Spa Night Fun

[windan]

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Hi Amanda,

Just wondering if you could shed some light on what a newbie can expect when going to the spa for the first time. I'm from out of town but did attend a strippers night last summer and really enjoyed it. I was simply wondering because there is mention about private rooms for a fee is there a general party room where you can get to meet tghe girls or just socialize with others. Sorry if I sound silly but I am interested in attending but I would like to know what to expect before getting there and not look so inexperienced.

[butthunting]

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I was at tonights spa night as was very disappointed. I have attended previously on several occasions and thought that my luck would be better if I arrived a little later. There was no one there. I arrived around 10'30 and stuck around for an hour, the only lady there was Amanda (beautiful as ever!)
I have to say I wont be going back until I hear/read that there are more ladies there. This is not a comment towards the organizers, just my opinion, having paid $40 for a room and walked around alone for an hour, I left a little disappointed.

[Samara]

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omg, you just CAN NOT say it any "BETTER"; thank you, i do agree with every word u saying. i wish every man think the way u do. sometimes, it is just better to say it :the way it is. and i hope everyione take the time ur post to read ur post carfully and get ur point. well done, lol, u the "Dirty Old Man" i love it.

xoxoox
Samara.

Hello - I am a big fan of Amanda's website and events, and was just informed about this message board. After spending the past couple hours reading all of the fascinating information, I feel I have to speak my mind on this particular post about the recent "changes" at the T-Girl Spa due to the indiscretion of girls.

What is shocking me is just how lacking in intelligence some of you are. Please learn to read between the lines, and understand that Amanda is a promoter, who has been providing us men with places to meet ladies for years, and obviously she cannot say blatantly what is going on, so she must protect her own rear-end (and it is indeed a nice rear end) which is why I think she has been making these recent "changes" in rules.

Money_g, your comment is a perfect example of someone missing the point - you are not going to ever find a place where beautiful T-girls are running around giving head to everyone for free. Sorry, it will not happen. You seem to think that Amanda has decided to kick out all working girls, when if you read between the lines, she is just trying to protect herself and all of us who are CONSENTING ADULTS trying to have fun.

I must disclose some personal details - I am 65 years young, I love shemales (particularly the surgically altered ones, but I have been known to appreciate the odd cross-dresser too, provided she is put together well), and Most Importantly, I like to pay for sex.

The spa has been a great place for me to visit, because I can discreetly pay girls for sex. I also have enjoyed the voyeuristic atmosphere of the one porno room, gosh those cross-dressers certainly are kinky (I'm talking full on orgies, people! No money exchanged!) So yes, guys, there indeed are ladies who are available for fun for free (more cross dressers than shemales), but I personally enjoy paying, so who is anyone to judge me?

I hope Amanda will not be upset at me writing this, but I feel the people who are posting on this board are mis-reading and misunderstanding Amanda's "coded" messages.

Here are some points, and I know they might be controversial, but I feel the internet is one of those places where honesty can exist, particularly when we can hide behind our anonymous personas.

FACT 1. Most T-Girls are escorts, prostitutes, whores, whatever you want to call it. At least many more of them are than genetic girls or boys. So guys who are into T-girls, please do not kid yourself and think you are going to visit an event, whether it be a club night or spa night or meeting a girl on the street, and not pay. As someone who was married for 30 years, trust me, there is always a price to pay with ladies anyways, so get used to it, even if you are young and handsome men.

FACT 2. When Amanda describes the laws about solicitation, she is making a necessary point, to protect the event. She has instructed the ladies that they must not ask for money, BECAUSE it was getting out of hand. I certainly experienced some indiscreet ladies soliciting people in the hallways in the past, and it was just distasteful, because they were doing it out loud, and everyone could hear.

But what I think Amanda is saying is that those of us who LIKE to pay should MAKE IT OBVIOUS. I can think of many simple ways to meet up with a lady without discussing money. How about "Would you like to come to my room and talk?" and then when we get into my room, I open my wallet and lay out a hundred or so bucks on the table, and wink at the girl. Nothing has been discussed. At least then, if she knows that I am open to paying, she can quietly discuss further. I don't think anyone is going to be kicked out if they know that they are dealing with someone who likes to pay. I think some of the ladies are so worried that they are going to be complained about for asking money, that they are going to stop coming to the spa.
Or how about if you are someone who is NOT looking to pay, you use your brains, and quit being delusional, and realize that if you look at a beautiful lady who you also is a known escort, that you are probably not going to be having sex for free with her. Don't try to get her to ask you for money, so you can make a scene and rock the boat and complain.

THE MAIN REASON I AM WRITING THIS POST IS because I was at the spa the other evening, and I am concerned that Amanda's message is being lost, because she simply cannot say what she probably is thinking out loud, she can only speak in code.

