Problem I have: advice please from trans and males needed please

[Shyla Wild]

Quote "All i'm saying also is that i thought shemales were more compassionate and caring than even women"

People are people. Just like there are male nurses there are female killers. In general yes; women are more compassionate and have natural empathy.

To say that tgirls are more compassionate and caring would depend on the girls compared. This is also a general comment. For example: Most of the World considers Canadians to be nice people. Does that mean that there are no rude or mean Canadians? Not at all. We all know assholes, jerks and bitches.

Now can I ask you something. What would you have expected from her?

[maddplotter]

thanks babe ,... well i start doing anal at 13 and i knew it since i was probably 8yo i mean like everybody know that a girl need tyo be weet to put it in .. and that ass is more tight and need to put something eles like WTF but you know i get so many email of guys making alllllll big fake stories like that some guys r just turn on by talking about this fake story like how many guys told me there first story when they have sex with a shemale ... they pick up a girl at the bar n found out that its a shemale when whent home i heard that 25 times .... but have never heard about a gf who did that to a guy loll

I wish you would pick me up in a bar and have hot steamy sex in my bed.

[sniperki]

I will say she should have been more concerned about your virginity, if you told her. If you let her proceed with no questions or telling her you are new to this act, I cannot blame her. If she had information, then she should have gone easier.

She shouldn't being giving out drugs to people that don't know what they are taking, however you should not be taking substances from people you don't really know and that you aren't sure what they do.

To say you are not at fault because you are ignorant, is not an excuse.
If you are taking part in such activities you are to blame.
You were willing and let her continue even though you didn't know what would happen. Other things in life you are new to, usually you read up on them in advance or something so you don't screw up, why would this be different?

Most likely what happened to you is, you aggravated your hemorroids causing one or more of them to rupture. By leaving it too long you probably let it become and abscess and subsequently became a fistula.

The Fistula is not directly caused by your anal sex, it is cause by the advanced infection you allowed to fester, most likely due to shame.

Had you gone straight to a doctor, they could have given you cortisone to shrink the swollen and damaged hemorroids and also given you anti-biotics and cream to help with pain and infection. Also lubricating suppositories and other remedies, such as mineral oil.

So I wouldn't blame her so much, as I think you had some choice here.
Anal sex is not for everyone and is not safe if you do not take precautions.
Most people have experimented on their own before the engage in this activity, this usually lets you know if you like it or not.

I think this was just a lesson.

Funny on your other post you are bragging about, because you are 27 and "good looking" you shouldn't have to pay for it or as much as "some ugly old dude"...

What's that saying? You Get What You Pay For"...

Hope your ass feels better...

[Raging Bob]

You might want to take the rest of the year off to heal up.

[Toronto]

is it wrong that this story turned me on popers and hard anal dam she took your cherry hard. The after math sucks but id trade places with you.

[falkon]

they pick up a girl at the bar n found out that its a shemale when whent home i heard that 25 times .... but have never heard about a gf who did that to a guy loll

Barbie does that all the time, but usually the guy isn't supposed to know.
I think however, they are avid readers of this forum...

[nacho]

thanks babe ,... well i start doing anal at 13 and i knew it since i was probably 8yo i mean like everybody know that a girl need tyo be weet to put it in .. and that ass is more tight and need to put something eles like WTF but you know i get so many email of guys making alllllll big fake stories like that some guys r just turn on by talking about this fake story like how many guys told me there first story when they have sex with a shemale ... they pick up a girl at the bar n found out that its a shemale when whent home i heard that 25 times .... but have never heard about a gf who did that to a guy loll

Paris 2 things about your post.


I wish I knew you when I was 13


Get up walk over to the mirror. Look in it, and tell me. Could anybody tell you have something extra No way. I could totally see a guy trying to pick you up not knowing. Then you take him home. Do you think any guy would change his mind when your cock comes out?? Hell no. You?re the type of girl that spurs this fantasy; that all men secretly have. That?s what got me into trannys; I stumbled across a trannysurprise video. I said dam she?s hot I?d suck her dick. So ya sure 98% of the guys that email you are full of shit. Maybe 1 out of 100 is the fantasy come true?.


Where was I going with all this??
Oh ya now I remember?? YOUR FUCKING HOT!!!!