship.

If you can keep your lifelong companion AND pursue your new feelings, then you are a very lucky man.
Sometimes I think I would trade all the years of being who I am now for a long lasting relationship.
I hope it works out for you.

If you think there is less stress with your freedom, well that is questionable. Often you just find a whole other group of people that will stress you out.

at 58 and 1 heart attack down im not sure how many years there are left but i intend them to be mine. selfish yes. fun/ we will find out.

[uwantit]

congratulations on being free and being honest

[kristopin]

vancouver

now how to save for a trip to vancouver.

[sensual_lover20]

Solid advice Craigyb. Would you really trade it all in the long term?

[kristopin]

more solid advice

this friday i was out shopping with one of my friends. i felt absolutely great. almost euphoric. the sense of freedom and just having fun was so good. when the day ended it was like coming down off some great high. i did not want the day to end. period.

so i can say without a doubt, having had a heart attack and being given a second chance, dont waste your time and days. life is too short not to try to live your dreams. yeah we have to go thru the bs slave employment crap, but smell the coffee. really really you cant just let time slide by hoping for things to get better. only you can do this for yourself.

get on with it nad have fun, whatever that may be for you (except for a few legal constraints)

[Lani]

this friday i was out shopping with one of my friends. i felt absolutely great. almost euphoric. the sense of freedom and just having fun was so good. when the day ended it was like coming down off some great high. i did not want the day to end. period.

so i can say without a doubt, having had a heart attack and being given a second chance, dont waste your time and days. life is too short not to try to live your dreams. yeah we have to go thru the bs slave employment crap, but smell the coffee. really really you cant just let time slide by hoping for things to get better. only you can do this for yourself.

get on with it nad have fun, whatever that may be for you (except for a few legal constraints)

Allow me to congratulate you then. You've done it. Biggest decision one person could ever do. And I/we hope you'll get everything you wanted to be or do in your remaining transitory life, after all that's what all that matters.
hmmm, smelling the aroma of coffee, lol! and you probably wants to share this, the reason of your invite for a coffee meet , and we shall do that for sure, with time permit. So take care, and have a good day! and summer as well.

[kristopin]

very different

Allow me to congratulate you then. You've done it. Biggest decision one person could ever do. And I/we hope you'll get everything you wanted to be or do in your remaining transitory life, after all that's what all that matters.
hmmm, smelling the aroma of coffee, lol! and you probably wants to share this, the reason of your invite for a coffee meet , and we shall do that for sure, with time permit. So take care, and have a good day! and summer as well.

i seem to be a very different person than the one you met. i laugh more i am enjoying things more, although i am still intense when it comes to time usage.

[Lani]

i seem to be a very different person than the one you met. i laugh more i am enjoying things more, although i am still intense when it comes to time usage.

Don't I noticed that I just wondered why is that?
But, don't worry nothing surprises me anymore.

[devilman666]

FYI....irregardless is not a word. Just my 2 cents.

[kristopin]

FYI....irregardless is not a word. Just my 2 cents.

sounds like one.

[cameraman]

i totally disagree.you owe her nothing,she doesnt own you and you dont own her period.99 per cent of my clients and friends are married and i actually perfer that.since when does infedelity reflect on ones character,hookers are around for a reason ,the biggest one is to provide something different and a need that no wife can do either because she is far too cold and just doesnt really give a rats ass how he feels sexually,woman are fucked in the head that way and i can tell you this first hand as i was married 17 long years and have experienced both sides of the isle.the truth is marriage is a 50/50 thing,you tell her 50 per cent of what you want her to know and she tells you 50 per cent of what she wants you to know period.and 50 per cent of all marriages end in a nasty divorce.let me put it this way guys if yolu stay in a marriage because you think its the right thing to do and your not happy then you just screwed any shot of happiness for the rest of your life,is that what you really want?

So true Lisa. Will you marry me ??

[tslisaparadise]

So true Lisa. Will you marry me ??

LOL , well well well,you do have a camera and we all knows its a tgirls best friend lol

[kristopin]

big

LOL , well well well,you do have a camera and we all knows its a tgirls best friend lol

yeah but does he have a big lense? (i had to go there)

[tslisaparadise]

yeah but does he have a big lense? (i had to go there)

roflmfao,its not the size of the lense that matters more like the way he shoots lol

[Wiseone26]

roflmfao,its not the size of the lense that matters more like the way he shoots lol

ba dum dum