"B@rbie Swallows" Advice 4 TGirls: Don't Let Guys Use U 4 Sex! Always Fuck 4 $Money$

[Rock Savage]

I don't mind paying...you always pay, one way or another.

I do prefer the sugar daddy type relationship though. I believe it allows for more intimacy and thus sexiness.

I have plenty of money. A girl needs to get her hair & nails done...

[shemale_patriciaM]

In my own opinion and observation and this does not include all men but majority of them want to have an LTR with tgirls when they are old and nasty. It seems like Barbie is right, when they are young and fresh most of them only want to use tgirls for sex but want to have an LTR with a genetic female. Again this does not apply to all men but I really think majority of them are this.

[LOLA_]

OH MY GOD YOU MADE ME LAUGH SO HARD you are a sweetheart

For now on, even if good lookin hot guys with big monster cocks want freebies, i'll just tell them sorry, i'm all about business
Even the sex is not that great to be honest cause whenever they shoot there loads of cum with in less then 2 mins sometimes they just leave and don't even consider helping u to cum as well,
B@rbie Swallows
www.BarbieSwallows.com

[Flashtrigger]

felt like chiming in.

I would never expect an escort to toss me a freebie, It would certainly be fantastic though, Id probably end up using the money to take her out on some kind of date in the hopes that only having 250$ to spend on dinner and a movie, or walking around at an art gallery, or maybe a night of live music and a few drinks wouldnt make me seem like some kind of cheap ass broke scum-ball.

I wouldn't have any issues actually having an emotionally involved long term relationship with an attractive young transgendered woman who had a great mind as well as physical features I found to be attractive. I know everybody ages, Im only 23, whatever.

Im sorry clients or people you have slept with at times were too selfish to make any of you climax, that's just shitty. Last time I tried to schedule an encounter with an escort I was all set and ready to go till she mentioned that shed want an extra 100$ If I wanted to get her off. If that's been the case with any of you (I am not sure that it is) I cant blame them for not spending an extra 100$ to help YOU have an orgasm, especially if they are already paying 250/300/350 or more for the hour.

I live in a small town, we don't really have transgendered clubs, but if for some reason I DID find myself in a situation to have a sexual encounter with an attractive transgendered woman, and I thought she was an interesting and intriguing person who inspired me, and it wasn't that she was just an escort and it was actually a dating situation (Ive only tried the escort thing once, and it was an absolute fucking nightmare and a horror story Im not looking to get into, but I learned my lesson. Im still interested in the idea of trying a better quality service provider, but I think Im just going to try moving to a larger city and try finding someone to have an actual relationship with) I would have no problem about treating them the way Id treat any other beautiful girl I wanted to kiss and warp my arms around. Id have no problem with giving them massages and making sure they enjoyed themselves, even if by the time I finished getting THEM off it meant they were tired or for some reason I wasn't going to have a chance to get off, too. Even if it meant someone was going to run around on the forums accusing me of being a latent homosexual.

If any of my friends had an issue with it (its something Ive debated with them) Id just tell them to shut the fuck up and deal with it, or stop hanging out around me. You either accept me for who I am and you accept the person that I love and treat them with the same respect I would give to anybody you care about in your life or you piss off. And my friends have dated some really unappealing people in terms of their personality and attitude.

Sexuality and gender are not black and white. Few things in life are black and white. Sure, in the spectrum of the shades of emotion, experience, at the extreme opposite ends there is a black and a white. Yet one simply cant deny hundreds and hundreds of variations in gradients of charcoals, dark grays, grays, light grays, smokes, and off whites in between. If they are, I dont know... perhaps they arent looking at the same world with the same kind eyes. Perhaps with their head so far up their ass their field of vision is severely limited.