GUYS - Listen to me, and listen to me hard. There ARE ladies who go to the spa who want to be paid for their time. Make it easy for them, and do not try to weasel free sex out of them. If you go into a room with a lady and she pauses, and waits, and then leaves, you can assume that she was following the rules and not asking for money, and since you didn't offer, she is not interested.

If you are looking for free sex or even just an atmosphere where you can meet other T-girl lovers, or even be voyeurs watching beautiful shemales and T-girls wander around in a non-threatening environment, then come to the spa - there are definitely times when T-girls have fun, for free, but you should leave it up to them. Don't take the attitude that "katt" took when he posted "unfortunately there were a couple girls working" - katt, you are missing the point, if NO working girls attend the spa, then sorry, there will be no spa. (See FACT 1 above for reference). (And for those who like free sex, do visit the orgy room, as I have said. I have seen Tasha, a hot shemale, surrounded by men, and not being paid, and I have also once had the good fortune of seeing Natasha get fucked up the ass in the orgy room, possibly not being paid.)

To keep an event like this going, we have to all respect reality. I understand why some people are reading this board, and reading Amanda's post, and are thinking "Oh, great, there is a place I can go where no one will charge me". But unfortunately, the world is not that way.

As someone who has been going to the Lounge since before it was called the Lounge, back in the days when cover was $40, and then Remington's, mainly when Amanda was managing it, and someone who has been attending the spa nights off and on since they first started last year, please respect that I know what I am talking about.

NOTE - these are my own interpretations, Amanda has nothing to do with this, and in fact, I do not know Amanda well personally, I just admire her from afar and say hello. Amanda, if I am wrong about anything, just correct me, but I am sure you will just keep quiet because you are clever and do not want to implicate yourself in anything illegal.

(Apologies for my rambling, I am literate and educated, but writing was never my forte, but you have to forgive me, I AM 65 after all..... senility is likely approaching, just kidding).

Since I do attend Amanda's events at least once a week, and also visit Remington's from time to time, hoping that things have changed for the better (sorry guys, they have not, but I will post elsewhere about this), I think you can expect to see me on the board more often, now that I know it exists.

I am retired, and have a lot of time on my hands, and would like to share my experiences with all of you great people!!!

For now, I am signing off, the Dirty Old Man.

[Tasha Jones RIP]

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I was also at last nights spa, I got there my normal time of 10 pm. Now you might not have seen them all but I know that there was about 6 girls last night in total. Most of the girls were in the rooms with “friends”. I know I was only out in the open for a short time when into anther room I went. But I was in the video room have alittle fun for awhile...strange you did not see me there

I am sorry you did not have a good time.

Tasha

[wutang]

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The law in Canada states prostitution is legal, but exchanging money for sex isn't.  It's really a catch 22 situation where one event can't proceed without the other.  To save yourself some heartache, don't participate in a proposition for sex in exhange for money openly, as this is illegal in Canada.  Humans have evolved a lot of non-verbal cues to communicate, so a simple nod or wink to suggest "I'll pay you for your services" will suffice.  Now I don't want to scare anyone but if the Metro Vice Squad were to "discretely" pay a visit to a Spa night, they would really have no case to suggest any illegal action if people followed the rules.  Keep this in mind when you attend the Spa nights. 

Pretty much it is seen as solicitation when someone does it out in the public realm but legal if it is done in private. Thats what Amanda is trying to say.

[Money_g]

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Quote: "I must disclose some personal details - I am 65 years young, I love shemales (particularly the surgically altered ones, but I have been known to appreciate the odd cross-dresser too, provided she is put together well), and Most Importantly, I like to pay for sex."

I missed the point? Let me just say this...I appreciate the points your trying to make...but cmon, you like to pay for sex? Thats because your 65 yrs old, and can't get it any other way. Furthermore, I just wanted to clarify...your Amanda's official PR guy? Even though she stated from day one, and again at the beginning of this post that spa nights provide a social setting for guys to meet Ts girls and vice versa? Of course as her official PR guy, you knew those were code words for "Please escort, please escort, please escort" right?

I don't subscribe to that, I personally think the girls are as lucky to have us there, as we are them. This is a social event....at a social club, whatever happens happens. If a girl wants to escort.....please STAY HOME! Save a little gas money, and work the phones. I'ts very dissapointing to attend one of these events, meet a pretty girl, and immediately get worked over for your wallet? And these same Ts girls wonder why men think of them only as escorts and hookers? Honestly, it seems like your only option is to rent escorts, and you desperately need it to remain that way? I like Amanda say......PLEASE STOP!

