Need advice and help asap!!

[Sqrat1]

I have done all of that, and even had a cop call her, and she is still threatening to come to the office, she doesn't care if she is arrested, wants to talk to my boss to tell him and the whole building that i'm into TS girls. She says she is going to do whatever it takes to make me suffer. What is with this girl?? Willing to risk going to jail for a long time for saying I gyped her $60, which I did not. I even offered to give her the supposed $60 she is missing, just to appease her, but didn't want it. I am now at a loss.

1) Tell her she is wrong and tell her to stop. This now gives you grounds for a harassment charge if she persists.

2) Tell her you will have her charged with extortion. Let's say, for sake of argument, she was shortchanged at the time. She left with your money. If she failed to count it properly, that is not your fault. Can you imagine going to a store, paying the sticker price on something, you taking your goods home, and then they call you a few hours later saying "oh, you owe us more money, we goofed". Legally they must eat the loss. And in this case, legally she must eat the loss.

3) Threaten to have her charged with tresspassing if she comes to your workplace.

[incognitos]

at least give us a few clues so that we can start a witch-hunt.

[lucy]

I am amazed at this story?I know almost all of the girls in Toronto and Montreal,none of us are that low&ugly.
can you tell us her name?at least it will be good for the clients so they won't bother seeing her...
If I were you I would't even think twice to call the cops on her,we don't want that kind of people in our community...

I have done all of that, and even had a cop call her, and she is still threatening to come to the office, she doesn't care if she is arrested, wants to talk to my boss to tell him and the whole building that i'm into TS girls. She says she is going to do whatever it takes to make me suffer. What is with this girl?? Willing to risk going to jail for a long time for saying I gyped her $60, which I did not. I even offered to give her the supposed $60 she is missing, just to appease her, but didn't want it. I am now at a loss.

[sunshine]

Playing on your fears

I have personally gone out to outcalls to a gentleman's workplace. Nothing bad has ever happened. It seems a bit risky to me but if that is the client's wish, I have no objection. So, in itself, I don't think that should be a problem.

Whether incall or outcall, there is always a risk for both the girl and the client. That is why sites like this are an invaluable resource. It is one of the tools the client can use to gauge the likelihood of a satisfactory outcome to the events of the evening (or the morning, as the case may be).

Sqrat 1, I think your statement that you made an error in your selection is probably accurate. However, you shouldn't feel that this is your fault. This girl is out to rip you off. She has lied about not being paid enough and is now extorting you for $3000. She is a criminal. She is playing on your fear.

Here is what I think. I am the last person to advocate bad reviews and trash-talking about girls. but you need to expose her on this site as well as any other site you can post on. Let other clients know all her particulars. If you want, do it in the format of a review. Say how the date went and be sure to include that she is trying to extort you for $3000. You need to do this if you ever want to get the upper hand. Paying her $3000 would be an error. She may ask for more, claiming that you shorted her again (a joke). She may take the money and still make trouble for you. Put your fear aside and take action against her in ANY AND EVERY way you can. I am not suggesting you break the law but, at least, stop protecting her identity. Proceed against her with a private detective, the police, anything but giving her one dime.

I know that there are a few girls that engage in scams of various kinds. Not only is this bad for clients, this is bad for business. We all need to chip in and stop this bad behavior if we know about it.

That's my 2 cents worth of advice. Have courage!

Sunshine

[jhnewman]

You've already done the right thing by alerting security, getting the police involved, and not giving her dime one.

Regarding your workplace, it seems to me that you can go two ways with this. For one thing, you can simply DENY, DENY, DENY if she shows up. (You have never met her; you have NO IDEA who she is!) Your word against hers, and I'm betting you can be more convincing with your denials than she with her accusations.

Although its unlikely, suppose she somehow gets your boss and co-workers to buy her story? What is your greatest fear then? That you will be discovered as the guy who entertains escorts at his office? Or the guy who entertains TGIRL escorts? Does it even matter? Just my opinion, but I think guys who see tgirls should be willing to admit their true proclivities if "outed."

I agree with the poster who suggested you could always do a Letterman if needed: admit you did it, express your regret, and volunteer for sex addiction counselling or whatever might mitigate against punishment or reprisals at work. (If you work at a place that has good health benefits you can definitely spin this as an illness)

I wish you the best in all this. Hopefully, it will simply go away. Between threats and action there is often a yawning gulf.

[Sqrat1]

Well I'm happy to say, she has not showed up here yet, and threats ceased last night, so far..lol She is from Vancouver, or so she said and supposed to be leaving town today, to where I'm not sure. She was posted on craigslist. I think If I don't hear from her today, I will be ok.

If she showed up it is definately her word vs. mine, and I think my work would take my word over hers.

Thanks everyone for their help and tips, I have definately learned from this experience.

[MissLucille]

I'm seconding Tasha's idea about saving the Txt's. First off she's using fear to keep control of you. She is not going to call the call the cops and draw attention to herself too. Id save all the texts and go to the officer mentioned who works with the sexworkers, part of us being protected is making sure Girls like this don't create hostile envrioments by scamming and extorting clients. Im sure your stress levels have been enormous over this? And yes please do let us all know who it is, give her a taste of being hung over the coals.

PS, we're not all scammers despite your current circumstances

Miss Lucille

http://tgirl-cams.com/live-sex-chat/...e/Miss_Lucille

[cooldude]

Just pay her.

[agenteightysix]

I am in complete agreement that you should be posting her name.

I'm from Vancouver and I would be pretty pissed if, due to you not having stated who she is, it results in myself, or any other member of this board, getting scammed by this person sometime in the future.

I wouldn't be surprised if this person turns out to have the capacity to cause harm to clients in a myriad of ways ? and you could have done something to prevent such actions from happening.

You are enabling her by protecting her identity.

[Jizelle]

ultimately you need to think of yourself before going and helping others. while she definitely needs to be outted for her trickery, you still need to ensure that you'll be ok and safe. anyways its really up to you. no pressure or anything but it looks like alot of people would eventually appreciate for her identity to be revealed. i mean it would be horrible if it happened again.

[markerverse]

A Tale of Two Wrongs

i believe you've gone just as far as you can go with this obvious hoax, Too many holes in your scenario. You were for example, you're quick to point out 'she' didn't count your offering. In the real world the business woman doesn't make that error. If you're the office executive you appear to be, your many experiences in the past with the girls have already alerted you to the tricks of the trade. Do hope you enjoyed your forum fun.

[Fudgepacker]

Troll ? I hear you brother ! Possibility perhaps but lets discuss this exact scenario anyways because maybe people out there they need to know !