What is it about us that attracts us to T girls

[Tonia Lee Heart]

I had a date a few nights back and asked him this question. I was surprised to hear him repeat the same thing I have said about the shemale attraction. He told me that he finds traps to be sexy because "they care about being feminine".
A shemale will present herself caring about how she is presenting herself. Passing means a lot to me, being cute means a lot to me and even my age is a factor pushing me to be at my very best.
I've seen many women my age and it's as if they just stopped giving a shit. When an adult woman makes effort she can be amazingly seductive.
I care about being feminine because in my mind I am female.
This shows and men are attracted to chicks.
So, we are like superimposed chicks just... with a penis.

[toban]

You are absolutely right about what men like in a TS Tonia!

But Tonia, why don't you try to make it easier on yourself by adjusting your outlook a little? Try considering that you are simply a girl who has an unusually larger clit than most girls. I know from experience that clits come in all sizes and shapes and some GG have clits of an inch while others are minuscle. I can testify also that all clits, big or small like to be stimulated just the same as any penis does.

That sensitive clit was always my focal point when with a GG as it is now when I'm with a TG! Mmmm Mmmm

BTW Tonia, please do not leave the forum on account of some inconsiderate asshole! You are very refreshing! Hang in.

I had a date a few nights back and asked him this question. I was surprised to hear him repeat the same thing I have said about the shemale attraction. He told me that he finds traps to be sexy because "they care about being feminine".
A shemale will present herself caring about how she is presenting herself. Passing means a lot to me, being cute means a lot to me and even my age is a factor pushing me to be at my very best.
I've seen many women my age and it's as if they just stopped giving a shit. When an adult woman makes effort she can be amazingly seductive.
I care about being feminine because in my mind I am female.
This shows and men are attracted to chicks.
So, we are like superimposed chicks just... with a penis.

[Tonia Lee Heart]

That and your all perverts.

[Einstein]

That and your all perverts.

You seem to have something blue going into your
rear end. If I were you I would search your house
for smurfs.

[Reaper]

ROFL Einstein you're just too damn hilarious! On topic...don't know why I'm attracted to them but I am...I guess girls get boring at one point.

[Tonia Lee Heart]

You seem to have something blue going into your
rear end. If I were you I would search your house
for smurfs.

Those are my poochy beads, babe.

[Fudgepacker]

i've thought quite a bit about this myself. i think the taboo aspect certainly has something to do with it, and also because t-girls often have exaggerated feminine features and attitudes, which tantalizes the heterosexual in all of us. for some people i've talked to it's nothing more than another fairweather fetish for those desensitized by too much internet porn

I have a lot of women in my lifetime, and can relate to your saying women get boring. The heterosexual tantalization was a good observation, and who better to know what exactly is needed than a TS. Desensitization via internet porn is absolutely a player in the equation for myself. When I first got internet (Win 3) like wow, the time I would spend just exploring things that til then were not accessible much less thought existing. Eventually I grew bored of it all cause I had seen it all pretty much. But one day I just do not know what it was but I found myself interested in TS porn and from there I took it to the next step. God knows what it was that cause me to do that .... I guess I am searching that one out still ,,,, thus thus thread .....

Some great response from those who have taken the time to reply thanks!

I don't feel gay whatsoever for having been with a TS, it actually feels perfectly comfortable to me especially when a TS (I know she is a SW, but they are people too and some are very interesting to talk with) has a great energy about her that harmonizes with mine (call it karma for lack of a better word). There are a few TS's that I have had the pleasure of meeting, and have had some really great discussions on just about anything.

[jhnewman]

Why tgirls?

For me, I think (and this is horrible to admit, I suppose) I just got tired of pussy---the taste, the smell---and once I got my first taste of cum I was hooked.

Aside from that, the great thing about tgirls is you still have the enjoyment of fucking a smooth, toned and feminine body...in the ass! lol

Finally,the tgirls I've met just seem like so much more fun somehow, personality-wise.

[Einstein]

Those are my poochy beads, babe.

LMFAO no shit?