I'm not married, I don't have a secret girlfriend, Im attracted to a feminine form, a feminine personality, and an over all aura of female sensuality. I know my way around more than a few vaginas, and Ive always enjoyed them, Ive had long term relationships with genetic girls. Id be open to having a relationship with a transsexual. I cant really say its my all encompassing goal in life, I don't idolize or fetishize transsexuals or genetic girls. Im just equally attracted to either. Not really attracted to FTM, not attracted to cross dressers.
But if someone Im attracted to is attracted to me, and it feels right, I dont really care what they were born with between their legs, if they have a vagina (either born with or surgically created) or they're pre op. Whatever. If I care about and Im interested in that person, Im attracted to most likely every inch of them inside and out (except feet, god that whole foot fetish thing creeps me right the fuck out)

Again, sorry some of you ladies have opened yourselves up sexually and or emotionally to some really shitty guys and been used like a pocket pussy and cast aside Its a shame someone took advantage of your kindness, manipulated your emotions, or used your vulnerability against you.

I spilled some water on my keyboard, a few of my punctuation keys aren't functioning properly, and Im too lazy to go through clicking every compound word in this wall of text. Sorry for that, too. Also, before anyone accuses me of being a bottom(Ive seen people assume things like that toward other people), I'm really not into anything being in or near my ass past a little playful pinch/slap on the ass. Ive gotten into plenty of ass pinching -wars- with girlfriends, that's always cute. Some of this may seem irreverent, but it was relevant to me in my mind to make the points I was attempting to illustrate from my perspective as someone who hasn't been a regular client of escorts (not that I have any issues with that, not being judgmental) and isn't as service provider. Ive got no issues with being dominant.

[maddplotter]

Young, dumb and full of cum!

In my own opinion and observation and this does not include all men but majority of them want to have an LTR with tgirls when they are old and nasty. It seems like Barbie is right, when they are young and fresh most of them only want to use tgirls for sex but want to have an LTR with a genetic female. Again this does not apply to all men but I really think majority of them are this.

There is a definite pattern that you mention. My theory is that as we get older, our social circles change and most likely shrink. Friends move away, get married, raise kids, and some unfortunately pass away. And these young guys think that there will be an endless supply of girls that they can go around screwing. Whereas an older and wiser guy knows that only a few girls exist, and one will eventually fill your heart with tremendous joy.

[shemale_patriciaM]

There is a definite pattern that you mention. My theory is that as we get older, our social circles change and most likely shrink. Friends move away, get married, raise kids, and some unfortunately pass away. And these young guys think that there will be an endless supply of girls that they can go around screwing. Whereas an older and wiser guy knows that only a few girls exist, and one will eventually fill your heart with tremendous joy.

Awwwwww.....I am seriously touched...good one Madplotter.

[maddplotter]

Love to touch you more

Awwwwww.....I am seriously touched...good one Madplotter.

What can I say? Deep down, I'm a softie. Or I watched too many stupid rom-com movies!

[danilover]

Rom-Com movie's Rock !!!

[Modulus]

All girls love the bad boys, and screw over the good boys.....it's always been that way and it'll always be that way. Most of the guys here and most of the women here (including Barbie) know exactly what I mean.

[bleh123]

TS's complaining about guy's not wanting to date them:

Maybe consider the fact nobody sane will want to be romantically involved with a person that sucks and fucks multiple other men daily for a living. Maybe lower your standards from 'a super hot guy with a giant dick'. Maybe a well built cute 25-30ish yr old guy with an average sized cock? No, I didn't think so. Gotta have that huge dick that only the select few men have or it's no deal. At the end of the day even having a lot of money and a great personality doesn't cut it, you'll still be lusting after the model with the giant dick. That's why I've given up on TS dating. They're all either hookers, have ridiculous standards, or cheat on you unless you've got an 8 inch dick. TG's are NOT attracted to men the same way GG's are. Super hot GG's are easily gotten by a man with the right attitude, actions, social status etc. As long as you are relatively handsome / decent looking it doesn't matter you can still attract a hottie. With TS it all ends up being physical attraction; muscles, abs, 8" cock etc. That's the primary focus while the other items are just bonuses, where as the opposite hold's true for a GG. So just by nature you've set sail for fail. The TS dating pool is horrible, its outright ridiculous and trust me I've been around the block with it at this point. 90% of the hot TS's are escorts, the other 10% are still looking for that ideal guy as well which nobody who is willing to date a TS is going to fit. It is a valid point that it's a two way street and I guess I'd have to lower my standards to get a TS girlfriend, but for me the whole having a cock thing isn't that important so I'd rather date a hot GG than settle for a shabby TS. If I'm going to take on the stigma and shit from friends / family for dating a TS it damn well better be worth it. So unless shit magically changes the whole TS dating scene will always be a fail. I see profiles of all the same girls i've talked to over 4 years ago that are still on there, proly still be there in another 10. If I had an 8 inch dick instead of a 6 I'd be made on the scene, but that critical little difference means I'm bound to the world of GG's. It sucks.

