Do you recall a girl who demanded a Cancellation Fee for refusing to see her?

[Tia Phoenixx]

Well I'm sure you would do fine and there are girls who are doing well here mostly by always being on the road and being young,gorgeous, stacked and hung doesn't hurt either. It may just be my perception but I think the market in most major centres is heavily favoured towards the hung dominant tops. But that may just be my perception. Sounds like you have built your business wisely and established a loyal clientele base, so if what your doing works DON'T fix it! I haven't decided to do the touring thing but may do some next Spring if I don't get my SRS first

thanks, let's wait and see.
Btw, trust me..there is client for everybody if we can project and market ourselves in a right way.
I'm sure you have more clients by just being you in here Fantasia.
If I like what you write, i'm sure those guys will like it too.
This goes the same way with Babe.

[Tia Phoenixx]

i'm going to bed now. Good night and merry Christmas to all of us.

[Tia Phoenixx]

and before going to bed, do you realize that i don't have signature pic at the bottom of my profile?
Actually, i did post one and redo it again few seconds ago. But my profile somehow has been modified and restricted

Popularity can be a good and bad things for us.
I'm used to being discredit here and there everywhere and too lazy to complaint.

[toban]

The topic of this thread seems to have been deliberately changed

Geez, talk about a thread going sideways! The original thread which I referenced here yesterday was simply about a rather new Toronto provider who had apparently found that her view of prospective clients as she opened her door was of their backs as they headed for the exit. There was next to nothing in her ad to offer any clues as to her appearance except pictures of a luxurious mane of dark wavy hair and a penis that could have easily been about 10” x 7”! It appears that the view she presented at the door must have been more frightening than it was enlightening.

As a result of this scurrilous behaviour of these potential clients she gave notice that in future those who chose to take early departure of her den would be required to leave a fee of #60.00 for such privilege. That is how this thread began

Thus, the general topic of “Cancellation Fees” in this thread had to do with escorts not living up to expectations. The recent responses by forum providers have have changed the thrust of the thread to clients canceling appointments without giving proper notice potentially leaving the provider at a financial disadvantage!

On a personal note I should add that I once was one of those objectionable guys who had to abort an early morning appointment but that I did try to act responsibly by notifying the young lady at the earliest possible moment, which I accept may certainly have left her at a financial disadvantage. At my next opportunity to revisit Toronto (several months later) I called her to make arrangements to see her once more.

To her credit she made no mention my “canceling” that appointment and willingly agreed to meet again. Babe, I gotta tell ya that after greetings were exchanged, of my own volition and totally unprompted by her, as I laid down the donation that day I did add what I considered to be a reasonable sum in recompense of that cancellation months earlier. So there! Not all guys are dogs.

BTW that young lady happens to be aware of this thread.

[Guest]

Just because men like doggie style, it doesn't make them all dogs.

Hi toban,

Good morning. I never said that "all guys are dogs" in that they are all uncaring sods.

However, many of them simply take us for granted. They seem to think they have us all, as KISS wrote about in their song, Black Diamond, "...under their thumb".
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Eaxiw1EyUMU

Far too many men rush into appointments, and as another song says,
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M9nzuv7AEug

When men try to rush to meet me without knowing anything about me other than how i look in my photos, i actually try to talk them out of it.
Because without getting to know me first, and speaking on the telephone and knowing what to expect when they arrive and without discussing what we will do during the session, i find it a very hasty thing to do.
I don't meet anyone without us knowing a few things about each other. Too many men think with their dick and rush into meeting someone they knew nothing about, and then they write how bad she looked and this and that. It's mostly the man's fault for rushing. WHAT'S THE RUSH, guys? Seriously.

Gentlemen, do your research.

Stop acting like this little guy --> who says, "I just got paid and i wanna get laid! I'm...i'm in such a hurry! I need to cum in a warm bum, fast! Who shall i call? Who shall i call? Oh, i just can't decide, they all look so nice. Oh, wait, that one looks good. Yea yea, uh huh, her pics are so nice. She's got nice breasts, nice legs, nice face. Okay, i can't wait another minute. I have to make a split-second decision. SHE'S THE ONE! Okay, here i gooooo to meet someone i know NOTHING about. Geez, i hope it all goes well. Bah, i am sure it will go well. Her pics are SO PERFECT!"

I know some girls are frauds and they mislead the guys (or do bait and switch) because they are either too new and think men are so stupid, or she's too high on crack or something to care how she looks - just so long as the guy shows up. And my little example above demonstrates just haw foolish some men can actually be.
Personally, i would rather discuss on the telephone for about an hour what he wants, hear what he's like, what he expects, tell him what i expect. And if after that call he decides to look elsewhere, i am happy because, at least, he won't feel like i tried to fool him with lies or whatever. I'd rather be rejected at that point than to have to go through all the trouble of getting ready just to be rejected at the door and risk a thread like this being written about me.

Honesty is the best policy.

As Tia says, there are guys for all the girls.

And i say, "not every picture tells a story" and "not every picture is worth a thousand words".
I believe that in this business, a personal telephone conversation tells the story, not a mere gallery of carefully selected photos.
And photos aren't worth all that much - let alone a thousand words as that saying goes. It's the chemistry two people share that is worth a thousand words.
I am like a chemist in this business. I look for the men that can "bond" with me like a happy part time marriage where the girl loves to see you, and she wants and likes to suck your penis, and she wants to French kiss you and she wants you to cum again, and COME again.

