a question for the girls...

[Wiseone26]

However, this is also a proven case that NOT EVERYBODY CAN BE AN ESCORT.

yup, not everyone can do it.

[Tia Phoenixx]

Paula....I'm so insensitive compared to you:
For instance: I read your and Tasha's replies, in between my reseach on C.O.S, AIG, and some bank stocks..phew...i'm sorry!!

But, sometimes being not so sensitive help too, don't you think..?

cheer up my dear...you cannot solve the problem by being sad and cranky!!!

Let me deal with my stocks and i'll get back to you soon!

[Tasha Jones RIP]

umm

Tia, I really am not trying to be rude or start this night off with your 1000 postings trying to out post someone...but are you just posting in this thread for the point of posting? Do you want us to all go "wow" she knows stocks, she must have lots of money and have a very importent life.

None of what you said has anything to do with this topic. As well, your posts normal make since, where as this one made no since at all!

Paula,

I did not know you lived in Vancouver, so my comments about Goodhandys would not help you all that much. I also know that Vancouver does not have anything like Goodhandys you can turn to.

Sorry, but you do have 1 online friend that would be more then willing to answer any of your questions here or though email/phone.

Tasha

[Tia Phoenixx]

Tia, I really am not trying to be rude or start this night off with your 1000 postings trying to out post someone...but are you just posting in this thread for the point of posting? Do you want us to all go "wow" she knows stocks, she must have lots of money and have a very importent life.

None of what you said has anything to do with this topic. As well, your posts normal make since, where as this one made no since at all!

Paula,

I did not know you lived in Vancouver, so my comments about Goodhandys would not help you all that much. I also know that Vancouver does not have anything like Goodhandys you can turn to.

Sorry, but you do have 1 online friend that would be more then willing to answer any of your questions here or though email/phone.

Tasha

No Tasha, i did not intend to show off. Even though, i know for sure by the time i posted it some people may perceived it that way.

Actually my last comment was created intentionally in order to give a certain understanding that everybody perceives certain things differently.

If somebody can be stressed by certain things, some might not be bother, few even do not consider that "certain things" as a stress. The lucky few may think that "the certain things" is a good, constructive challenge to be better..!!!!!

I have edited this post a little.
I have so many dramas and sadness in the past. (being hungry..being poor..being dumped..being bullied...being rejected..etc).
But i always can handle those challenges and I am always the winner.
So yes, I'm always the lucky few....so if i can make it that way..why not Paula...?

here is an example, the recent one:
When i started my career as an escort in Toronto, i had only one client in one week..believe it or not!
Nobody wanted to see "all natural tgirl without tits".
But look at me right now....(thx to Pat, who wrote the first positive comment about me on this forum. O my..how can i forget this guy..).
I never give up...and slowly raise from the bottom...

Our future is really in our hand.
As i stated before, it really starts with positive thinking and the right mind set.

I do try to solve her problems..but i still cannot come up with any solution at the moment.

No worry..i'm not offended..your response makes sense.

good nite!

[Lani]

Before The Main Post, I'd Like To Say I Love You Both

Paula....I'm so insensitive compared to you:
For instance: I read your and Tasha's replies, in between my reseach on C.O.S, AIG, and some bank stocks..phew...i'm sorry!!

But, sometimes being not so sensitive help too, don't you think..?

cheer up my dear...you cannot solve the problem by being sad and cranky!!!

Let me deal with my stocks and i'll get back to you soon!

Tia, I really am not trying to be rude or start this night off with your 1000 postings trying to out post someone...but are you just posting in this thread for the point of posting? Do you want us to all go "wow" she knows stocks, she must have lots of money and have a very importent life.

None of what you said has anything to do with this topic. As well, your posts normal make since, where as this one made no since at all!

Paula,

I did not know you lived in Vancouver, so my comments about Goodhandys would not help you all that much. I also know that Vancouver does not have anything like Goodhandys you can turn to.

Sorry, but you do have 1 online friend that would be more then willing to answer any of your questions here or though email/phone.

Tasha

I'm gonna butt in here hoping to avoid anymore flare up of words and to avoid this thread being hi-jack, like what happens to other thread.