[Dita Dior]

TS's complaining about guy's not wanting to date them:

Maybe consider the fact nobody sane will want to be romantically involved with a person that sucks and fucks multiple other men daily for a living. Maybe lower your standards from 'a super hot guy with a giant dick'. Maybe a well built cute 25-30ish yr old guy with an average sized cock? No, I didn't think so. Gotta have that huge dick that only the select few men have or it's no deal. At the end of the day even having a lot of money and a great personality doesn't cut it, you'll still be lusting after the model with the giant dick. That's why I've given up on TS dating. They're all either hookers, have ridiculous standards, or cheat on you unless you've got an 8 inch dick. TG's are NOT attracted to men the same way GG's are. Super hot GG's are easily gotten by a man with the right attitude, actions, social status etc. As long as you are relatively handsome / decent looking it doesn't matter you can still attract a hottie. With TS it all ends up being physical attraction; muscles, abs, 8" cock etc. That's the primary focus while the other items are just bonuses, where as the opposite hold's true for a GG. So just by nature you've set sail for fail. The TS dating pool is horrible, its outright ridiculous and trust me I've been around the block with it at this point. 90% of the hot TS's are escorts, the other 10% are still looking for that ideal guy as well which nobody who is willing to date a TS is going to fit. It is a valid point that it's a two way street and I guess I'd have to lower my standards to get a TS girlfriend, but for me the whole having a cock thing isn't that important so I'd rather date a hot GG than settle for a shabby TS. If I'm going to take on the stigma and shit from friends / family for dating a TS it damn well better be worth it. So unless shit magically changes the whole TS dating scene will always be a fail. I see profiles of all the same girls i've talked to over 4 years ago that are still on there, proly still be there in another 10. If I had an 8 inch dick instead of a 6 I'd be made on the scene, but that critical little difference means I'm bound to the world of GG's. It sucks.

No that is not all about it.
Not all TGIRLS are looking for a big dick, and the cute guy. Yes its what we shoot for but if someone can win us over by their personality then why would I say no.
Yes, my boyfriend looks good and he is everything that you said we go for. But he won me over from his personality on plentyoffish, before I even knew what he looked like since his pictures werenot exactly clear and what he looked like. From how he talked to me to personality, to he had what I wanted in life, a child (because Dita cannot,and will not be able to reproduce) he is sweetand kind family orriented person and doesnt judge me for who I am.
So don't think that a guy isn't going to date a tgirl, you just have had some tough luck why do you give up somewhere down the road when you dont look you will find someone that makes you smile, and you dont ever want to let go.

So I am sorry to hear about your negative past of it, but don't give up becuase how I believe in life not everyone fits the mold, but opposites do attract no matter what anyone says and wants to battle it out with me on this one, I know. Becuase from how you described yourself ive had relationships with men like you, but from their low confidence and sooking makes me turned off because I feel like then I have to be the man in the relationship and I have to get the person off their knees and believe in themself.

So grow so balls (im not trying to be rude, im just being open about the topic and helping you don't take offence to my vulgure) put your chin up and dont stop until you find that one because life is short, and if you arent happy in the end with someone you love then what do you have to live for. Yes money, family, happiness, but if you don't have love you don't have anything. That's what I believe.