Bottom line: Too many men rush and regret. It's almost as if they WANT to be disappointed just so they have something to warn others about.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dA5509mcQd8

See what i mean, jelly bean?
Babe,
xoxo

[merelypink]

Just don't pay it

[Guest]

Seems to be a moot question

Hi toban,

Let me present a few scenarios to you and then ask you a few questions:
I hope you agree to answer the questions.
Any man can answer the scenario questions, of course, but seeing as it's your idea to post the topic, i hope you answers the questions, also.

Scenario 1.
You see an ad for a girl you want to meet. In her ad it clearly says, "If you refuse me at the door because you don't like what you see, there is a cancellation fee that must be paid".

So you go anyway, and you get to the door, and when she opens the door, she is NOTHING like the pics in her listing. You reject her and walk away.
Do you pay her cancellation fee?

Scenario 2.
You see an ad for a girl you want to meet. In her ad it clearly says, "If you refuse me at the door because you don't like what you see, there is a cancellation fee that must be paid".
So you ask to speak to her on the phone to ask her for specific details about which services she will and will not do.
She says she will do everything you want, and after hearing what she says, you feel okay about meeting her.
Then you get to her place and she opens the door and she is not what you expected to see, and you reject her.
Do you pay her cancellation fee?

Scenario 3.
You see an ad for a girl you want to meet. In her ad it clearly says, "If you refuse me at the door because you don't like what you see, there is a cancellation fee that must be paid".
So you go to her place, she opens the door and she is nothing like her pics.
You take one look, turn around, and walk away, disappointed.
You flatly refuse to pay the cancellation fee - even though you accepted her suspicious terms and even though you did not research her reputation, first.
Why bother to even ask if anyone would recall her, or a girl like her, again?

My main points:
What's the point of the thread?
Why ask such a moot question?
Will she look any sexier, or will her "schlong" be any longer when she opens the door, again, in a week or a month?

Sincerely,
Babe,
xoxo

[toban]

O.K. Babe;

Seems that for some reason I can’t quote your input in the normal way so I’m just going to respond this way in point form.

1) I did not intend to infer that you said that all men were dogs! What I meant by that was that while I admitted I had created some difficulty but that unlike some men I had the integrity to try to ameliorate the mess I caused – therefore meaning some men do care! Yes!

2) At no time did I post any scenario for this topic. The original thread had been long dead (04/30/13). Yesterday I simply asked for Forum help in finding the name of a girl that had been named in that original thread as being responsible for the imposition of a cancellation charge. Such name was linked to in the second post so my mission was successfully accomplished by post# 2.

3) My thread was then immediately taken over by several providers including yourself and turned into something other than what was originally intended – to wit “to determine a girls name”

4) Now 21 posts later you ask me for justification by asking:
- What's the point of the thread?
Once more - the point of the thread was to obtain a girl's name!

- Why ask such a moot question?
The question was and is still valid - It provides a reference point for investigation!

- Will she look any sexier, or will her "schlong" be any longer when she opens the door, again, in a week or a month? - Huh ? If you are not familiar with the content of that ad from last April it's probably best not to comment on it.

[TSFantasia]

Guilty as Charge Your Honour

O.K. Babe;

Seems that for some reason I can?t quote your input in the normal way so I?m just going to respond this way in point form.

1) I did not intend to infer that you said that all men were dogs! What I meant by that was that while I admitted I had created some difficulty but that unlike some men I had the integrity to try to ameliorate the mess I caused ? therefore meaning some men do care! Yes!

2) At no time did I post any scenario for this topic. The original thread had been long dead (04/30/13). Yesterday I simply asked for Forum help in finding the name of a girl that had been named in that original thread as being responsible for the imposition of a cancellation charge. Such name was linked to in the second post so my mission was successfully accomplished by post# 2.

3) My thread was then immediately taken over by several providers including yourself and turned into something other than what was originally intended ? to wit ?to determine a girls name?

4) Now 21 posts later you ask me for justification by asking:
- What's the point of the thread?
Once more - the point of the thread was to obtain a girl's name!

- Why ask such a moot question?
The question was and is still valid - It provides a reference point for investigation!

- Will she look any sexier, or will her "schlong" be any longer when she opens the door, again, in a week or a month? - Huh ? If you are not familiar with the content of that ad from last April it's probably best not to comment on it.

Hi Toban I did understand the original intent of your post and read the post and comments related to it. Just thought it was an interesting topic to discuss . And as I said in my initial response if a girl is using that clause because she is grossly misrepresenting yourself or her services and everyone who goes to see her says "Nah I don't think so!" and walks away. Then that is just a BS clause and really unenforcible (legally) anyways.

[Guest]

Now i see what you meant by "recall".

Hi toban,

Seeing your thread title,

Do you recall a girl who demanded a Cancellation Fee for refusing to see her?"

I didn't think you were asking for her name. I thought you were asking other men if they would "recall" (revisit or rehire).

If you would have written:

Do you recall the name of the girl a few months ago who demanded a Cancellation Fee for refusing to see her?

Or even simpler
Do you remember the name of the girl who demanded a Cancellation Fee for refusing to see her?"

I would not have said it's a moot question.

I think you can clearly see now i misunderstood your question by how you worded it.

My whole previous post with the three scenarios was based on this misunderstanding.
To think of all the time i wasted responding to a badly worded question .

You could have answered the three scenario questions, anyway. Just for fun.

Oh well,
Babe,
xoxo