Can we ever be seen as housewives, girlfriends, or just cock and ass slaves

[Jimsford]

There is guys out there would want to be your bf or would dream of having you as there wife. You just need to be patient and you find the right guy.

[Dita Dior]

There is guys out there would want to be your bf or would dream of having you as there wife. You just need to be patient and you find the right guy.

exactly you are right baby

[markg]

There is guys out there would want to be your bf or would dream of having you as there wife. You just need to be patient and you find the right guy.

well said

[vinnie]

There's some guys who will accept and love you the way you are, whatever your line of work is. Not much I guess, but some understand and know where to draw the line between work and private life.

[Asianhunnies]

Two things to consider here. The first issue, of course, is that there is no accepted social category for t-girls; people risk making themselves a spectacle by openly dating one. It would be great if dating a transsexual were completely innocuous; some brave famous dude will be the first to have a transsexual girlfriend and from that point on it'll get easier, but maybe not until then. (In some senses it's no different from male bisexuality or swinging or lots of other sexual quirks - a lot of it goes on, but it's all kept secret. It arguably hurts worst for t-girls because you ARE the secret.) Lots of guys (a la Brokeback Mountain, in a way) just can't bring themselves to step outside their normal social role, even if it might make them happier - and maybe t-girls are extra contemptuous of that, because you have stepped outside the role you were given. You were driven, typically from a pretty early age, to become something else, so you may have an unusually low regard for those who just bumble along inside the box (as it were).The second thing is, you've been striving your whole life to be sexually alluring to straight guys; you spend a ton of money on it, and you make a ton of money on it. It's your whole lifestyle, so it seems a bit harsh that you're judging guys for thinking of you first as a sexual object. In a sense, that's what you've always wanted to be, right? One of the women whose sex appeal beguiles guys. T-girls aren't alone in finding out that luring guys in with sex appeal and then trying to get respect after that seldom works. Which is not to say you don't deserve respect, but ... people categorize, because life is short.Sorry, but my honest answer is that the lifestyle for ladies in your situation is pretty damn lonely. Not too many of your peers seem to have much luck with LTRs, if this board is much of an indication. I can only suggest that you enjoy the good ones while they last, and wait for a shift in social values.

whilst unfortunatly most of what is said abouve is true. I cant say that this applys to me. Over the christmas period i was down at the pub with lots of frinds and i left my ipod nano on the table and went to the toilet. Now. I have a folder on that ipod called tgirls. my pall was looking through it when i came bak and said to me. Omf what the fuck is this. I though about it for a second and then said. What does it look like. He then said everyone look at this it got passed around the table and everyone had a bit of a laugh. Instead of being offended i said "whats the big fukin deal bitch" "they look hot like women, and if you dont think that they look attractive then i would have to question your being straight. This eventually turned into a very interesting conversation about sexuality and predjudice. We came to the conclusion that its all abut what you like and how you feel about sex and whats attractive to you. No doubt i will get some stick for it when i go back to uni. But i couldnt fuking care less. Beauty is beauty. and i dont care who sports it. and with any luck i have opene up a few of my friends minds along the way.

[ladymskier]

yes theres lots out there sweety be patient and picky,stay away from any guy who parties there the ones who date you for exitement only.your still growing as a woman and as we all mature thats when the doors open to all possiblilities.you have a good head start because your still young and beautifull.most honorable men look for a good soul one that has respect kindness strength and a playfull but loving personality and once you achieve that then they will be banging at your door.

I agree lisa

And by the way HI !

I like being the "taboo"

But thats just me. I wouldnt want to be a woman or a guy.

I have the best of both worlds!!!

[jambrana]

I know there is a part of me that really wants a so called "NORMAL", Life.

House , kids, great sex, partner, all that togetherness stuff.

Then there is a raging whore inside me that wants sex nonstop with different guys,

I think its a hard decision seeing when you stop escorting the money you will make will be afraction of what we make.

i dont see myself at walmart slaving for 5 dollars an hr.

but you also cant be a escort for life.

we will all wrinkle, shrink and fade away from the eye.

