Does being black hurt my chances?

[DevAero]

I still chuckle at young men who say they will never pay for sex. Most hot girls out there at the clubs want you to buy them drinks, some women will want you to take them out for dinners, and many will want you to take them out many times before becoming sexual. We all pay for it in some way, even if you wish to turn a blind eye to it.

I get what you're saying. But, from what I've learned from pick up and seduction you only pay for drinks and such if she's earned it. I'll never approach a girl and flat out ask "Can I buy you a drink?" I don't do dinner dates, and if you know what you're doing you can laid on the first night. I think I've built up a good guard for gold diggers. Since you guys are older than me and obviously wiser, maybe I'm just naive about it.

[TSFantasia]

I get what you're saying. But, from what I've learned from pick up and seduction you only pay for drinks and such if she's earned it. I'll never approach a girl and flat out ask "Can I buy you a drink?" I don't do dinner dates, and if you know what you're doing you can laid on the first night. I think I've built up a good guard for gold diggers. Since you guys are older than me and obviously wiser, maybe I'm just naive about it.

.......annnnnndddd this is why I NEVER date guys under 30 yrs old white, black, brown, yellow, red all are equally immature !

[rider014]

How does she "earn" it?

I get what you're saying. But, from what I've learned from pick up and seduction you only pay for drinks and such if she's earned it. I'll never approach a girl and flat out ask "Can I buy you a drink?" I don't do dinner dates, and if you know what you're doing you can laid on the first night. I think I've built up a good guard for gold diggers. Since you guys are older than me and obviously wiser, maybe I'm just naive about it.

Please tell, this could be the secret that men have been enquiring about since the beginning of time !

[Rockheart]

Hey guys, I'm new here and this is my first post. I'm a 19 y/o black guy and in love in Transgirls, but I was wondering if being black would automatically shut me down from dating and sex. I don't act black, and some call me an oreo meaning I act like a white person (if that matters).

I mean not harm by this post if I offended anyone I'm sorry, but I don't know where else to ask. I'm spending the summer in NYC so any tips on dating and hooking up there would be great.

Thank for any answers and advice you guys can give me.

Nope, but it probably hurts my chances.
Bada-Bing


I'm here all week folks..

[Mark Hermetic]

I get what you're saying. But, from what I've learned from pick up and seduction you only pay for drinks and such if she's earned it. I'll never approach a girl and flat out ask "Can I buy you a drink?" I don't do dinner dates, and if you know what you're doing you can laid on the first night. I think I've built up a good guard for gold diggers. Since you guys are older than me and obviously wiser, maybe I'm just naive about it.

Hmmmmmm, I'm not going anywhere near na?ve man, buuuuuttt...

and I gotta tell you , I don't know how the whole "if she's earned it" thing is gonna fly; chauvinism is about as frowned upon as patriarchy these days. That shit don't fly past age 20 dude, and rightly so. what are the kids sayin now? "foe real" ? well FOE REAL and Tut tut my dear chap . I think what Franklinized said about handed down rigid social scripts might be worth going over. I believe those words are not your own, and you really don't want them.. In fact, going up to a woman, or T-girl with a "wow" on your face and a " May I ask what you're drinking?" on your tongue might just work out very well for one., despite what Sh*tbags like DRAKE may say ... yea, he's Toronto, and what a wanker. sorry, I have personal issues with the cult of celebrity and Ideological pop culture. drives me fucking nuts!!!!!

Anyway man, do what your going to do, but you've heard a great deal of solid advice from this thread, and now it's up to you. balls in your court.... hah, this is a great set up for a good BALLS joke!!! and what a forum for it too.... but I shan't ... maybe that can be a new thread... Balls jokes and the art of T-girl pickup... ... ... nope... nope, I can't say I think that's a good idea at all.

-Mark

[Tia Phoenixx]

.......annnnnndddd this is why I NEVER date guys under 30 yrs old white, black, brown, yellow, red all are equally immature !

not me. I like young, naive boy with big cock, muscle and stamina. heemmmmm...LOL
I just need to spread my legs and tell them to fuck me hard and strong

Now, you make me excited my boy

btw, thanks for the hot pic of yours. Hawt!

[TSFantasia]

not me. I like young, naive boy with big cock, muscle and stamina. heemmmmm...LOL
I just need to spread my legs and tell them to fuck me hard and strong

Now, you make me excited my boy

btw, thanks for the hot pic of yours. Hawt!

Good for you Tia I prefer a guy who treats me as a lady before and after he treats me like his little whore in the bedroom
Even my clients bring me gifts even though they are paying to treat me like a whore.

[Tia Phoenixx]

Good for you Tia I prefer a guy who treats me as a lady before and after he treats me like his little whore in the bedroom
Even my clients bring me gifts even though they are paying to treat me like a whore.

well, me too. Of course i like to be treated as a lady, who don't?
But all of my clients are gentlemen. You know...white collar gentlemen with their own company, nice car, nice watch, even nice private island (wink..wink!!). Love them truly, but hey...i have my wild side too.

so it's truly nice to see a different type of clients from time to time.

