if a client does not request to have a call back or a text do not fUken do IT!!!

[detox]

i never tend to post unless it is a review, but here it goes.
i been meaning to create a post for a while now.

ladies!!!

if i call you and do not leave a message, DO NOT call back.
if i call you and do not leave a message, DO NOT TEXT.
if i text you, and mention in the text not to text me back or text me until a certain time, PLEASE DO SO!!!

most of you, in all of your ads keep mentioning that privacy and discretion is assured!!!? i believe some of you need to google the actual terms and descriptions of your codes of conduct!!!
It seems more and more of you have no idea what discretion and privacy means.

so to all of you, have respect, like most of us do. i call you with unblocked number or a text, that does NOT give you the right to call back or text when it is convenient to you!!!

Detox.

[Kylie Storm]

well i think because many ladies think that if you call from a certain number its safe to call back unless the guy is super pussy whipped and his wife goes thru his phone and call records,but i can understand since i never call back unless i get a voicemail but if you text then you will have a text back.....if you want privacy do not text in the first place.

[sector7]

well i think because many ladies think that if you call from a certain number its safe to call back unless the guy is super pussy whipped and his wife goes thru his phone and call records,but i can understand since i never call back unless i get a voicemail but if you text then you will have a text back.....if you want privacy do not text in the first place.

I disagree, you may have some privacy when you call but an hour later
might be a different story, your wife or gf could see your phone ring or
you get a text.

I think unless specifically requested by the client no call back is
expected. Texting is a gray area since you expect a text back, but how
long after the first text, 10 mins, 20? Is 30 too much? Certainly hours
later is innappropriate.

[xoxJanexox]

I agree that calling back is inappropriate unless the client made such a request.

For texting, the client needs to set up a safe time zone for texting back if he is under such vigorous monitoring, otherwise I am not aware of certain time cut off and it would be highly subjective especially during the 1st hour or so.

[Ana_Jolie]

I think it should be your responsibility to inform the person you are calling or texting they should be or should not be contacting you back. People cant read minds. Or how about not setting yourself up for failure by using a phone that your significant other is assessable to. Hello Captain Obvious

[sunshine]

you are exaggerating

I agree with Anna.

I don't know you so I can't make a determination one way or another but I can tell you that you are exaggerating. A real client who is calling me wants to speak with me. He will keep trying until he reaches me. If I just missed his call, I sometimes return the call although it is rare. But even if I did it all the time, what is the problem with that? You called the girl so you must want to speak with her. If she returns the missed call, you should be happy, no? If you don't want a call back or a text back, you need to tell the girl.

Your post makes it seem that the girl is out of line by calling you back but what about the hundreds of players who do everything possible to get under our skin? Here are ultra common things that happen every day:

Call and hang up

Call and doesn't speak audibly or whispers or changes his voice

Call and asks fifty questions and then isn't sure when he wants to see me but won't get off the phone to let me get on with my day

Call and makes an appointment but never shows up, sometimes says he's at my door, sometimes says he's held up and will be a half hour late but then doesn't show up again

Call and asks for an outcall but gives a fake address or non-existent address

Calls and insults me

Calls and asks "did you call me?"

Texts instead of calling even when all my ads say no texts

E-mails instead of calling even if all my ads say no e-mails

All sorts of questions by e-mail or text that never lead to an appointment or even a call

I'm up until 2:00am or 4:00am or whatever - guy calls can you see me tomorrow at 9:30am? OK, I will - get up early, get ready - he doesn't show up and doesn't even call to cancel

Guy wants to see me but it has to be right now, right now!!! OK, I rush to get ready and then he doesn't show up

etc, etc, etc.

I get well over a hundred calls of this type every single fucking day. The girls are human beings you know but do you hear us complaining about this kind of abuse? Rarely. Maybe we've got more balls than you.

That's what our day is like. Compared to that your complaint seems like sniveling. If there is some kind of rule book to this, the clients are the ones who break all the rules, most of the time. If a girl occasionaly missteps, give her a break about it.

Best advice to the guys - get a phone that is only for pooning. Also, contact the girl in the way she wants you to and don't play games (not meant at the poster, I don't know if he plays games). You want a good time with the girl, put everything on your side and it might just happen.

