Men - how do you feel with TS call you "bottom queens' or "faggots"

[bigmacattack]

I would like to know what men and clients of T girls feel when some of these ladies call us that?

[Dita Dior]

Your fucking kidding right?
I didn't call you a faggot as a sexual term. I called you a faggot because your a annoyinand a queen that screams for attention to try to make me out to look like I'm a bad person.

When all you are doing is assuming making ass out of yourself and trying to keep going with things. Get a life and or go bug another tgirl because your giving me quite a headache everything you post on here is to bash me. From I'm lying that I don't enjoy cock under 8 inches, commenting on my personal life whenyou have no damn right, every post you post is about me, saying I'm a crossdresser. Everything and more stop with your childish games and leave me alone.

I haven't provided you service so you have no excuse to cry about me, I'm fed up on your personal attacks and hate rants and I'm probably not the only one.

[Dita Dior]

Regarding your personal message that you sent to me that I had to read when I told you not to contact me anymore, and I ignored you and put you on my ignore list but you keep constantly messaging me so how can I not go and look to kill my curiousity on your ignorance, and stupidities.

As you write. Your question I will answer in bold under. I think others would love to see my answers. As much as you do.


Why did you lie about being 18? You were certainly not 18 when you started escorting and you have said you are 18 for well over a year

I started escorting at the age of 16 and no not on shemalecanada on a website called squirt. I am 18. July 12 1993, as a numberous ammount of my clientel I have showed them my birth certifigate and my age to prove my point of not lying. I have nothing to hide why hide it.


Why do you call people who find you attractive "faggots' or "bottom queens"

I kind of answered that above in my previous message, but I will go into further detail. If your attracted to me or not, you have to have RESPECT for me. If you don't give me respect I'm not going to give it back. Yes to a certain degree I am going to toss it over my shoulder and let it slide but after a while on numerous occasions I get steped on, accused of lies that aren't lies, and things that happen towards my own personal life and character I will be happy to call someone a "faggot" or a "queen" when in my definition of those words are that the person should be not talking, a annoyance, or a waste of my time and energy.

Why did you have a boyfriend if you were going to lie to him anyways

As one I said above that is my personal life. Two my boyfriend and I had a open relationship, and he understood that I am a sex addict and he had no problem with me going at it with other people for buisness (escorting/porn) and also on aquantance level. Since those people I only have the feeling of attraction at the point and once I get fucked its done. Deep down inside my feelings were only for him and he knew that so he knew that my heart was in the right place.

Why do you say "I don't care about safety" because you get tested once a month . Certainly getting barebacked in the ass buy some stranger who is hot and says "I am clean" carried a risk. These things can happen in between tests.

I do care about safety, but when I say I don't care about safety read between the lines, I mean that I don't care about the safety of the situation not meaning the safety of my health or my life, that is a whole different matter. I do get tested once a month and if I miss a month then I get tested when I can the latest I have ever been tested in a period was between a two month period so I missed one month and then the next month I got tested. As for this bareback bullshit, I don't do bareback unless I am in a relationship with a guy for a big period of time. That rumor from that idiot that window shopped me in the summer has caused me alot of problems and has made it look like I'm so bareback whore, but I refuse to do bareback for my safety and the future of my life. The only thing I do bareback is bareback blowjobs, because I crave the taste of cock and if that is wrong well then call me wrong.

Why would you bother wearing a wig? That is why I call you a crossdresser in the first place. If you are a real woman, then just be yourself.

I don't wear a wig in public or outside of work. The only time I wear that nasty itchy thing is for clientel and to make men happy. Certain people want a fantasy or want a certain look that my short hair cannot provide so I offer the wig as another option for other men to enjoy and fantasize for being with a shemale/transsexual/ts. There is many transsexuals that have breast implants and wear wigs. Girls of colour that wear wigs/weave/extentions. Show girls wear wigs, so many people wear wigs. And they wear them on a public and personal level. As for me the wig that goes on my head if requested is only for buisness. Since my hair is growing naturally, and I refuse to put extentions in my hair because I have blonde hair and if I put extentions in my hair I have to dye my full head and I don't look good when I have a full on colour in my hair, I only look good in my eyes with low lights and highlights.

[Barbie_Swallows]

Your fucking kidding right?
I didn't call you a faggot as a sexual term. I called you a faggot because your a annoyinand a queen that screams for attention to try to make me out to look like I'm a bad person.

