Becoming a Trans Girl

[Pharzuph]

Well just to be clear I'm not considering it for attention from men or for money. I'm plenty intelligent and will be graduating with an engineering degree in short order so I'm not interested in being an escort. I'm also not really attracted to men, I find the penis to be attractive, but the male form does absolutely nothing for me.

I appreciate all the feedback, minus the guy who is just here to talk about tits, and I really do need to more closely examine my motives, I just don't know how.

To be sure though, money is not a motivation and I'm only attracted to women.

[xoxJanexox]

Well just to be clear I'm not considering it for attention from men or for money. I'm plenty intelligent and will be graduating with an engineering degree in short order so I'm not interested in being an escort. I'm also not really attracted to men, I find the penis to be attractive, but the male form does absolutely nothing for me.

I appreciate all the feedback, minus the guy who is just here to talk about tits, and I really do need to more closely examine my motives, I just don't know how.

To be sure though, money is not a motivation and I'm only attracted to women.

The issue is not that you are motivated by money or becoming an escort. The reality as you may not realize it is that to become transgendered or transsexual and declare that publicly is something that carries its own risks including loosing many of the job opportunities that you may have now as an educated person. Therefore being marketable as a t-girl might be helpful during rough times.

I might not sound friendly but I have read your post from the start and I was always reluctant to write any comment but the truth is that I believe that you are not fully aware of this lifestyle and might be intrigued by what appears on the surface.

The bottom line of your question is that if you truly believe that you are a woman then you shall be one but please keep in mind that not all women are beautiful. Some people can make this decision without any psych assessment and the majority need an assessment to make sure that this is what they really want. Reading your question I can predict that you will fail the psych assessment, but this is just my own opinion.

[Bawb]

yes indeed. It takes me 3 years to figure out which size suits me best.
Then after analyzing my body type and personality, i think this frame (B cup) suits me best

I was not supposed to do this, but i've already posted 2 videos of my new titties on my facebook page LOL. I'm embarrassed to admit that i like them hahaha

https://www.facebook.com/pages/Tia-P...10906275647702

Tia,
Very Nice! They suit you to........ a T

[ToniaLee]

You'll be fine... no matter what, trust me!

OP, I was strait up guyish as hell. I didn't start transition until I was like thirty and it took time, it always does. You should never do it for reasons not relating to peace of mind. Can you understand that? Like... anybody could slip a skirt on and have sex and what not but that's just "sex". A trans girl just "needs" medical steps to be free. If I could do it... I mean, I looked manly as all shit... trust me... I think we all did. Once those hormones begin to work and your head gets peaceful, you'll be fine. And, look, if you don't do it, your still in good hands and in control of your life.

[Shyla Wild]

Came across this very easy and enlightening short video about human fetal development. Hard to believe that we were ALL female once! Interesting bit about the scrotum.

http://www.smithsonianmag.com/video/We-Were-All-Female-Once.html?src=tvideomod


And now we know why men have nipples.

By the second page of this thread below, Crag, Toban and myself discuss this.

http://tgirlforums.com/yabbse/showth...ghlight=brains

[brendan888]

just do it but have fun too as a lady other preferences can change good luck

[Pharzuph]

Thank you all for your help, I've decided that I will get a psych and should I pass it I will make the transition immediately. If I'm not a knock out then I can live with that, eventually I'll still find someone who loves me for me. I want to be a woman.

[abbigailrossa]

Self-acceptance is the most difficult part of transition, and the first thing you must begin working on. Many women find therapy can help them sort out their emotions and accept them. It will help you determine how important this is to you. Most women have fantasies or misconceptions about transition at the onset. Therapy can help you prepare for the realities of transition, and how to handle both the pleasant and unpleasant parts. The key to all of this is feeling good about yourself. You are going to take a lot of blows to your self-esteem as you transition. You must have a way to deal with these. Starting a therapists relationship early will also make it easier to get an therapist's letter when you are ready. You have to be 100% certain that transition is your destiny before embarking on this journey.

Hope this advice is useful and wish you the best of luck for the future.

[ToniaLee]

Get mad, OP. You want to be a little girl and life is giving you lemons.... throw those lemons right back and demand to see a manager!

[merelypink]

I wish you the best of luck in your transition!!