T-girls and feelings of guilt

[Kent Dorfman]

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Interesting point curious. I would say tgirls put more of an effort into being feminine than most GG's. Sure they have to because they weren't born with certain features, but it's nice, it's attractive and darned sexy. What they were born with just ads to the package.

[curious]

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hi yu oh the package love it Curious

[wrong guy]

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best not to reveal your interest in tgirls to straight girls..unless you never wanna get laid again. Don't bother dating a tgirl..if you want any sorta real realtionship, it won't work. find any tgirl in the gta that has a "normal"relationshisip they usually date total losers. why?? cuz those are the only guys that'll stay with them for any given period, sure, there are the exceptions. but, those are exceptions. Whom would want to date a girl that has escorted for years upon years and fucked half of Toronto? usually guys who have nothing else to choose from. I'm not saying that tgirls are not valuable, but, as for dating them, it's not the same as dating a female, alot of different issues will come up. from the people I've know that have given it an honest shot, they have been seriously disappointed with tgirl dating. If you look at a brief synopsis of what guys have said in this post, you'll see that most say to have fun with it, don't feel guilty and to just do as you feel. I strongly advise you to see it as a sexual interest as you would see being interested in females whom you'd see as hot or interesting in some way but you'd never take it into the relationship realm.

[Looper]

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I think there's a lot of truth in there.

[sportsboy]

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u talk too much babe

[Wob_m]

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Be careful, try to find a gurl who is enjoying her ride through life and with you as a trusted client. Look for tracks on the arms and offer them some crack just to see what they say. If tracks are present or she accepts the crack, chances are she will not ever be interested in YOU at all. This is basic knowledge and could be applied to any tg or gg or person in general. But tg's have the gift of seduction to seduce you and you might find yourself in way too deep to get out unscathed by some mixed up tg love affair, well you will think it's a love affair, but in this type of setting, you are just a source of income. Now that is just my opinion, my point of view.

Babe, that is great advice. Yes it happens, I know.

Stay safe

[curious]

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hi yu good advise but they are tempting Curious

[Kent Dorfman]

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[StephenS]

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Personally, I think guilt is highly over-rated!

There seems to be a human tendency towards feeling guilty about anything we have to keep secret from our friends and loved ones. If you end up getting plagued with it, I recommend getting professional advice. Alternately, you could just accept that you (and I) have interests that are not exactly "socially acceptable" at this time, in this culture! Well, at some time in history, most of what is today "socially acceptable" in the area of sex and sexuality, not so long ago was not!

I think as long as you are being responsible for the predictable impact on others, keeping secrets is fine, it might also be part of what you and I find exciting about it. I am always pushing the envelope and while others don't share my views on some subjects, I like to keep my secrets to a minimum - when I feel they are necessary, I think a board like this is a very good way to get expressed.

Have fun with it - if you think letting the secret out is not going to have any impact - consider that you might be deluding yourself. I recommend going to work on the guilt instead!

Steve

[crisis]

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Guilt is hard to get a fix on, because it is so often a result of society's taboos. Right and wrong are hard to determine. But freedom to be something you desire to be, shouldn't play a part what makes you feel guilty. We should accept people for who they are not what we think they should be. Maybe part of the attraction of being with someone who isn't the norm is our desire to challenge the system. It's more exciting, therefore an entenser high. I grew up catholic which left me with big guilt issues, that I've been trying to overcome most of my adult life. It's a big waste of time. Go out and experiment, don't judge people by conventional norms. That's wrong! We're too stuck on what everybody else will think of us and not enough caring about how it effects the people we associate with, like the TG's we are so enamored with in this forum.i

[Tennishasbeen]

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Interesting dream. I gotta ask...in you dream what shape/form does God appear in? I doubt you have heard of the author Robert Munsch....but he write children's books. And one of his books has God appearing as a little girl. It is the only book of his that you cannot buy.

I am not a man of faith, but I do find the subject intriguing and am always curious on people's perspectives on their own faith. I guess I suscribe to Karl Marx's view on religion, tempered with a little Groucho Marx.

By the way I admire the posts that you have made in this thread and I hope you don't sweat the negative/childish replies that you have or may receive.

THB

Hi Guys,

Hmm !! Guilt!! You know, i have this dream once in a while (and i do really) where i am standing before God in Heaven and i am being judged at the Judgement Day. It's a horrible, horrible dream!!!
In this dream of mine, I am asked by Jesus if i think i deserve to be permitted into Heaven, and why do i think i deserve it.

In my dream, i begin to think back of all the good things that i have said and done during my life on earth but ever time i try to speak to tell God all my good deeds in this dream of mine, i can feel Him looking directly into my soul as i speak - as He knows all my trespasses. His loving face studies me kindly but also knowingly, as i stand before Him trying to convince Him that I was a good person.

Aware that He knows all i had done on earth, being in His presence, alone, GUILTS me so badly that i begin crying and sobbing at His feet, begging for forgiveness for all the bad things i had done - things that only He knows about - the very things that i feel too GUILTY to even repeat, especially to Him.

