What is it about us that attracts us to T girls

[sunshine]

couldn't agree more

Sorry to say but their is no truth to be found in this question.

Sexuality is a diverse spectrum of desire powered by wants and needs that are both produced through social and biological factors.

I might have said this before but, the titles of gay, lesbian, and straight are as equally prejudicial as an vulgar insult you may have heard.

We are all transgendered. This means no one exists perfectly as a MAN or a WOMAN. They are cultural constructs. We all divert from that archetypal path of strict gender code out to our own personal paths. Thereby, even if you state yourself as gay, lesbian or straight you will find yourself in the company of many who do not accurately share your sexual tastes.

I completely agree with this. We are each individuals - experiencing life through our eyes only and we each like what we have come to like. It is all very personal. Words like Gay, Straight, Bisexual, Man, Woman - they are only boxes that we try to put people in. But we don't live in these boxes and these boxes do not accurately represent the world as we see it personally.

Everyone should try to accept themselves and simply enjoy what is enjoyable to us. We should worry so much about what it "means" or what other people "think" - it doesn't "mean" anything! It is what it is.

However, I might add something interesting that I heard. I sometimes listen to a Radio show with Dr. Drew. The show is often quite amusing and informative. He has talked about this phenomena and mentions a specific formative influence. He says that men, exposed to pornography at a young age (or even at a later point) are exposed to numerous images featuring both the penis and the vagina. It is quite easy to understand that both can become associated with pleasure and become part of the construct of what we consider attractive. And he is referring to "straight" porno here - not T-girls. I don't think we can generalize but I see his point. Pursuing this line of thought, as T-girls become more numerous, a large segment of the male population is predisposed to find them attractive.

Sunshine

[toban]

Yes, that is exactly what happened to me!

. . . . . . . . . He says that men, exposed to pornography at a young age (or even at a later point) are exposed to numerous images featuring both the penis and the vagina. It is quite easy to understand that both can become associated with pleasure and become part of the construct of what we consider attractive. And he is referring to "straight" porno here - not T-girls. I don't think we can generalize but I see his point. Pursuing this line of thought, as T-girls become more numerous, a large segment of the male population is predisposed to find them attractive.

Sunshine

As soon as I saw my first T-girl I was taken completely by their attractiveness. Thus began the chain of events that landed me here.

When I grew up as a teen, way back when (late 30's-40's), and even later as a young adult, even if they did exist, T-girls were unknown to me. It was not until much later in life, after being widowed and after purchasing my first computer, that I became aware of, quite innocently, I might say, of the presence of T-girls.

Had I become aware as a youth of their existence I am certain that my life would have unfolded very differently. As a teen I grew up not knowing anything of transgenderism, especially mtf girls, so when I first discovered this, much too late in life really, I was totally in awe!

As Sunshine has mentioned, as T-girls become more and more numerous it becomes so much easier for many more males to become aware of their existence and their beauty. So then, more and more males will become enamoured of them as she points out.

Actually, advertising and sales promotion do exactly the same. They make something known to the public. When people do not know about a product they will not look for it! If it is a first-class product, people will be sure to investigate.

After what I saw, I thought T-girls were an excellent work of art and so I investgated - that is exactly what happened to me and why I am here.

[mexguy]

I love the feminity of transexuals. I have only been with 2 ts's and they have been awesome experiences. I don't see the first one anymore but hang out with my current tgirl at least twice a week. So much funner than a GG.

[alhena]

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