"I Left a Voice Msg On X-Bf Dallas Machine, While His Gf Still Lives With Him! LOL"

[hung&tight]

I still think it's still kinda gay for a man to have sex with a shemale, period! End of story!

I totally agree with this, ive never had sex with a man, but ive had a few experiences with t-girls, and i felt gay about it (im not proud of it) i see it like a bad fetish (some people got a fetish for crack/cocaine, some for tgirls) but i wont be going to rehab

[jiggler]

It's such an interesting topic as everyone has different opinions on this. I've had friends ask me if I was gay or bi because I find tgirls attractive and I've always answered no.

See for me, I'm attracted to femininity whether it's genetic girls or tgirls. I'm not attracted to men at all and would much rather have sex with a hot tgirl than an ugly woman. The idea of banging a manly guy with body/facial absolutely repulses me. Call me shallow, but I'm just attracted to beautiful women, regardless of what's below the belt.

When i was younger, living up north with my redneck, bible thumping family and friends, I believed that a person's gender was undisputedly defined by their genitals. After moving to Toronto and talking to trans/gay friends, I soon changed that opinion as it was obviously much deeper than that. Many of my friends here, even the open minded ones still disagree with me. To them a tgirl is just a man with a few surgeries, end of story. I still disagree with them and think gender is defined by how you live/act/feel on the inside.

So with all that being said, am I bi for being attracted to femininity? My answer? Who fuckin cares? Labels are for gimps with nothing better to do with their time. I'm happy.

[prayer]

It's such an interesting topic as everyone has different opinions on this. I've had friends ask me if I was gay or bi because I find tgirls attractive and I've always answered no.

See for me, I'm attracted to femininity whether it's genetic girls or tgirls. I'm not attracted to men at all and would much rather have sex with a hot tgirl than an ugly woman. The idea of banging a manly guy with body/facial absolutely repulses me. Call me shallow, but I'm just attracted to beautiful women, regardless of what's below the belt.

When i was younger, living up north with my redneck, bible thumping family and friends, I believed that a person's gender was undisputedly defined by their genitals. After moving to Toronto and talking to trans/gay friends, I soon changed that opinion as it was obviously much deeper than that. Many of my friends here, even the open minded ones still disagree with me. To them a tgirl is just a man with a few surgeries, end of story. I still disagree with them and think gender is defined by how you live/act/feel on the inside.

So with all that being said, am I bi for being attracted to femininity? My answer? Who fuckin cares? Labels are for gimps with nothing better to do with their time. I'm happy.

You totally get it! I love that.


I think people over-think it a bit.
Being a t-girl is simply about identity. If we identify with a female, from an early enough start... Thanks to makeup, medicine, habit, will, talent, art, etc... We can project what we feel inside. Like a mask that's true... And if men grow up attracted to what we project... It's simple math. I know this because there are more heterosexuals on this earth and I seem to turn more heads the more I transition... I somehow doubt I get doors opened for me all the time and get away with murder for my subtle (if any) remaining masculine features from the majority of the males that pay attention...

Though, I have encountered the occasional confused soul as a client... I find it very, very rare and unfortunate... Because I am sure they must be hiding it for a reason... And though it's sad you have to respect it unless you live in their shoes. And if you are fulfilling something they desire, what's the harm in that? Isn't it good to be that to someone? Whether it's because they grew up somewhere that it wasn't accepted (I know one that this was just the case) or they simply aren't strong enough to live "out". Not everybody has the thick skin that us transitioning/transitioned (same as the ones that aren't inside) transsexuals have! But I never judge or speak my mind because to each his own. USUALLY if they are confused, it is pretty obvious. We've ALL met them. They exist. Ricky Martins. haha. More metero than a tv interior designer and have to constantly reaffirm their "love of women", can't go near it, etc..And you never know! Sexual preference is defined by which sex we desire to sleep with. NOT the mannerisms we have learned. So I try to respect and give the benefit of the doubt. Plus if someone wanted to be with a man... I think they could do it just as easily or discreetly. And they'd probably be able to find a BIGGER cock than some of the most popular transsexuals! Easily! And discreetly... Probably cheaper too! Haha...

Any insecurities that a partner is attracted to men would only reflect an insecurity in yourself. Luckily (?) I don't have any. So... Even if 100 designer guys are lined around the block, I will know I am a goddess. And I believe that believing it is also what makes it come true, with time. And afterall, Rome wasn't built in a day... But they must have known what it would look like finished, from conception!!!!!