Sunshine

[detox]

ladies you advertise your phone numbers we do not.
so if i call, and do not leave a message, that does not give you the right to call back!!!
if i need to speak with you i will call you again, if i need to speak with you, i will leave a message.
that is my option not yours. you provide a service and you get paid.

when you say no text messages, i do not send you text messages!!!

privacy and discretion does apply only when we are in a room.
think before you apply these terms, at the very least have the courtesy to apply them toward your clients.

[bottomguyusually]

well i think because many ladies think that if you call from a certain number its safe to call back unless the guy is super pussy whipped and his wife goes thru his phone and call records,but i can understand since i never call back unless i get a voicemail but if you text then you will have a text back.....if you want privacy do not text in the first place.

While some men may be "super pussy wipped" most just want, and expect privacy, same as the girls.

[detox]

well i think because many ladies think that if you call from a certain number its safe to call back unless the guy is super pussy whipped and his wife goes thru his phone and call records,but i can understand since i never call back unless i get a voicemail but if you text then you will have a text back.....if you want privacy do not text in the first place.

tiana - there shouldnt even be a reason and unless or because, for you or anyone to call back unless requested!!!

[Ana_Jolie]

well i think because many ladies think that if you call from a certain number its safe to call back unless the guy is super pussy whipped and his wife goes thru his phone and call records,but i can understand since i never call back unless i get a voicemail but if you text then you will have a text back.....if you want privacy do not text in the first place.

tiana - there shouldnt even be a reason and unless or because, for you or anyone to call back unless requested!!!

LOL Sorry to point out the obvious once again but maybe you should leave a msg requesting not to be contacted back

[sunshine]

not logical

ladies you advertise your phone numbers we do not.
so if i call, and do not leave a message, that does not give you the right to call back!!!
if i need to speak with you i will call you again, if i need to speak with you, i will leave a message.
that is my option not yours. you provide a service and you get paid.

when you say no text messages, i do not send you text messages!!!

privacy and discretion does apply only when we are in a room.
think before you apply these terms, at the very least have the courtesy to apply them toward your clients.

There is no logic in your reasoning. When you call and don't leave a message, it absolutely gives the person the right to call you back if it is done within a few minutes. Whether the girl advertised her number or not, this does not have anything to do with her returning your call. If you don't want a call back, leave a message and say "I don't want you to call me back" - It's your responsibility. The girl is not a mind-reader. For that matter, if you didn't leave a message, the girl doesn't know who you are or what you wanted. That is a good reason to call back and find out who called her. It might have been an urgent call or she might be expecting a call so wants tyo return your call. How is she going to know if you don't leave a message.

You are making up these rules but it's not your rule book to write. Like you said yourself, the girl is advertising. It's her rule book. She decides how to handle phone calls, not you. Some guys want a call back - they want to speak to the girl and when she returns the call, he is happy to hear from her.

If you are worried about someone finding a record of the call, use a phone that is just for pooning, just a suggestion. Returning a missed call within a short amount of time is not bad. If a girl is cold-calling you, that's inappropriate, but that's not what you're talking about.

Sunshine

[xoxJanexox]

ladies you advertise your phone numbers we do not.
so if i call, and do not leave a message, that does not give you the right to call back!!!
if i need to speak with you i will call you again, if i need to speak with you, i will leave a message.
that is my option not yours. you provide a service and you get paid.

I totally agree with this reasoning. I might argue this further that when you call any provider, advertiser, seller etc. and don't leave a message to call back, it would be inappropriate for that advertiser, seller or provider etc. to call back unless requested to do so. What might be overlooked here is that when a client tries to reach a provider and she is unable to pick up the phone, then he is automatically given the option to leave a voice message and once the client elected not to leave a voice message then the matter ends there!

I also agree that we as provider get a lot of nonsense in the form of emails, calls, texts etc, and while this might be a valid observation, it doesn't qualify in my view to overstep the boundaries of the other clients who might be very legitimate and fall within the average hobbyists category and are not expected or required to carry separate cell phones etc.