I'm longing to see the "thug" type, truck drivers, farmer, construction workers, YOUNG BOYS (students, cadets, etc..etc)..hemmm......

unfortunately those "other" type are "too afraid" to see me. they don't have enough confidence or courage to see me in flesh. The most they can do is calling or text me. that's all. too bad indeed.

I love all men, young...old....all races...as well as men from all social background.

Anyway, I'm stuck here in my room. rain..rain...rain....urg

[TSFantasia]

well, me too. Of course i like to be treated as a lady, who don't?
But all of my clients are gentlemen. You know...white collar gentlemen with their own company, nice car, nice watch, even nice private island (wink..wink!!). Love them truly, but hey...i have my wild side too.

so it's truly nice to see a different type of clients from time to time.

I'm longing to see the "thug" type, truck drivers, farmer, construction workers, YOUNG BOYS (students, cadets, etc..etc)..hemmm......

I'm stuck here in my room. rain..rain...rain....urg

Yes I hear ya well if you get stuck in your room when your here with some lull time I would be happy to meet up with you for coffee or drinks (depending on the time of day of course lol)

[Mark Hermetic]

Island

You know...white collar gentlemen with their own company, nice car, nice watch, even nice private island (wink..wink!!).

?? ??

[DevAero]

Good for you Tia I prefer a guy who treats me as a lady before and after he treats me like his little whore in the bedroom
Even my clients bring me gifts even though they are paying to treat me like a whore.

I didn't say I didn't treat women like ladies. I was just saying this is what I've learned in the past few years. From what I've observed it's guys who are the opposite that end up treat women like garbage.

[DevAero]

Hmmmmmm, I'm not going anywhere near na?ve man, buuuuuttt...

and I gotta tell you , I don't know how the whole "if she's earned it" thing is gonna fly; chauvinism is about as frowned upon as patriarchy these days. That shit don't fly past age 20 dude, and rightly so. what are the kids sayin now? "foe real" ? well FOE REAL and Tut tut my dear chap . I think what Franklinized said about handed down rigid social scripts might be worth going over. I believe those words are not your own, and you really don't want them.. In fact, going up to a woman, or T-girl with a "wow" on your face and a " May I ask what you're drinking?" on your tongue might just work out very well for one., despite what Sh*tbags like DRAKE may say ... yea, he's Toronto, and what a wanker. sorry, I have personal issues with the cult of celebrity and Ideological pop culture. drives me fucking nuts!!!!!

Anyway man, do what your going to do, but you've heard a great deal of solid advice from this thread, and now it's up to you. balls in your court.... hah, this is a great set up for a good BALLS joke!!! and what a forum for it too.... but I shan't ... maybe that can be a new thread... Balls jokes and the art of T-girl pickup... ... ... nope... nope, I can't say I think that's a good idea at all.

-Mark

Maybe I've been reading too much Red Pill (http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill) and Seduction (http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/). Still like you said the advice here is awesome no doubt.

[DevAero]

not me. I like young, naive boy with big cock, muscle and stamina. heemmmmm...LOL
I just need to spread my legs and tell them to fuck me hard and strong

Now, you make me excited my boy

btw, thanks for the hot pic of yours. Hawt!

haha, glad you liked the pic

[rider014]

Really??

I didn't say I didn't treat women like ladies. I was just saying this is what I've learned in the past few years. From what I've observed it's guys who are the opposite that end up treat women like garbage.

The past few years?? You're 19 man! Don't pretend to act like a mature guy when you are still 2 years away from being legal to enter a nightclub in the US. So I'm not sure where you are buying drinks for anyone. Enjoy your youth and lack of any real responsibilities in life because when the real world comes up and kicks you square in the nuts, you'll have a better understanding of what everyone here is trying to tell you

[Mark Hermetic]

probably

Maybe I've been reading too much Red Pill (http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill) and Seduction (http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/). Still like you said the advice here is awesome no doubt.

Yea, I gave a quick peruse through that Reddit link you posted... I would be pretty weary of some of those "tactics" and "techniques" .. I mean, hey sure they may work... and they may not... sounds like allot of " just be yoself dog" kinda crap. While yes, being yourself is probably the very best way to go about anything, one must have a fairly good handle on who that self is... and knowledge of that isn't going to come from Reddit... that I can assure you!!!

Just explore and be safe.... and to be perfectly honest a good well rated SP is probably the safest and best way to experience that world. it's clean, and you can approach it lightly... tryin for the whole, "no dinner date get fucked on the first night if you do it right" might end up in a really awkward, smelly, and weird situation that you did not expect..
I mean, since this is all about advice and all, how often do you give yourself an enema before going out to look for some action ? hmmm? T-girl action requires some particular beforehand preparatory work dude...and I dare say posting it somewhere like the RED PILL ain't gonna get you props... do people still say props? I'm not exactly sure that even ever referred to... perhaps short for "proper respect" ? Bah, what do I care, you get the point.

-Mark