We Sometimes Do Not Understand What We Truly Say

[Shyla Wild]

I enjoy talking with other girls. I find everyone brings something to the table. I remember reading comments from and about Soda. She is often not spoken very well of on this forum. But she taught me a valuable lesson today. In a conversation with her today she opened my eyes to something many of us say in this community when talking about Genetic Girls. We often call them "Real" girls. I made this mistake today. The reason this is a mistake, is that by calling a Genetic Girl "Real" then we are calling ourselves fake. I am not the only one guilty of this. I have heard many others do this. I was corrected quickly by Soda and she even told me that it hurt her to hear that. After thinking about what she said, I truly understood her point. It lowers us when we do this. A GG is no more a "real" girl then any TS out there. She explained that instead of using the term "real", we should instead use the term "regular" and refer to us(Transsexuals) as "special", which is exactly what we are.

We live in a community where terms, words and ideas are growing. Acceptance is not a crazy idea. Tasha Jones once told me that for our community to be taken seriously we must first get ourselves in order. We fight with ourselves and stab each other in the back over petty things. Money, men....these things come and go. But carrying yourself with class, integrity, values and morals....these are the things that will make us strong. Yes, we all take our knocks from society....but we are better then that. These knocks have made us strong.


We should all learn to listen to each other, instead of waiting for our turn to speak as everyone has something interesting to say. We just have to take the time to find out what it is.

So thank you Soda for opening my eyes to something so simple and basic. Yet a very powerful idea.

So remember...Regular and Special....because none of us are fake.

Love You All.



Ms. Wild

[Dita Dior]

for the title : i don't understand seventy five percent of what is in my head or say. it's life, we learn as we go. thats why i love you soda, shyla, tasha and lola because i learn so much for you four daily. without you even knowing it.

if it's from a buisnes aspect, to a educational value, family, being compared to the country of africa ( i will never forget that call shyla lol I AM AFRICA HEAR ME ROAR), and most importantly when in doubt just be a rag doll and let him give it to you.

i learned from the best of the best, thank god for friends.

i love my sister soda.
she is the best, and she entertains me more then i entertain myself.

enjoy your trip to europe babe, i cant wait to hear all about it.
and as i told you come home with my sweedish 12 inch cock please. i know he is dreaming of me, now lets get you to get him to wake me up when im dreaming just bring him in the room and get him to poke me in the eye.

alot of people unestimate soda, i learn so much from her. you know what i'm saying miss thing :P
i'm coming to calgary when your back from europe so keep me updated, i'm not going to the city unless you there.
you promised me to get my hole distroyed now let's buy me a wheelchair.



did soda have her converstation about that jesus/god is a tranny? because her and i talked about it. and i think she is completely right. to everyone who believes in christianity any everything. it's my opinon its one of them but religon is such a open book we will never know until we see the day.

by the way soda, my european soccer player keeps talking about you. he really loved meeting you, he told me to tell you " the glisen in your eyes is like a beautiful scene that goes on and on and never stops running because you get lost in those beautiful hazel eyes" i don't know if your eyes or hazel, that's what he thinks.

miss you, answer your phone this week i'll call you in a couple days xoxo

[Guest]

Im overwhelmed by your appreciation i just wanna cry

Thanks for your kind words LADIES, I know in time the world will have no choice but to accept us for who and what we are. The more knowledge we breed and radiate to the world the more comfortable and more accepting most of the world will get. Just think of how we feel sometimes when we enter an establishment or some sort of group gathering. We sometimes feel these eyes and brains are ready to get the best of us. think of how they would feel if they walked into starbucks and there was a group of transsexuals sipping coffee being silly laughing talking loud and such they would feel like we would. I know in my experience when I was out with special LADIES like ourselves that those little fears that I manifest with when i am alone are totally not in play. I try to remember this when I feel this way and sometimes it works and sometimes it doesnt depending onn circumstances you the outcome is unpredictable. But i hope one day I live to see Transsexuals as police officers, running Banks, owning establishments, running for presidents, running starbucks, having a talk show, branding a spot for us, It will Happen if we work together and speak up for ourselves and knowing we own a part of the world just like any other human being on this planet Earth that was given to all of us not most of us. We owe nothing to no one. or nothing all we owe is to relish in life and be truthful to yourself like any other person on this planet and enjoying it in our own way not any other way that has been dicated to what is right and what is wrong. Live it dont Leave it!!!

Soda

[Dita Dior]

Thanks for your kind words LADIES, I know in time the world will have no choice but to accept us for who and what we are. The more knowledge we breed and radiate to the world the more comfortable and more accepting most of the world will get. Just think of how we feel sometimes when we enter an establishment or some sort of group gathering. We sometimes feel these eyes and brains are ready to get the best of us. think of how they would feel if they walked into starbucks and there was a group of transsexuals sipping coffee being silly laughing talking loud and such they would feel like we would. I know in my experience when I was out with special LADIES like ourselves that those little fears that I manifest with when i am alone are totally not in play. I try to remember this when I feel this way and sometimes it works and sometimes it doesnt depending onn circumstances you the outcome is unpredictable. But i hope one day I live to see Transsexuals as police officers, running Banks, owning establishments, running for presidents, running starbucks, having a talk show, branding a spot for us, It will Happen if we work together and speak up for ourselves and knowing we own a part of the world just like any other human being on this planet Earth that was given to all of us not most of us. We owe nothing to no one. or nothing all we owe is to relish in life and be truthful to yourself like any other person on this planet and enjoying it in our own way not any other way that has been dicated to what is right and what is wrong. Live it dont Leave it!!!

Soda

it comes from my heart don`t worry babes.

when i have problems sometimes like at the bar last week i called you in windsor, there was that really hot guy behind the bar remember the one i told you i wanted and you said why are you still on the phone and you had to go get ready and for me to go at it.wel

well my little moto when i have no idea how to grab the guy i just say `what would soda do` you know like through highschool they had those bracelets saying WWJD what would jesus do, well i made it more situable for me.