It's difficult to try to look at anyone who really knows you and try to speak only of your good deeds when that person also knows all your bad deeds. The fact that there are bad deeds makes it really difficult. Now, place yourself at the feet of God.  (Geez, why am i telling you all this? )

So, ever since this dream began, i adopted a philosopy: "Understanding that with life there is hurt and pain, we must first try to approach everything and everyone we encounter with compassion."

I find it very sad how people, in general, are like stained-glass windows.
They S P A R K L E  and   S H I N E when the sun is out, but when the D A R K N E S S   sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a L I G H T   from within.

Well, I guess what i am trying to convey here is that we should all be striving to keep that 'light within' visible to others so that we, as people, can be a light for some one who is lost in life and finds him/herself in times of darkness. Okay, okay! I will shut the heck up now!!! 

Babe,
xoxo 

[RCL6969]

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you + girlfriend + T-girlfriend = FUN....lol......well i'm single right now so i don't have to worry about stuff like this....i think you should have fun with it....if you meet a gg and she seem's open minded to different thing's and you trust her let it slip the you think T-girl's are hot and see how she react's to it....if it's good well the start by watching some T-girl porn together....if she's good with that take her to The Lounge to watch them dance or a spa night.....hey you never know.....but that's just my thought's

[Emm]

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Hey I'm in the same boat. I'm 23 and I date ggs. I have a huge tgirl fetish and cannot stop subscribing to sites. So far I've been with 2 tgirls. One was a pro...the other one was free. It was fun and I wanna do it again yet i'm very scared to. Society/family/friends are just not accepting of it. I wish i can openly date a tgirl but that's not possible. I got picked up by one two days ago. I was scared as hell and my heart was thumping from the fear that someone that knows me would recognize me. It was a weird feeling of being scared and horny at the same time lol. Anyway..I say keep your fantasy quiet.

[SamanthaLauzon]

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Thanks for the input, guys...

Some interesting points brought up. I have thought about a tgirl girlfriend before, but I think I would have trouble with that. I am your average, straight looking white boy jock univeristy student. So, to date a tgirl would be dishonest for me atleast, because I would be lying if I said that I would introduce her to my friends and have her become part of my life. Tgirls are still a fringe thing, unforutnatley, and it would be selfish for me to date one because I would definatley have to keep her from seperate from other facets of my life. "Tis a shame that some lifestyles are more socially acceptable then others.

I totally agree with not giving up pictures tgirls and refraining from thinking about them when I glaze my ham. f**k THAT NOISE! Masturbation time is my masturbation time, and when I have to get my jollies, I have to have full access to whatever is in the spank bank in my brain...not matter what is in there.

So, I guess I have come to a conclusion. I don't know whether my shemale lust is just a phase or it will become a permenant part of who I am. If I am going to give up my current lifestyle and date shemales exclusively, or just keep it as a hobby. What I can tell you is that I am going to go with the flow, keep admiring them but at the same time play it safe by keeping my options open.

...And to all the tgirls I have met and talked to over my short t-girl admiring career: for the most part, all of you have been great to talk to (and do other things with, of course). I think one of the main reasons I am attracted to you guys is because when I talk to you I never feel like I am being judged, because at some point I believe that all Tgirls are considered "weird" by people they know. So, it is nice to talk to a group of people that have had that experience and knowing how uncomfortable it can make one feel refrain from giving off that judgemental vibe.

This forum rocks 

I just wanted to say that Any TS woman that your interested in should understand YOUR delema I mean I've dated Straight guys that I've never met their friends or family but they were short term and I was OK with that as YOU NEED to take baby steps GET a girl YOU like get to know her go to a city where you dont know people have LUNCH see how people INTERACT with her so on and so forth or GO to her place let her know in all honesty that this is a completely new thing to you that YOU have NO idea where it will go but IF SHE likes you (and I dont see why not you seem like a nice guy) Then she'll understand an if not piss on her (NOT literally ) find someone who will understand ...

IT is a shame to think that SOME TS expect a certain amount of acceptance but MOST are not willing to give any ...I dated a guy for 3 months didnt' even have his number and WHY Because he was straight and dealing with his issues of loving a TS so I never pushed it we lasted a few more months until he got back with his GG Ex which was fine with me because that just meant that HE and I were not meant to be together now I'm sure he'll be with other TS woman and YES it might break my heart to see that but HEY the level of understanding was that HE might not stay withme and that HEmight be with other girl's or TS

JUST find a girl YOU like pursue something if YOU want to but ALWAY's alway's be UPFRONT about your intentions IF your only lookin for a FUCK friend then tell her if your lookin for something more but not sure how far it will go TELL her that too

GOD I'm not sure if anything I've said has helped or hindered your thought process LOL but I hope it helped just follow your heart cheesy I know but I'm sure YOUR mother told you the same thing and well you know " Mothers are alway's right" LOL or at least they like to think so

GOOD luck babe

Samantha

[curious]

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hi yu you sound like such a cool lady you have a very merry Christmas and all the best in the new year maybe we can hook up chow babe Curious lve lve lve lve