[bleh123]

Actually I'm very confident and masculine, and I find your comments hilarious considering any man who is willing to date a prostitute has no self esteem, self worth, or self respect. You're very lucky you found a hot guy that is demented enough to do this, congrats. But considering the fact you are an escort and still fuck other men, and in fact are dating a guy who does have the exact attributes I listed, how does this in anyway refute what I said? Every girl talks the talk about that shit, but in practice it ends up being exactly how I detailed it. *** Bear in mind I am referring to the young, very attractive TS's specifically, not ALL TS's in general ***

[Dita Dior]

Actually I'm very confident and masculine, and I find your comments hilarious considering any man who is willing to date a prostitute has no self esteem, self worth, or self respect. You're very lucky you found a hot guy that is demented enough to do this, congrats. But considering the fact you are an escort and still fuck other men, and in fact are dating a guy who does have the exact attributes I listed, how does this in anyway refute what I said? Every girl talks the talk about that shit, but in practice it ends up being exactly how I detailed it. *** Bear in mind I am referring to the young, very attractive TS's specifically, not ALL TS's in general ***

Oh okay I like how you defended yourself. If I wasnt dating my baby I'd go for a drink with you ust because you stood up to me, thats sexy. Anyway back to My Marc Anthony and Pitbull repeat playlist. But I wasn't sayin gyou weren't confident it was just how you wrote that previous post.
xoxox

[Modulus]

"B@rbie Swallows" Advice 4 TGirls: Don't Let Guys Use U 4 Sex! Always Fuck 4 $Money$

This has been bothering me for some time now to the point i must express my thoughts, feelings, pain, rejection, anger, frusterations ect... By posting it on this site on tgirlforums.com. Now many of u may not agree with me but then again i honestly don't give a fuck. I'm sure many of u TGirls out there have the same feelings that i do, but choose not to talk about it openly due to fear of loosing business. So it's best to act like a lady and be a phony actress just to pay ur monthly bills, lol. Anyways, oh god i don't even know where to fucking start. I need to talk about it in order for me to release this toxic out of me and allow discussion on a public form like this. Ok, it seems like every time i meet a hot guy, i always seem to have sex with them for FREE! Yup that's right, and i know it's no big surprise from all the stories u read of me giving guys blow jobs in public places. U see the problem is, i have this false hope and idea that well u know, this is the man of my dreams, this is the guy for me, this is my future boyfriend, my lover, my fuck buddy. But the truth is, im not sure if other shemales also feel the same, but it seems like we tend to fall inlove with a really cute hot guy whenever we meet him.


And because we have cocks as well, we tend to be super horny, well this only applies to trannys not on whore-mones, lol. Anyways, i just have sex with them right away cause im horny and there also horny, and at the end they either ask me for my phone number, which btw they never call u at all and or they just tell u the truth saying ahh, i don't think i wanna experience this again, cause i might enjoy it too much and im scared, which this one guy told me after he fucked me and got blown, knowing i was a shemale, cause i was being honest with him before the sex. They tend to feel very guilty and ashamed, they act all wierd, paranoid, nervous, scared, confused, during , after & before the sex. And this is not a fucking joke. I've experienced this so many fucking times. U see guys view M2F transsexuals as novelty's, as a taboo fetish. They don't wanna be seen with u in the public eye, due to fear if anyone recognizes them with a tranny and or being made fun of and mocked by being called a FAG! I feel like the type of guys that like shemales are repressed closeted bisexual guys. Sometimes after the sex is over they tell me oh i been with guys b4, i sucked a few of them off back in college.



Again, this dosen't apply to every guy that like shemales. I feel like they don't really fall inlove with us, but in fact fall inlust. They have normal lives back home with there wife/gf and don't wanna anybody to find out about there double secret life of there sexual desires for shemales. I always feel like we're second best cause they always prefere real girls with pussy's over us. In a way being transgender is kinda of a lonley life to be honest, where most guys use us for sex and they ignore us after when there done with us by shooting there loads. Sometimes they would call u back after a few months later and by then i give them attuitude, and they tend to make up some stupid dumb bullshit excuse saying they were busy but the truth is they were just nervous and uncomfortable with there own sexuality attraction towards the third gender. Hmmmm, i don't know what else to say. I'm just very dissappointed in guys big time. I think alot of guys that like shemales are not alpha males but in fact behave like total bottom bitchs, about 9O%. Alot of times they make appointments with u and never show up and or cancel everytime and ask for discounts. They show us no respect.