When all you are doing is assuming making ass out of yourself and trying to keep going with things. Get a life and or go bug another tgirl because your giving me quite a headache everything you post on here is to bash me. From I'm lying that I don't enjoy cock under 8 inches, commenting on my personal life whenyou have no damn right, every post you post is about me, saying I'm a crossdresser. Everything and more stop with your childish games and leave me alone.

I haven't provided you service so you have no excuse to cry about me, I'm fed up on your personal attacks and hate rants and I'm probably not the only one.

Actually the correct term for you darling is Transvestite, not a cross-dresser, cause u haven't had any plastic surgeries to enhance yourself into a a true transgender female, like breast implants, ect...

[Dita Dior]

Actually the correct term for you darling is Transvestite, not a cross-dresser, cause u haven't had any plastic surgeries to enhance yourself into a a true transgender female, like breast implants, ect...

darling i am going outwest and i will have my implants in july for my 19th birthday or in june.
since i have been giving a close friend of mine 25% of my earnings i make daily towards my breast fund in his seperate bank account so i don't touch the money and spend it on something else since i'm not good with my money. and once i go outwest i will be giving him large ammounts at the time.

so call a transvesite, transsexual, crossdresser. it doesn't matter to me in my heart i'm who i am inside and i don't have to prove to anyone. as long as i'm happy that's all that matters. i'm not changing myself for anyone but myself.

[Shyla Wild]

Since BigMac asked a general question and you took it personally. Let me clear some stuff up.

As you write. Your question I will answer in bold under. I think others would love to see my answers. As much as you do.


Why did you lie about being 18? You were certainly not 18 when you started escorting and you have said you are 18 for well over a year

I started escorting at the age of 16 and no not on shemalecanada on a website called squirt. I am 18. July 12 1993, as a numberous ammount of my clientel I have showed them my birth certifigate and my age to prove my point of not lying. I have nothing to hide why hide it.

Mistake Number 1#
http://tgirlforums.com/yabbse/showth...t=dita+toronto

If you don't give me respect I'm not going to give it back.

Mistake Number #2. Respect is EARNED not given.

Why did you have a boyfriend if you were going to lie to him anyways

Simple....He's not a Boyfriend. He's just the guy that Dita is fucking for free. She thinks the other girls don't know. But we all know this is her way of doing freebies without pissing off the rest of us. I don't know who she thinks she is fooling. We all share clients....did she really think they wouldn't say something?

Why do you say "I don't care about safety" because you get tested once a month . Certainly getting barebacked in the ass buy some stranger who is hot and says "I am clean" carried a risk. These things can happen in between tests.

NOT TOUCHING THIS....You have no idea how many girls are scared of you for this reason.

I do care about safety, but when I say I don't care about safety read between the lines, I mean that I don't care about the safety of the situation not meaning the safety of my health or my life, that is a whole different matter. I do get tested once a month and if I miss a month then I get tested when I can the latest I have ever been tested in a period was between a two month period so I missed one month and then the next month I got tested. As for this bareback bullshit, I don't do bareback unless I am in a relationship with a guy for a big period of time. That rumor from that idiot that window shopped me in the summer has caused me alot of problems and has made it look like I'm so bareback whore, but I refuse to do bareback for my safety and the future of my life. The only thing I do bareback is bareback blowjobs, because I crave the taste of cock and if that is wrong well then call me wrong.

Whatever Lies you want to tell here is fine, I won't say aanything.

[Shyla Wild]

As for the word Faggot.

I have often heard girls refer to clients or guys into tgirls as faggots. Now if you see yourself as a boy, calling your client a faggot is valid. But understand, at that point the word faggot works both ways. Now it may seem like a good way to put someone down, but the only person you are putting down is YOURSELF.

How you do see yourself? As a boy or girl? If you see yourself as a girl then it is impossible for your clients to be faggots. They are coming to see a girl...with something extra. Hey some guys like blonds, some brunettes, some like BBW, others like petite girls. And some like girls with a cock.

Seriously, there are so many ways to insult someone...off the top of my head, "Waste of cum" is one of my favorites. Faggot is truly a poor choice as you just called yourself a man.

This is not meant to be an attack. More a wake-up call. Think about the words you use.

