My Personal Relationship With A Shemale Escort

[Rantsalot]

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I got some questions also this is just one side of the story.

In these cases we never hear what the girl has to say. generally because of embarrassment , depression and/or fear.

I can't look at this objectively or feel empathy until knowing more.

[Dreamweaver]

I got some questions also this is just one side of the story.

In these cases we never hear what the girl has to say. generally because of embarrassment , depression and/or fear.

I can't look at this objective or feel empathy until knowing more.

Well believe my story or not I don't really care.

I've had my say and I'm done. What happened to me was just plain wrong, and I blame no one but myself for letting it happen.

Bottom line is, most escorts are in it for the easy money, NOT a relationship and no one should fool themselves into believing otherwise.

Period.

[kitana.mai]

Sorry that happened to you defiantly a unfortunate situation. But don't let it taint your view on all girls.

[Dreamweaver]

Sorry that happened to you defiantly a unfortunate situation. But don't let it taint your view on all girls.

Thanks Kitana Mai ... As i said at the beginning of my story I won't let it taint my opinion of everyone in the profession, we're all individuals. I actually know some pretty cool people here and that not everyone would stoop this low. I basically wanted to warn others that there are predators out there and to be smart.

[falkon]

ADVICE
My advice to anyone considering entering a relationship with an escort? Make sure you really know who you are dealing with, ask questions, ask MORE questions, if you catch them lying, walk away before you get in too deep.

Just look out for number one. Think with your brain, not your dick.

Yes this is my first post under "Dreamweaver" but the above story is absolutely true, although some of the events happened in a slightly different order than what I've written. Want to know the name of the escort?

Ask me nice in a PM, MAYBE I'll tell you


The End.
(? and a happy beginning for me!)

Similar things can happen with non escort gg. I know from experience.

[Rantsalot]

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Well believe my story or not I don't really care.

I've had my say and I'm done. What happened to me was just plain wrong, and I blame no one but myself for letting it happen.

Bottom line is, most escorts are in it for the easy money, NOT a relationship and no one should fool themselves into believing otherwise.

Period.

I never said I didn't believe you what I said was that this was just one side of the story. What you say and what the lady would say would be worlds different I'm sure. Your story is similar to others posted here from the past.

You had a tragedy, my condolences to you and the stress and heartbreak from this I'm sure was incredibly painful but along the way there seems to be failure in communication , maybe some signals lost in translation.

The main thing is you 2 are not together anymore and thats that. If you've moved on and are happy then great but I wouldn't admit to catching up on her let alone mention previous and current relationships or actions, that wont rectify anything.

As for the girl at hand if she herself is depressed over this then she truly needs to find comfort in someone she really loves and is close to her like a parent/partner and maybe seek closure by trying to talk it out.

Hopefully this doesn't escalate worse and both involved can just walk away....

There are some really beautiful T girls out there and the proof is the posts they have made on this thread.

[Dreamweaver]

As for the girl at hand if she herself is depressed over this then she truly needs to find comfort in someone she really loves and is close to her like a parent/partner and maybe seek closure by trying to talk it out.

Hopefully this doesn't escalate worse and both involved can just walk away....

Yeah, losing a big source of income can be pretty depressing.

I've lost jobs in the past through my own fault and it made me sad too.

I do hope this is over. I know I'm done.

[bleh123]

Yeah painfully typical. I've suffered far worse even. The escort lifestyle is just too hardcore, its constant stimulation. It's pretty hard to compete with the allure of fast cash, hard partying, drugs, and a host of available guys with tighter abs and bigger dicks. Even if they start with good intentions for you, it doesn't end well. What can you expect tho with this shit man, you're dating a hooker. Could you imagine yourself ever pursuing a GG that was/is a prostitute? It's a laughable notion. You'd expect nothing less than the typical trashiness and flavor that comes with that lifestyle.