I coulda sworn them smurfs were abound messing around
with your naughty bits. Go check teh kitty and see if it is
really azreal. If it isn't then I would suggest using my cock
next time. It's safer and warmer then the bead things.

[Tonia Lee Heart]

LMFAO no shit?

I coulda sworn them smurfs were abound messing around
with your naughty bits. Go check teh kitty and see if it is
really azreal. If it isn't then I would suggest using my cock
next time. It's safer and warmer then the bead things.

That's nice.

[toban]

Your story is almost identical to my own introduction to transexuality!

Yes, even to the many women in my life, both before I was married and after losing my wife as well - and there were very many girls altogether, though I can't really say I had become bored with them, it was just that I did not know every kind of enjoyment that might be available to me.

Eventually, just like you, I did get a computer (Windows 95 for me though) and internet, then just as you did, got into porn and eventualy discovered something that I too was completely unaware of before - transexuals! OMG! How did I ever miss that!

After getting hooked on that genre of porn I decided that I should find out what it might be like to meet such a girl in person - a real, live, warm, touchy-feely, T-girl in 3D. The next step for me included more internet work which uncovered a treasure trove of TS's in Toronto (there were none in my home city) and so I made arrangements to take a trip there to experience all of this firsthand. I have written this story several times before in posts on various threads here in the forum.

My first encounter, despite my nervousness, went extremely well, so good did I feel about it that I saw several more girls on that trip before I left for home. So memorable was it all that I have come back to Toronto many times, over and over again, to find more and more of the same.
I am very pleased as I look back at those times and the many fine girls I have met along the way, and consider them to be a very important part of my life experiences!

I do regret though, that it took me so long to make that discovery. Now, as my time to enjoy runs out I know that I have missed out on a lot that might have been.

On second thought, maybe it is just as well I didn't find this out sooner or I'd probably be broke and on wefare now.

I have a lot of women in my lifetime . . . . . . . . When I first got internet (Win 3) like wow, the time I would spend just exploring things that til then were not accessible much less thought existing. Eventually I grew bored of it all cause I had seen it all pretty much.But one day I just do not know what it was but I found myself interested in TS porn and from there I took it to the next step. God knows what it was that cause me to do that .... I guess I am searching that one out still ,,,, thus thus thread .....

Some great response from those who have taken the time to reply thanks!

I don't feel gay whatsoever for having been with a TS, it actually feels perfectly comfortable to me especially when a TS (I know she is a SW, but they are people too and some are very interesting to talk with) has a great energy about her that harmonizes with mine (call it karma for lack of a better word). There are a few TS's that I have had the pleasure of meeting, and have had some really great discussions on just about anything.

[junyer69]

That's nice.

You are a HUGE cock tease.. I LOVE YOU!

[discovigilante]

difference is the norm

Sorry to say but their is no truth to be found in this question.

Sexuality is a diverse spectrum of desire powered by wants and needs that are both produced through social and biological factors.

I might have said this before but, the titles of gay, lesbian, and straight are as equally prejudicial as an vulgar insult you may have heard.

We are all transgendered. This means no one exists perfectly as a MAN or a WOMAN. They are cultural constructs. We all divert from that archetypal path of strict gender code out to our own personal paths. Thereby, even if you state yourself as gay, lesbian or straight you will find yourself in the company of many who do not accurately share your sexual tastes.

[Fudgepacker]

Sorry to say but their is no truth to be found in this question.

Sexuality is a diverse spectrum of desire powered by wants and needs that are both produced through social and biological factors.

I might have said this before but, the titles of gay, lesbian, and straight are as equally prejudicial as an vulgar insult you may have heard.

We are all transgendered. This means no one exists perfectly as a MAN or a WOMAN. They are cultural constructs. We all divert from that archetypal path of strict gender code out to our own personal paths. Thereby, even if you state yourself as gay, lesbian or straight you will find yourself in the company of many who do not accurately share your sexual tastes.

I am listening ...

[lover22]

for me personally im attracted to the body of a women and the ass, but mainly the cock. I could never be w a man, but a dick on a woman is unreal to me. i have never sucked cock before but i wanna try it so bad