Part of why I've come this far at 20 is because I have always accepted myself, despite what my small town or school (or anyone) where I hailed from thought of me. I've had enough practice in a heel or skirt... Mastered makeup... And out-walk, stand more poised, out-seduce, out-manner, out-flirt, and out-express most genetic females I know... And wait 5 years! Ahh! !! AHH!!! Like... What heterosexual man Wouldn't want to poke me!? -Squeels like a schoolgirl- I can't wait! For my poom-poom.

P.s. Barbie, I think your confidence is a force to be reckoned with and adore the attitude... Some of my heros are Madonna, when she was her bitchiest, Whitney at her bitchiest, Sarah Michelle Gellar in Cruel Intentions, etc... I totally love confidence, sass. But... There is a way to refine it to the details. Instead of blunt words like "fag". But maybe your intentions aren't so much to offend as they are to provoke or draw attention?

Xo
Grace

[greep]

Barbie Shallows: I"M almost positive am NOT GAY!!!!!!

[jiggler]

You totally get it! I love that.


I think people over-think it a bit.
Being a t-girl is simply about identity. If we identify with a female, from an early enough start... Thanks to makeup, medicine, habit, will, talent, art, etc... We can project what we feel inside. Like a mask that's true... And if men grow up attracted to what we project... It's simple math. I know this because there are more heterosexuals on this earth and I seem to turn more heads the more I transition... I somehow doubt I get doors opened for me all the time and get away with murder for my subtle (if any) remaining masculine features from the majority of the males that pay attention...

Though, I have encountered the occasional confused soul as a client... I find it very, very rare and unfortunate... Because I am sure they must be hiding it for a reason... And though it's sad you have to respect it unless you live in their shoes. And if you are fulfilling something they desire, what's the harm in that? Isn't it good to be that to someone? Whether it's because they grew up somewhere that it wasn't accepted (I know one that this was just the case) or they simply aren't strong enough to live "out". Not everybody has the thick skin that us transitioning/transitioned (same as the ones that aren't inside) transsexuals have! But I never judge or speak my mind because to each his own. USUALLY if they are confused, it is pretty obvious. We've ALL met them. They exist. Ricky Martins. haha. More metero than a tv interior designer and have to constantly reaffirm their "love of women", can't go near it, etc..And you never know! Sexual preference is defined by which sex we desire to sleep with. NOT the mannerisms we have learned. So I try to respect and give the benefit of the doubt. Plus if someone wanted to be with a man... I think they could do it just as easily or discreetly. And they'd probably be able to find a BIGGER cock than some of the most popular transsexuals! Easily! And discreetly... Probably cheaper too! Haha...

Any insecurities that a partner is attracted to men would only reflect an insecurity in yourself. Luckily (?) I don't have any. So... Even if 100 designer guys are lined around the block, I will know I am a goddess. And I believe that believing it is also what makes it come true, with time. And afterall, Rome wasn't built in a day... But they must have known what it would look like finished, from conception!!!!!

Part of why I've come this far at 20 is because I have always accepted myself, despite what my small town or school (or anyone) where I hailed from thought of me. I've had enough practice in a heel or skirt... Mastered makeup... And out-walk, stand more poised, out-seduce, out-manner, out-flirt, and out-express most genetic females I know... And wait 5 years! Ahh! !! AHH!!! Like... What heterosexual man Wouldn't want to poke me!? -Squeels like a schoolgirl- I can't wait! For my poom-poom.

P.s. Barbie, I think your confidence is a force to be reckoned with and adore the attitude... Some of my heros are Madonna, when she was her bitchiest, Whitney at her bitchiest, Sarah Michelle Gellar in Cruel Intentions, etc... I totally love confidence, sass. But... There is a way to refine it to the details. Instead of blunt words like "fag". But maybe your intentions aren't so much to offend as they are to provoke or draw attention?

Xo
Grace

and that's why I'll be calling you soon Grace!

[Rose]

Sarah Michelle Gellar in Cruel Intentions

Mm, good choice.

Hey Lisa, how have you been? Staying out of troub...No, I forgot who I was talking to.

[handpuppetboy]

You know Mandy & Todd had the right idea when they opened there club and promoted "Pansexual" rather then just shemale/gay.