Tia, you know I have fought on your side before and I still squirm everytime you are being trampled upon here by other girls, but I also know when you are out of line.
Though there is nothing really bad on your last two post except, it's coming on as condescending, annoying and you really really sounding conceited, especially on the last part about stocks, I know you were trying to make a point about how it is, if people would lose some sensitivity, for them to have a good life and to survive the economic hardship (coz, your post even if you don't mean it, implied that she should have a thick face and dance to the music to have a prosperous and comfortable life), and sorry too if I reacted this way to your post to Paula's thread , it's just how it comes on to me.

I know you're a good person Tia and no one here can force me to believe otherwise, coz, I met you in person already. But sometime you got to have a little sensitivity when you get to post on people's thread or to think twice, choose words carefully to avoid hurting people's feelings.

And to Paula, sorry for digressing from your threads, my last post here. As I said be yourself, don't do anything against your will and whatever it is you choose to do in life, Goodluck! and just be HAPPY!

[Tasha Jones RIP]

ouch

Where is Admin to tell me to stay out of it and shut my mouth...


Jenllani -


I have always liked you from day 1. I found our conversations very rewarding and a true pleasure. So please do not be offended by what I am going to say.


Your last post in this topic was right on the money....until you including that last line. I really think admin talked about that. He said it was all good but then someone would have to have that last line and the whole post was fucked up.


This is the line that is wrong and did not need to be said:
“AND PLEASE STOP BULLYING TIA ALREADY, ENOUGH”


I am sorry, but I think you need to re-read not only your own post but Tia 's & mine. No one was picking on her. You saw what was wrong with her post, just like I did. How it was meant to look and what she was saying. You said yourself that she was wrong for doing it. Tia herself just said she was wrong for posting it. That should have been it.


So, umm who is bullying her?


This is how things get started in any of the threads that go very wrong. Paula asked an honest questions and everyone answered her as best we could. Tia's post was really uncalled for and we both know what she meant. This was Tia's doing what she says everyone does to her.


Tasha

EDIT...STOP editing your posts girls....makes me look silly when I am posting on your post and you change it from what I am posting on...lol Make a new post but stop editing out the old one so sometimes when you get a reply, that reply does not make since!

[Tia Phoenixx]

No, Lany did not mean it that way.
I guess she is just affraid that some "other" girls will jump in and bully me, but those girls are not you.

And yes, you and Lany have your points that's why i said i'm not offended.

I like this inputs and discussion.

i hope Paula can learn something from us, especially from you Tasha.

[Lani]

Ooooops sorry Paula, I need to add one more post

Where is Admin to tell me to stay out of it and shut my mouth...


Jenllani -


I have always liked you from day 1. I found our conversations very rewarding and a true pleasure. So please do not be offended by what I am going to say.


Your last post in this topic was right on the money....until you including that last line. I really think admin talked about that. He said it was all good but then someone would have to have that last line and the whole post was fucked up.


This is the line that is wrong and did not need to be said:
?AND PLEASE STOP BULLYING TIA ALREADY, ENOUGH?


I am sorry, but I think you need to re-read not only your own post but Tia 's & mine. No one was picking on her. You saw what was wrong with her post, just like I did. How it was meant to look and what she was saying. You said yourself that she was wrong for doing it. Tia herself just said she was wrong for posting it. That should have been it.


So, umm who is bullying her?


This is how things get started in any of the threads that go very wrong. Paula asked an honest questions and everyone answered her as best we could. Tia's post was really uncalled for and we both know what she meant. This was Tia's doing what she says everyone does to her.


Tasha

EDIT...STOP editing your posts girls....makes me look silly when I am posting on your post and you change it from what I am posting on...lol Make a new post but stop editing out the old one so sometimes when you get a reply, that reply does not make since!

And sorry Tasha, I'm not implying that you are one of the bullies and the bullying isn't pertaining to this thread, I'm talking about the past threads, not in this one, whew! I should have not added that last line huh?

Just trying to let Tia knows that directly and indirectly I am trying to stop some girls from bullying her, as me in favor of the infraction system, and the bullying doesn't only comes from the girls, but from some guys as well. But you have to believe me I didn't imply on this thread that she (Tia) is being bullied again. especially by you, and if you did got offended by that line I apologized. Sorry! (I deleted it )

And as I was typing my last post I didn't even know she (Tia) responded already and admitted she's wrong, I am a slow typer, what can I do.

