Becoming a Trans Girl

[Pharzuph]

Hi, I'm trying to figure out if I should make the transition from male to female. I wanted to get the opinions of real T-girls to see how they knew they were trans and what really empowered them enough to make such an incredible change in their lives. I'm a 23 year old male in college, but I've never really felt at home in my own skin and I constantly feel envious of all the gorgeous T-girls I see online. The thing is I'm actually quite 'masculine' in appearance, I'm big (over six foot) and I'm fairly stocky so I'm just afraid if I were to make the transition that my body type wouldn't really accept the changes. It's vain, but I want to be beautiful. Can I get some input into my situation? Hopefully I came to the right place.

P.S. Male input is welcome as well.

[Shyla Wild]

Hi, I'm trying to figure out if I should make the transition from male to female. I wanted to get the opinions of real T-girls to see how they knew they were trans and what really empowered them enough to make such an incredible change in their lives. I'm a 23 year old male in college, but I've never really felt at home in my own skin and I constantly feel envious of all the gorgeous T-girls I see online. The thing is I'm actually quite 'masculine' in appearance, I'm big (over six foot) and I'm fairly stocky so I'm just afraid if I were to make the transition that my body type wouldn't really accept the changes. It's vain, but I want to be beautiful. Can I get some input into my situation? Hopefully I came to the right place.

P.S. Male input is welcome as well.

Get a Psych.

Not every woman is beautiful but every woman is still a woman. Every woman is envious of those more beautiful, skinnier, nicer skin, etc. So if you are only transitioning because you want to be the most beautiful girl out there, then you are not transsexual and should stay as a guy.

[Bawb]

Get a Psych.

Not every woman is beautiful but every woman is still a woman. Every woman is envious of those more beautiful, skinnier, nicer skin, etc. So if you are only transitioning because you want to be the most beautiful girl out there, then you are not transsexual and should stay as a guy.

This is very good advice
My $0.02: sounds like you have auto-gynephilia, but I'm not a psych

[Rockheart]

If you truly think you are a woman inside, you have to decide if you need to be a woman on the outside.
Not all need to become a woman to achieve a satisfying lifestyle.
You can easily be the woman in a relationship without going to all the transition.

If you feel are non-passable you certainly will have a harder road in our society.
Escorting or T-daddies to help with expenses would be more scarce.
This why you would probably only choose this route if you feel this is truly what you need.

[Tia Phoenixx]

It's a catch 22, a dilemma, there is no better solution unless if you go deeper to the center of the problem

Being a tgirl is not a choice, but a destiny (check Shyla's opinion)

I used to be an attractive boy and a popular boy escort and teen model, and did not have to change to be a woman in order to get more attention from men (check Crag's opinion, it's very valid), but it's a call from my heart, so i just follow it through (read: destiny) and now becoming a tgirl (with a new set of titties lol )

What is your call?
It does not mean your problem will be solved (to get more attention from men) once you become a woman. It may become worse, especially when you are not ready.

This is a changing life decision, not just for playing game

check this article and think about it twice:
http://gendertrender.wordpress.com/2...13/ffs-regret/

my 2 cents.

[Tia Phoenixx]

Alyssa, a member of this forums can share her opinion best with regards to this.

I'm not too sure whether or not I can reveal her story. But her story is a proven story that it's a destiny of her to become a woman, not a choice.
that's why i congratulate her dearly. She was really a woman trapped with a wrong body before

I'm very happy for her. She is a beautiful woman now as she always wants to

destiny: you have to do it and follow it through no matter what, even you may die or risk your life because of that
choice: you have some considerations to choose, and the consideration can be: popularity, money, attractiveness, etc

Though, I'm not too sure at this point, i think you are now choosing of becoming a tgirl, so it's not a destiny (to become more attractive, and get more attention from men)
Knowing that you are tall and stocky, it might not be a good idea to become a tgirl IMHO (again check Crag's opinion)

Sorry to disappoint you, but i have to be honest in order to help you choosing the right decision of your life. Nothing really personal. trust me!

Good luck

Tia

[Tia Phoenixx]

And one last thing to show you that is a destiny of me to become a tgirl, not a choice:

I'm known for being all natural, and already very popular with that. But i have titties now and i doubt i will have more money because of that (so it's NOT a choice), most probably less since i'm not 100% all natural anymore.
But hey..i did it anyway in order to make me complete (it's a destiny)

I hope you get my example well
bye now...time to enjoy the sunny sky of Bangkok

[Ray]

Wow, can't wait to see the new titties Tia. Bet they look great. Hope you didn't over do it like so many of the girls.