[FRENCHY]

Is Dita having a conversation wth herself again?

[maddplotter]

I have not bottomed so I'm not worried about being called a "bottom queen". If a girl called me faggot, I would probably turn around and call her that too. I kind of like Shyla's answer. If I'm a faggot, that implies that I am fucking another guy....YOU. HEHEHEHE I don't think that it would bother me too much.

Simple....He's not a Boyfriend. He's just the guy that Dita is fucking for free. She thinks the other girls don't know. But we all know this is her way of doing freebies without pissing off the rest of us. I don't know who she thinks she is fooling. We all share clients....did she really think they wouldn't say something?

I keep rereading this paragraph from Shyla. Thinking back over the years, I only remember one well known Toronto SP let me suck on her massive tool at a Goodhandy's I Love Sex Party about 3 or 4 years ago. That only lasted a minute or two and we did a little kissing. At another one of these parties, a Latina girl let me suck on her for a little bit too but she was not an escort. As for a full on fuck and suck fest with a girl, rolling on bed naked and sweaty, I haven't had a freebie yet. Now if I were to get a freebie, would I mention it here? I don't think I would. That would be something special and probably keep to myself. Besides, that would be detrimental to her business if I blab about any freebies. Then she'll probably get angry. Some things you got to keep secret.

[Alexis]

darling i am going outwest and i will have my implants in july for my 19th birthday or in june.
since i have been giving a close friend of mine 25% of my earnings i make daily towards my breast fund in his seperate bank account so i don't touch the money and spend it on something else since i'm not good with my money. and once i go outwest i will be giving him large ammounts at the time.

so call a transvesite, transsexual, crossdresser. it doesn't matter to me in my heart i'm who i am inside and i don't have to prove to anyone. as long as i'm happy that's all that matters. i'm not changing myself for anyone but myself.

Hmm..

Not a critique by any means..

Dita, with how much your boobs have grown in the last 4 months.. wow..

If I was you, I'd stay on hormones, and not do any surgery till I was 21..

I bet you grow natural C's..

If you do get them.. dont get them big.. keep it a C cup..

you're going to grow more..

Also get your Endocrinologist to prescribe you some progesterone..

Makes them grow even Faster..

Actually the correct term for you darling is Transvestite, not a cross-dresser, cause u haven't had any plastic surgeries to enhance yourself into a a true transgender female, like breast implants, ect...

I think Dita's a TS now.. Anyone who does hormones and starts the actual transition.. HRT is the start of chemically becoming a woman and chemically is more important than physically.. Dita's boobs are close to an A cup and getting bigger..

Of course we're all crossdressers according to Crag if we aren't planning on getting bottom surgery.. lol..

[Alexis]

I would like to know what men and clients of T girls feel when some of these ladies call us that?

I dunno.. I prefer other terms..

Good little cock sucker..

Panzie ass little faggot..

Fuckhole.. Pussy..

It's because I know some boys want to be a good little cocksucking panzie assed fucking fagots for my big dick..

And when I bitch slap them with my dick and tell them that they love it..

They are just too scared to have a real boy cock in their mouth..

[Rockheart]

Hmm..

Not a critique by any means..

Dita, with how much your boobs have grown in the last 4 months.. wow..

If I was you, I'd stay on hormones, and not do any surgery till I was 21..

I bet you grow natural C's..

If you do get them.. dont get them big.. keep it a C cup..

you're going to grow more..

Also get your Endocrinologist to prescribe you some progesterone..

Makes them grow even Faster..



I think Dita's a TS now.. Anyone who does hormones and starts the actual transition.. HRT is the start of chemically becoming a woman and chemically is more important than physically.. Dita's boobs are close to an A cup and getting bigger..

Of course we're all crossdressers according to Crag if we aren't planning on getting bottom surgery.. lol..

Look you all are the ones that hates that word, use any word you want.
I was just using it as an example of the law.
I am saying if you do't want to do the bottom surgery and you like your cock, you are a male.
If you are not diagnosed by a doctor as having a gender dysphoria and under a doctors care.
Then you should not qualify as a trangender under the law, and I do not recognize you as a true transsexual.
No matter what you say.

A true transsexual wants to be a woman and takes steps to move towards being a woman.
Which is SRS.