This life is shit sometimes lol

Kids?? where would you get the kids from? how would you raise them? what you do is a completely destructive atmosphere for kids. I think you're best off with a partner or 2 if you like but dont bring any kids along the way. you must really be out of your mind soda. think rationally. you chose to be who you are and what you are. youre living your dream. leave the kids to the professionals, the parents

[innieoutie]

Harsh

Kids?? where would you get the kids from? how would you raise them? what you do is a completely destructive atmosphere for kids. I think you're best off with a partner or 2 if you like but dont bring any kids along the way. you must really be out of your mind soda. think rationally. you chose to be who you are and what you are. youre living your dream. leave the kids to the professionals, the parents

That is harsh. I do not think that a t-girl, gay men, gay women or whatever other category other than heterosexual you want to compartmentalize someone is an exclusion for having or raising kids. If SODA or any other lady on this site wishes to pursue having children (or may even already) that is not your problem. That being said, children and relationships have to be approached with seriousness and commitment. If you have both, the path is clearer.

[shemale_patriciaM]

That is harsh. I do not think that a t-girl, gay men, gay women or whatever other category other than heterosexual you want to compartmentalize someone is an exclusion for having or raising kids. If SODA or any other lady on this site wishes to pursue having children (or may even already) that is not your problem. That being said, children and relationships have to be approached with seriousness and commitment. If you have both, the path is clearer.

Thank you and very well said.

[gt25]

Kids?? where would you get the kids from? how would you raise them? what you do is a completely destructive atmosphere for kids. I think you're best off with a partner or 2 if you like but dont bring any kids along the way. you must really be out of your mind soda. think rationally. you chose to be who you are and what you are. youre living your dream. leave the kids to the professionals, the parents

Im not usually one to ruffle feathers around here but that is about the most ignorant message I have seen posted here in a long time. Who the F!@# are you to tell someone whether or not they should have kids?! Are you Dr. F*#!ing Phil? Probably not. How do you know what will be a destructive atmosphere for someone?, And professionals? PLEASE. I have known lots of straight people who had normal lives and had kids but never should have been parents. You should think a little before you speak.

and by the way... the kids will be delivered by storks. Thats where they come from!

[jambrana]

Im not usually one to ruffle feathers around here but that is about the most ignorant message I have seen posted here in a long time. Who the F!@# are you to tell someone whether or not they should have kids?! Are you Dr. F*#!ing Phil? Probably not. How do you know what will be a destructive atmosphere for someone?, And professionals? PLEASE. I have known lots of straight people who had normal lives and had kids but never should have been parents. You should think a little before you speak.

and by the way... the kids will be delivered by storks. Thats where they come from!

my ignorance is rubbing off on you...storks dont deliver, they shit on shitty people. kids should be raised by a mother and father, or a mother, or a father. Not a father dressing up like mom.

[jambrana]

I need some answers im sick of guys pretending they care and love you.
For them to run off to their gf or regular life.
Is there men that want us for anything but our cocks and tight ass pussies.

wtf

you cant turn a whore into a housewife, period.
keep doing what you do because you do it well but you will not be doing it for long. can you imagine "your" kid running up to you?? what would he call you? mom? dad? no it would a combo of both Mad

[tslisaparadise]

my ignorance is rubbing off on you...storks dont deliver, they shit on shitty people. kids should be raised by a mother and father, or a mother, or a father. Not a father dressing up like mom.

somebody bann this piece of shit before i track his ip and put a hit on him,i raised 2 kids and there the most beautifull kids youll ever see so you wanna post shit like this come and have the balls to meet me face to face and one snap of my finger and youll be floating in the grand river faster then you can shake a stick at you gutless waste of space.ban his ip crag or this is my last post period.

[Dita Dior]

somebody bann this piece of shit before i track his ip and put a hit on him,i raised 2 kids and there the most beautifull kids youll ever see so you wanna post shit like this come and have the balls to meet me face to face and one snap of my finger and youll be floating in the grand river faster then you can shake a stick at you gutless waste of space.ban his ip crag or this is my last post period.

i completely agree with you babes.
on a another note my wife, im in burlington/oakville tomorrow lunch? call me since you wont answer your phone ms. paradise.

[tslisaparadise]

i completely agree with you babes.
on a another note my wife, im in burlington/oakville tomorrow lunch? call me since you wont answer your phone ms. paradise.

did you change your number again?