And when u talk out loud being a shemale, they try to shut u up, worried i'll expose there secret for being a tranny lover. They care more about what society thinks, how sad, cause i honestly don't give a fuck. I've been told by many people that i got balls, guts, a pokohonus, and that im very straight forward and direct and that not many people/trannys out there got the courage to just speak there mind. Basically, im just trying to give advice to other tgirls, cross-dressers, drag queens, lady boys, he/shes, shemales, transsexuals that are working in the sex business as escorts to always ask for money in return for sex. Trust me, i had to learn it the hard way. U always think in the back of ur mind, this could be the guy for me, this could be my true love, my KEN, and im his Barbie Doll. But the reality, truth and fact is, men that like shemales don't fall inlove with us, they just fall inlust, and that's about it. U know it makes me very sad, that they treat me like shit. They promise they'll call u but they never do. Then i say to myself, omfg, why did i even bother wasting my fucking time having sex with that loser for free. I could have made some money out of it. But i was living in a fantasy dream world hoping this guy will be my bf one day. I finally woke up, and said to myself, it's never gonna happen. I give up.



For now on, even if good lookin hot guys with big monster cocks want freebies, i'll just tell them sorry, i'm all about business and if u don't like that then try and find another shemale in Toronto as above average looking like me. I'm just sick and tired of guys taking advantage of me and use me for sex and then ignore me like i'm yesterdays garbage. I might as well use them in return for there $money$, since i get nothing in return always doing it for free. It's always hard for us shemales to get normal regular jobs due to society being very discrimitory towards us. So we might as well take start charging every guy that wants to fuck us. I noticed whenever they say i don't have that exact amount of cash u ask for, and u walk away, thats when they start chasing and running after u saying ok, i got the money, let's do it. Men are fucking pigs! There fucking liers, there cheaters, they are dogs! They respect real biological women alot more then transsexuals. They view us as a freak show, as a cartoon, as a joke pretty much, a novelty out of walt disney movie. They don't take us seriously. How many times have i had guys telling me oh i can't walk beside u, can u walk across the street from me, cause im discrete and private and don't want anybody to see me with u. I feel like most guys are like big cowards, big pussy's and they don't really impress me very much.



Even the sex is not that great to be honest cause whenever they shoot there loads of cum with in less then 2 mins sometimes they just leave and don't even consider helping u to cum as well, they just leave, cause most men are selfish assholes! So advice for t-Girls, always ask for $ money$ for sex with guys, no matter if he's good looking or not. Hey from my personal experience i noticed they usually respect u alot more when they pay u, cause they tend to call u back again and again and when u do it for free, they don't appreciate it at all the good hard work ur doing for them. U know sometimes i feel like Santa Clause giving free blow jobs, anal sex, to random hot guys just for the fun of it 365 days a year. But no more, call me jaded i don't fucking care, i give up. It's the shemales that fall inlove with men and they just fall inlust and ignore us after and don't want nothing to do with us but rather run away and hide and pretend nothing happened. And u would think they would call u back after doing it for free, but they don't due to feeling guity with there closted homosexuality. Remember be smart, NO $MONEY$ = NO FUNNY! Do't let them use u cause at the end u will feel depressed and the lowest of the low. Don't fall inlove, just fuck them for money and continue on with the next guy u meet. Take care!




B@rbie Swallows
www.BarbieSwallows.com

lol... maybe if you gave more love, you'd get back.

I get you're frustrated, but feeling wronged whilst simultaneously looking down on your clients loses you points.

[cameeindos]

In my own opinion and observation and this does not include all men but majority of them want to have an LTR with tgirls when they are old and nasty. It seems like Barbie is right, when they are young and fresh most of them only want to use tgirls for sex but want to have an LTR with a genetic female. Again this does not apply to all men but I really think majority of them are this.

OK. But if sex is sold, isn't it because somebody will buy it?