But then there is guys out there who only want a girl or a shemale. There not into guys at all. Those guys to me maybe be Bi, but not gay. They see us as woman with something extra and they treat us that way.

What about guys who loved getting fucked with a strap on (I just got one by the way...lol) An ass in some ways is like a pussy. It has feelings and sometimes like to be played with and brings a new sexual level. For me the real thing is better then plastic anyday!

I really think the term "Pansexual" works best for me because I am a pig when it comes to sex. I enjoy, woman, men and sometimes a tranny, only if there is a cam on or money on the table..lol

Tasha

Agree.

I do not like men in any way shape or form. I am however a male that has discovered through Tantric, that my anal sphincter and prostate bring the hottest orgasms I have ever had, and it has also taught me the difference between an ejaculation and an orgasm, and how to be multi orgasmic. So I do enjoy a digit or a dildo inserted in me at times, and a dominate women with a strap on can bend me the fuck over any day.

From Wiki: Pansexuality, or omnisexuality[1] is a sexual orientation characterized by the potential for aesthetic attraction, romantic love, or sexual desire for people, regardless of their gender identity or biological sex. Some pansexuals suggest that they are gender-blind; that gender and sex are insignificant or irrelevant in determining whether they will be sexually attracted to others.[2] For others, an individual's sex, gender expression, or gender identity can be a key factor of attraction, despite the pansexual individual's wide range of sex and gender attractions.

I would say that I am pansexual, in the sense that I will do whatever pleases my partner, whether she has a vagina or a dick, if a t-girl does not enjoy their penis being stimulated, I won't go there, but if she does, then I will.

I had the honor of being with Tasha here in Ottawa as her escort LOL, it was non-sexual, and I met her as a person, not as my escort, and I was not her client. She was every bit a woman, well mannered polite, and frisky as shit(the poor delivery guy). The whole time I was looking at her as a women, and as the day progressed, I was even more captivated by who she was, not what she was. My attraction to her grew much the same way the would as if I was on a date with a GG. If the opportunity for sex had come about, and if she enjoyed having her penis stimulated(some do not, and resent the thing) I would be all over it, as I was doing something that pleases her, and if she is dominate and wanted to bend me over, does that make me gay,,,,,,,,,, I think not.

To me a t-girl, is more sexual open, fun and slightly aggressive than GG's, and as a pansexual person, I would easily get into an LTR with the right one.

[Rose]

Really well put, HandPuppetBoy. More people should have that state of mind.

[handpuppetboy]

Really well put, HandPuppetBoy. More people should have that state of mind.

Thank you.

I would give you a rose, but you are already one, so instead here's a *Tulip*

[Rose]

Aww. Such a gentleman. Thank you very much.

[Barbie_Swallows]

Not at all, I prefer good attitudes and positivity. Your bashing shows your real insecurities. Sorry man, I'm not down with the haters.

You're funny u little fucking bitch! I bet u don't have a big monster cock like the guy in the pic down below!

[handpuppetboy]

You're funny u little fucking bitch! I bet u don't have a big monster cock like the guy in the pic down below!

And that means what? Sorry Barbie, you are definitely not the most feminine woman on here, so having tits does not make you a tgirl.

Another well thought out, highly educated response.
What do you expect from a crude, barely educated fag hag.

[wgcd2]

Yeah, I'm gay but I don't really care. To me being attracted to dick in any form is gay (bi-sexual), even if I'm only attracted to tgirls. There was a time I was repulsed by anyone with a penis but that has obviously changed. Although I can't read minds, I'm sure most guys are still that way and they're the ones that are straight. I wouldn't fuck an ugly crossdresser or anyone that appears to be a man but I find it hot to fuck a lady with a dick, which is gay. I don't have to think of myself as 100% straight to feel manly, if other guys in my situation have to think that then do you.

[jiggler]

You're funny u little fucking bitch! I bet u don't have a big monster cock like the guy in the pic down below!

haha honey I *AM* a funny bitch, the funniest bitch you'll ever meet. Not to mention my cock is about the same size as that guy's in length, mine's a bit thicker though. Pretty damn close. I give you props for finding a close comparison. And I don't talk shit, I just tell it how it is. How the hell did you think I got the name joe jiggler from (dirk diggler hello). .........

anyhow haha, wow these forums ARE pretty fun.

[Rose]

Why can't we all just get drunk, and be friendly?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fgBMyQoh4oY