[Ana_Jolie]

I wouldn't peg all girls as being like this that do escort. Just keep a watchful eye and don't allow her to be such a financial burden no matter the circumstances. I met my boyfriend when I was an escort (no he was not a client)... I stopped escorting for him as any girl should if they are serious about this person. No girl is truly happy being an escort no matter how much they say they are.

[Dreamweaver]

I wouldn't peg all girls as being like this that do escort. Just keep a watchful eye and don't allow her to be such a financial burden no matter the circumstances. I met my boyfriend when I was an escort (no he was not a client)... I stopped escorting for him as any girl should if they are serious about this person. No girl is truly happy being an escort no matter how much they say they are.

Exactly. Where's the "Like" button when you need it?

[Tia Phoenixx]

I wouldn't peg all girls as being like this that do escort. Just keep a watchful eye and don't allow her to be such a financial burden no matter the circumstances. I met my boyfriend when I was an escort (no he was not a client)... I stopped escorting for him as any girl should if they are serious about this person. No girl is truly happy being an escort no matter how much they say they are.

wow..two thumbs up for you Candyland.
I'm hesitating to sacrifice my career for a boyfriend at the moment, that's probably the reason nobody is in serious relationship with me right now.

As for you dreamweaver: it's a tough lesson that you need to learn and thanks for sharing it with us.

Not every escort like that though, I have the story that one tgirl escort gave everything that she had but still ended up being abandoned and cheated by her boyfriend.

However, as Candyland has already stated precisely. I totally agree that it is not wise to have a girlfriend as a working escort.

Candyland....you look great btw!

Tia

[lookingforlove]

Times Have Changed

These days a lot of free lance GGs and TGirls are escorting. There are many college girls and married women, who never escorted before and who are not "professionals", doing escorting for the money or for the adventure of it. I would imagine that some of these girls are ultimately looking for a relationship and could develop something more with a "customer". Whether the hard core professional ever really wants a relationship is anyone's guess. However, we are all human, and most of us are seeking out Mr or Miss right in this life.

[Dreamweaver]

Not every escort like that though, I have the story that one tgirl escort gave everything that she had but still ended up being abandoned and cheated by her boyfriend
Tia

Good point, Tia ... just as guys should choose carefully ... the girls should choose the boyfriend that they are going to give everything up for carefully too.

i.e. a beefed up male stripper from Remingtons probably would NOT be a good boyfriend choice if you're looking for someone who wouldn't cheat on you. lol

One thing I've learned is that you can pretty much tell the character of a person just by looking at their Facebook page ... that is, before they have a chance to block stuff from you.

[Ana_Jolie]

wow..two thumbs up for you Candyland.
I'm hesitating to sacrifice my career for a boyfriend at the moment, that's probably the reason nobody is in serious relationship with me right now.

As for you dreamweaver: it's a tough lesson that you need to learn and thanks for sharing it with us.

Not every escort like that though, I have the story that one tgirl escort gave everything that she had but still ended up being abandoned and cheated by her boyfriend.

However, as Candyland has already stated precisely. I totally agree that it is not wise to have a girlfriend as a working escort.

Candyland....you look great btw!

Tia

Thanks Tia

[jimlloyd]

wow..two thumbs up for you Candyland.
I'm hesitating to sacrifice my career for a boyfriend at the moment, that's probably the reason nobody is in serious relationship with me right now.

As for you dreamweaver: it's a tough lesson that you need to learn and thanks for sharing it with us.

Not every escort like that though, I have the story that one tgirl escort gave everything that she had but still ended up being abandoned and cheated by her boyfriend.

However, as Candyland has already stated precisely. I totally agree that it is not wise to have a girlfriend as a working escort.

Candyland....you look great btw!

Tia

Tia and Candyland, I think you're both right! Also I've dated girls like that in the past who weren't escorts but they sure seemed to be working me or at least my wallet. I think a safe rule of thumb is just be cautious when it comes to finance. I don't think many of us have money trees growing in our yards, relationships shouldn't be built on cash and I'm sure we have our doubts when it seems like they are. If you have doubts, trust your instincts.