[Alexis]

Transition..

Hi, I'm trying to figure out if I should make the transition from male to female. I wanted to get the opinions of real T-girls to see how they knew they were trans and what really empowered them enough to make such an incredible change in their lives. I'm a 23 year old male in college, but I've never really felt at home in my own skin and I constantly feel envious of all the gorgeous T-girls I see online. The thing is I'm actually quite 'masculine' in appearance, I'm big (over six foot) and I'm fairly stocky so I'm just afraid if I were to make the transition that my body type wouldn't really accept the changes. It's vain, but I want to be beautiful. Can I get some input into my situation? Hopefully I came to the right place.

P.S. Male input is welcome as well.

I think you need to look more outside of the box..

You don't need to be male or female, a man or a woman..

You can be yourself..

There's a number of us TGirls that won't do the bottom surgery.. We like being both sexes, bisexual and in the middle..

Often in some cultures we are referred to as two spirit people, both male and female..

From time to time we get ridiculed by those making the full transition to female (or male) who obviously don't understand..

Those that make the full transition aren't two spirit (both sexes), they are male, or female..

My advice..

Go see a psychologist who specializes in gender disphoria..

Find out more about you and why you feel the way you do before you make any decisions..

[Tia Phoenixx]

Wow, can't wait to see the new titties Tia. Bet they look great. Hope you didn't over do it like so many of the girls.

thx Ray.

I don't do it to improve the business, I do it mostly because i feel prettier with it and partly because the men love it. It's only small B cup or full A cup, depending on the size of the band.

And to add to this thread:
ideally we do a transition that is good for us, suiting our soul better, BUT ALSO because the community "expects" us to be one or already treats us as one (a woman in this case)

People have been treating me like a woman since years, so having boobs actually it's better for the community since there will be no strange look anymore. No one will think that: "Poor girl, she is so pretty but flat chested."
Two years ago, there was a woman who stared at my flat chest, and i jokingly said to her that i had breast cancer, and she almost cried because of that. I was shocked to realize that I was already passable as a woman so she believe my story 100%. So now everything turns into harmony, and everybody even treat me better in society. There will be no strange look

[tedder]

I'm a guy who likes girls - genetic & tgirl. I'm very comfortable with that.

And I think that's what's most important. You need to be true to yourself. If that means going down the path of becoming a tgirl, so be it. But I think it's important to be clear on why you are going down certain roads when there are choices.

I wish you the very best in whatever choice you make.

[Anji]

be what you feel like you are.
gender doesn't have to be so black and white. it's not about being male or female imo.
the road of transition is a long way. don't suppress feelings and analyze your history.
a physical transition is a reflection of what you're going through mentally.
if you feel not comfortable in your skin n you feel you're in the grey area then be the grey area and express that.

find a psych n until you figure out who you are, be the grey area, be androgynous
coming from an androgynous person who's been in the grey area since youth n still figuring out myself.
i envy tgirls who have hormones n such but i'm not there mentally so i am who i am.
be you

[Tia Phoenixx]

be what you feel like you are.
gender doesn't have to be so black and white. it's not about being male or female imo.
the road of transition is a long way. don't suppress feelings and analyze your history.
a physical transition is a reflection of what you're going through mentally.
if you feel not comfortable in your skin n you feel you're in the grey area then be the grey area and express that.

find a psych n until you figure out who you are, be the grey area, be androgynous
coming from an androgynous person who's been in the grey area since youth n still figuring out myself.
i envy tgirls who have hormones n such but i'm not there mentally so i am who i am.
be you

the best answer so far! Welcome to the year of 2013 where gender variants are more and more acceptable
Everybody has his/her own path, so create one instead of imitate others

[Ray]

Wise decision Tia. With your small frame, a B cup sounds perfect to me. As I said earlier, can't wait to see some new pics with the modifications.

[Tia Phoenixx]

Wise decision Tia. With your small frame, a B cup sounds perfect to me. As I said earlier, can't wait to see some new pics with the modifications.

yes indeed. It takes me 3 years to figure out which size suits me best.
Then after analyzing my body type and personality, i think this frame (B cup) suits me best

I was not supposed to do this, but i've already posted 2 videos of my new titties on my facebook page LOL. I'm embarrassed to admit that i like them hahaha

https://www.facebook.com/pages/Tia-P...10906275647702