[aguyoutthere1]

i never tend to post unless it is a review, but here it goes.
i been meaning to create a post for a while now.

ladies!!!

if i call you and do not leave a message, DO NOT call back.
if i call you and do not leave a message, DO NOT TEXT.
if i text you, and mention in the text not to text me back or text me until a certain time, PLEASE DO SO!!!

most of you, in all of your ads keep mentioning that privacy and discretion is assured!!!? i believe some of you need to google the actual terms and descriptions of your codes of conduct!!!
It seems more and more of you have no idea what discretion and privacy means.

so to all of you, have respect, like most of us do. i call you with unblocked number or a text, that does NOT give you the right to call back or text when it is convenient to you!!!

Detox.

I thought you explained this well. You specified no message left, it should be common sense they should not call or text back. You even specified a time restriction on texting. Again, well thought out and common sense. But based on some of the responses you are getting, common sense is not prerequisite to this profession. LOL

I truly believe anyone in a real relationship is being watched by their significant other. Some more than others. I like to think I do the pussy whipping, but I know better. You can kid yourself, but trust me, they are keeping track of your every move. If you are actively cheating, you may have a "burner" phone, but for service providers you should not have to. There has to be COMPLETE discretion. Could you imagine, that damn Iphone text comes right on your main screen with an escort asking questions. The GF picks up the phone and reads it. Only to pass the message along of course. LOL.
NOTE: you can turn it off so it does not show the message, only the number.

The real problem is likely the providers that are not making much money that day or week and are in fear of missing a potential client. I understand it, but you could really fuck up someone's life. Hate to lose half my money because and SP had no real discretion rules.

As always, just my opinion.


KC

[Ana_Jolie]

I thought you explained this well. You specified no message left, it should be common sense they should not call or text back. You even specified a time restriction on texting. Again, well thought out and common sense. But based on some of the responses you are getting, common sense is not prerequisite to this profession. LOL

I truly believe anyone in a real relationship is being watched by their significant other. Some more than others. I like to think I do the pussy whipping, but I know better. You can kid yourself, but trust me, they are keeping track of your every move. If you are actively cheating, you may have a "burner" phone, but for service providers you should not have to. There has to be COMPLETE discretion. Could you imagine, that damn Iphone text comes right on your main screen with an escort asking questions. The GF picks up the phone and reads it. Only to pass the message along of course. LOL.
NOTE: you can turn it off so it does not show the message, only the number.

The real problem is likely the providers that are not making much money that day or week and are in fear of missing a potential client. I understand it, but you could really fuck up someone's life. Hate to lose half my money because and SP had no real discretion rules.

As always, just my opinion.


KC

Yes and what you guys are failing to understand that not only do these girls use these phone lines for business but their personal lives as well. So in other words if someone calls your home phone and you miss the call and do not know who it is what would you do? I would call it back. If you guys fail to leave a msg requesting no call back is necessary then you are leaving the reasoning of calling or someone returning the call left open for interpretation. It has nothing to do with common sense. I personally think anyone with common sense who did not want a call back would leave a msg saying so. You guys sure love to back each other and praise each others points but take into consideration that we are not physics and we do have a personal life as well.

[Alexis]

I totally agree with you..

i never tend to post unless it is a review, but here it goes.
i been meaning to create a post for a while now.

ladies!!!

if i call you and do not leave a message, DO NOT call back.
if i call you and do not leave a message, DO NOT TEXT.
if i text you, and mention in the text not to text me back or text me until a certain time, PLEASE DO SO!!!

most of you, in all of your ads keep mentioning that privacy and discretion is assured!!!? i believe some of you need to google the actual terms and descriptions of your codes of conduct!!!
It seems more and more of you have no idea what discretion and privacy means.

so to all of you, have respect, like most of us do. i call you with unblocked number or a text, that does NOT give you the right to call back or text when it is convenient to you!!!

Detox.

I couldn't agree more..

I go even further and when a regular phones me I always answer with an unknowing "Hello" and never greet them by name right away like "Hi Bob".. Just in case it's his wife calling.. I had that happen once..

I also had some guys wife text me on his cell phone too saying "Who's this?" and I answered back "I think you have the wrong number.."

What I don't like is guys that can't fucking read an ad for one..

Second.. those that text or call me drunk in the middle of the night.. like get real..

Those ones deserve a text back in the day time in my opinion.. lol..