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[ordinaryguy]

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Some of the guys here are living in a fantasy world

[ShelbyWylde]

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Some of the guys here are living in a fantasy world

No? Really! 

[need2know]

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Hi Everyone,

I am thinking of attending the spa this Tuesday which ladies normally show up to the spa? I know around 12:00 am is the best time to attend but I have to ask since I like T-girls how often do other guys hit on other guys I know that this sounds bad but I am just curious and new to the spa?



Regards,
need2lknow

[Tasha Jones RIP]

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Other guys do not hot on other guys there. There have been some 3-4-5 & 10 somes, but it is not the guys who start that type of fun *wink*

I will be there this week ready to have some fun...

12 am is to late to show up!!! I get there around 10pm if that tells you anything!

Tasha
http://www.shemaletasha.com

[need2know]

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Hi Tasha,

        Thank you I would have felt like a real twit if I showed up to late I also have to say thank you for not making me feel uncomfortable for asking my questions. I hope to see you there.

lve

Regards,
Need2know

[azianice]

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I'm new here but intrigued by this "spa night". To be honest, I'm just a shy guy and am looking for someone nice to chat with..and get to know (aka not just sex). I'm just afraid I'd get there, knowing no one, and like someone put it perfectly "be sitting in the corner".

anyways, where can I get information on this spa night? as in..the where when how much type of deal. And do I need to bring anything in particular? lol..sorry for these questions!

[Shemale Amanda]

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The T-Girls who have been attending the Spa, have been requested not to ask for money in exchange for sex.
This activity (money for sex) has been mentioned on other message boards on the net, not just this one. The ladies have been informed that the Spa is not a Street and they are not to line up along the entrance, propositioning men in the locker area, jump on them as they arrive, or request money when they are invited to a room.
If a T-girl approaches someone in this manner, and it is brought to our attention, they will be asked to leave.
I know that Escorts attend this event and they are certainly invited to attend. But since they have been so totally indiscrete to the point that it has been announced publicly, then they screwed it up for themselves. What is discussed in a private room or outside the event is between two consenting adults, but not when it becomes public forum. And please do not come to me and say “all the girls here want money” that is not true! You are just barking up the wrong T-Girls. If you invite a lady to your room and she suddenly decides to leave, chances are she was working. She should not be working, but at least she is following the rules of not asking for money.
So to sum things up, everyone is welcome at the Spa including Escorts (on a night off). But Escorts will not be allowed to ask for money. There are T-Girls who attend this event to have fun and not work. And there are men who attend not wanting to pay for fun. These people should be left alone and not hassled to exchange money for sexual favors.
Please note: Calling it a "donation", money towards "a college fund", helping "to feed my cat" or giving money to buy "a new bra" does not making this exchange legal.
Prostitution is legal in this Country but asking for money in exchange for sex is not (go figure). Don't you think it would be better if it just wasn't discussed? It amazes me that people are just talking about these acts like they are discussing the weather. We need to realize that even freedom of speech has it's limits. I mean would you announce on a message board that you just robbed a Brinks truck at gun point? I think not!
Therefore please come by the Spa and have a good time. Men looking for Escorts and Escorts looking for men are still welcome of course. But keep in mind the rules of this event and remember what the Federal laws are.
Like I have said before on this board, we do not want to lose our events because people do not know how to be discrete and within the legal boundaries.
I hope to see you all there this evening or on a Tuesday in the near future.
If you are new to the Spa just introduce yourself to me and I will make sure you are not “sitting in the corner” unless you want to be.
I know that most of this post was a repeat, but maybe it will eventually sink in with people who take the time to “READ”. Anything that needs to be said about the Spa is in this message or posted on my website. The Spa is what you make it, don’t come expecting too much and you will probably get more than you expected.

Thank you,
Amanda
http://www.ladyplus.com/spa.htm

[tjtoy]

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Well got to say? being a newbie myself and really like the other newbie's? wondering about the spa;;;;; thank you all for the info on the spa? I will be attending to see myself and to meet some of you i hope ;;;;see i'm a long drive away ((Bill Hilly)) LOL but that said long way to go for something that might not be what i would be lookin for and bye the sounds of all i heard it is whatever you would won;t it to be? for mee it will be for meeting seeing and possibley a date for a latter time;;;;;;;;; Or mabee that's all a pile of shit I''ll be the guy in the middle of the pile? LOL again thanks to all and will see you at the spa soon i hope

[Money_g]

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Note to Shelby Wylde.....pls re read Amanda's ENTIRE post. Ain't no dream world here toots...if you wanna hook/escort/heck.....even pimp for that matter, STAY HOME! Some of us were doing just fine, and as Amanda advises, fellas, leave your wallets at home...you won't need em,

money