[Tia Phoenixx]

And sorry Tasha, I'm not implying your one of the bullies and the bullying isn't pertaining to this thread I'm talking about the past threads, not in this one, whew! I should have not added that last line huh?

Just trying to let Tia knows that directly and indirectly I am trying to stop some girls from bullying her, as me in favor of the infraction system, and the bullying doesn't only comes from the girls, but from some guys as well. But you have to believe me I didn't imply on this thread that she (Tia) is being bullied again. especially by you, and if you did got offended by that line I apologized. Sorry! (I deleted it )

there!
that's why we luv u hun.

U r such a sweeeet girl....

[Tia Phoenixx]

final conclusion for tonite

well before i'm going to bed.

Can we just see it from our posts that even each of us has different perspective and way of thinking?

Conclusion:
read my previous post above:
Our future depends on ourselves, it starts by having positive thinking and the right mind set.

good nite girls

[Tasha Jones RIP]

Nice

This should be in the "Tgirl Forums" handbook on how to handle misunderstandings like adults.

Good post ladys and good night

Tasha

[Tia Phoenixx]

oh..before i forget...important note about the future

I deleted my final note today.
It's no longer necessary.
Paula has just read it!

Good luck for u Paula..!

[Wiseone26]

This is my thread. I wanted insight on this topic sheesh! Why can't we all just get along for once. No one and I mean NO ONE is better then the other. We are all equals! No matter what education you have, no matter what gender, race, nationality WE ALL BLEED WHEN CUT.

This thread would be useful, but within the time I left for work and just getting home there is a volley of stuff between tasha and tia and jen. WTF! why do this on my thread leaves a bad taste, I have respect for all the girls on this board. Personally I'm not mad at both any of you just mad you took your disagreement into my thread.

sigh!

argh! that was a bitchfest from me...must sleep...work is getting to me..I think I need a holiday.
or just come to toronto one day and have a group hug.....the future is unpredictable..oh yes it is.
or maybe get my ninja kitten in my avatar to have a word with ya. :P

[kristopin]

This is my thread. I wanted insight on this topic sheesh! Why can't we all just get along for once. No one and I mean NO ONE is better then the other. We are all equals! No matter what education you have, no matter what gender, race, nationality WE ALL BLEED WHEN CUT.

This thread would be useful, but within the time I left for work and just getting home there is a volley of stuff between tasha and tia and jen. WTF! why do this on my thread leaves a bad taste, I have respect for all the girls on this board. Personally I'm not mad at both any of you just mad you took your disagreement into my thread.

sigh!

argh! that was a bitchfest from me...must sleep...work is getting to me..I think I need a holiday.
or just come to toronto one day and have a group hug.....the future is unpredictable..oh yes it is.
or maybe get my ninja kitten in my avatar to have a word with ya. :P

hope your ninja kitten doesnt get hold of my puppy. haha

take care

[Tasha Jones RIP]

Well yes and no!

Let's look at what happened last night in a different light.


I think over all we handled our disagreement in a very good way. There was no name calling or threats. We posted our thoughts and expressed our views and said we were sorry. I think that should be what is looked at here not what one person said or that this thread was hi-jacked.


We were adults and did not do the normal Tranny fighting that happens on this board.


This was really a good thing, because Paula, maybe you can see the different sides to all of us. Maybe by looking at those different sides you can see a part of yourself or someone you never wish to be. It also might show you how we deal with stress or the different views of one Transsexual to anther. Most important, how we deal with each other.


We as Transsexuals have no other choice but deal with each other at some point. On a board or in person at an event. From what I see, your looking for people who are in the same boat as yourself. By watching how things have been handled in the past and how things were handled last night. You might see how Transsexuals act towards each other and grow and move past the past issues they once faced.


For me, I am the same in person and on the board. I might get more heated when I see something I do not like and let my fingers do my talking, which sometimes gets me into trouble. But at least you know with me, what you see is always what you will get. Nothing fake but my Tits & Lips. That is important in this life to always be yourself and do not let this life change you or as you said make you cold. It is also important to be open to other peoples thoughts, you can always learn new things and new ways to deal with things.


Hope this helps and Paula, but to be honest, I am glad you started this topic, because I really think it has gotten us all talking like adults and each post that has been posted has really showed who we really are as people and told a little bit about ourselves. This really is a good thing at the end of the day and should be welcomed on this board.


Tasha