Since there is only 2 sexes that god created you have to fall into one.
If you are not a FEMALE, then you are a MALE.
The math is incredibly simple.

If you like your cock and want to keep it, you are a MALE.
No matter what modifications you make to your body, you are a MALE.
No matter what amount of hormones you take you are a MALE.
If you are a FEMALE in your brain then you would want a PUSSY.

If you are a MALE that dresses in female clothing for any reason you could be referred to as many things:

A shemale
A crossdresser
A transvestite
A heshe
A ladyboy
A tranny
A fetishist.
A Male

BUT NOT:
A Female
A Transsexual
A Transgender officially recognized by law.

You pick your own term and stop blaming me, I didn't invent the words.

If everyone is going to walk around dressed up as women with cocks and have no intention of becoming a woman, my tax dollars shouldn't be paying for it. You should not have the right to go to work as woman, if you employer doesn't like it, because it is a SEXUAL preference, not a PHYSICAL CONDITION.
It is only a PHYSICAL CONDITION superficially to you.

You can call yourself whatever you want but you cannot go around self proclaiming you are transsexual under the law. Because you are not Transsexuals and don't deserve any different rights than any man like me.
It's like me saying, today I am going to be Chinese, give me all the legal right that belong to Chinese in Canada.
Unless a doctor confirms that I was actually born Chinese, I will continue to be a big fat white guy from Canada and all the rights that go with that.

I don't care what you think you are, it is pretty clear.
Period.

This doesn't mean I won't treat you the way you wish to be treated in my company.

[Shyla Wild]

I think Dita's a TS now.. Anyone who does hormones and starts the actual transition.. HRT is the start of chemically becoming a woman and chemically is more important than physically.. Dita's boobs are close to an A cup and getting bigger..

Unfortunately, neither you nor Barbie are qualified to make a call on who is trans and who is not. A pysch can. Giving my dog hormones doesn't make it transsexual.

No one can judge if Dita is TS except her doctors. And no one should judge her, she is her own person, doing things at her own pace and way.

[Rockheart]

Unfortunately, neither you nor Barbie are qualified to make a call on who is trans and who is not. A pysch can. Giving my dog hormones doesn't make it transsexual.

No one can judge if Dita is TS except her doctors. And no one should judge her, she is her own person, doing things at her own pace and way.

If doctors say she is a Female inside and doctors are treating her as such, then she should become a female by law and that's that.
She will work towards and schedule SRS.

None of us should be able to say what is truly in someones head, you don't know.
However if they are claiming something and not following through with treatment of any kind, it is hard to take them seriously.

Legally there has to be a line, in reality it is fuzzy.
Law requires a line which makes sense.
Otherwise we could just walk around and claim whatever status we want.
Transgender, first nations, handicapped, visible minority, sanitary engineer, martian, whatever.
We all can't park near the door.

What, I wonder, is the capacity of the law to go back and forth from one sex to the other.
If you are diagnosed and become a female but then decide to go back to being a male,
are you wrong, are the doctors wrong, is it just a phase, is that ok?
Should the law allow you to fade back and forth?
I would say your just confused in that case.

I have dated a Ladyboy and I have dated a MTF Transsexual, they are not the same.
For the MTF SRS was her number one goal, until it happened.

[Dita Dior]

Hmm..

Not a critique by any means..

Dita, with how much your boobs have grown in the last 4 months.. wow..

If I was you, I'd stay on hormones, and not do any surgery till I was 21..

I bet you grow natural C's..

If you do get them.. dont get them big.. keep it a C cup..

you're going to grow more..

Also get your Endocrinologist to prescribe you some progesterone..

Makes them grow even Faster..



I think Dita's a TS now.. Anyone who does hormones and starts the actual transition.. HRT is the start of chemically becoming a woman and chemically is more important than physically.. Dita's boobs are close to an A cup and getting bigger..

Of course we're all crossdressers according to Crag if we aren't planning on getting bottom surgery.. lol..

thank you alexis
and i am on progestrone as well, i find it makes me really horny. i have a laser session booked, since i found out i'm not blonde on the face so i can get it done, and I do have a full A cup now. No where close to a B, I probably could grow a natural C cup since I am on hormones at a young age and now I am on a constant flow but I want my implant and then stay on the hormones, go see about my srs surgery and before shyla gives me hints and help to do so i already know the path I am taking and I don't need help.