What does "sex work" mean to you?

[mr-kink]

Nikki: Life is not an even path. There are ups and downs. The main thing is to stay focussed on your goals.

Taking a year off to regroup is OK but it's easy to just waste the time. I know, I have done it. Actually, I like wasting time but you are young and you have goals so hopefully you will stay disciplined and focussed and keep on writing and researching.

Good luck and keep us informed of your various activities!

[merelypink]

easy sex for money!!!!!!!!!!

[bluequad]

As an infrequent traveller and vistor to Toronto, the formation of such liasons has not been possible. I do not see why it could not be possible, with Toronto TG escorts being independents and not being co-erced by agency rules.

My experiences with TG Escorts have been quite sporadic because of the travel to Toronto to partake, and so there is less opportunity to become too closely aquainted with any one girl.

I have to agree with Toban's assessment of getting to know the TG escorts. I too only get to Toronto and surrounding area occasionally. I haven't been able to get to know any of the girls on any level other than the strictly business relationship that occurs when I call to see one of them. Obviously, the reason is because when we call, generally speaking, we aren't asking them to go to a ball game or shopping etc. We call them to spend time with them with the idea in mind that during that time, more is likely to happen than a conversation about the weather!

For me though, it sure would be nice to get to know a few of the girls better. I live a long way from Toronto so that's not likely to happen but the occasional email, message or phone call would go along way in knowing I am not thought of as simply a meal ticket and would ensure that they get a call from me when I'm in town.

I'm sure the same could be said for the girls though. I know from past posts that many of the girls indicate that they genuinly like some of the people that ask for their services but keep things strictly business because that's the nature of the services they provide. Part of seeing an escort is knowing they won't contact you afterwards. It's the security of knowing your girlfriend, wife or significant other won't be asking questions.

The bottom line is you can't have your cake and eat it too in most cases. If you want to build a relationship with an escort, get to know them as a person outside of their business environment. If you want them to spend time with you as an escort, call them up and pay for their services.

ok, now my defination of a "Sex-Worker" A "sex-Worker" is any person who engages in any activity of a sexual nature and is getting paid for it. I would put strip club dancers in the mix as well as web cam girls or phone sex workers. If the idea is for you to have interaction with a person so they become arroused and you are getting paid while doing so, you are a "Sex-Worker"

[kristopin]

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[amapornfreak]

Well pornstars is what comes to mind for me...they work in sexual situations for money, in front of a camera...

[Foxy Basket]

Cheers to everyone for their continued (and thoughtful) responses. My paper is finished (26 pages), graded (85%, which is an A), and potentially ready for publishing (but I'm not holding my breath).

If anyone wants to read it, I'm going to try to post it online somewhere; I'll let you know as soon as it goes up. It's a lot more "academic" than what I write in my column, but for those who find the topic interesting, it might prove a worthwhile read.

Thanks to Admin for "sticky"-ing the thread, and to everyone else!

[kristopin]

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[youngboy4ts]

Risky

Sex worker its means easy work, easy money in less times.

But if you ask about escort work then I think it?s the Risky business in all business.
Think about the girl who has never met Pearson or even seen picture of it she have to make her self comfortable with her client. She does not know what type of Pearson she going to meet what if that Pearson is thief or serial killer. Think about everything I mean its Risky business.

I think escort have guts to do the business putting them self on risk, that?s why I have more respect for them.

Respect!!!