escort bottoming...

[cameeindos]

No I know men bottoming is very common I'm just suggesting one context in which it happens.

I don't believe that...lol...but there you go...

[bb420]

ah, I think I get it now.
T-girls spend all this time and effort to look pretty to attract "manly men" to pound their asses.
Only to find out that those men just want to get fucked themselves and they don't have to put in any effort to look pretty.

Oh well, anal stimulation is fun for everyone.

[LOLA_]

ah, I think I get it now.
T-girls spend all this time and effort to look pretty to attract "manly men" to pound their asses.
Only to find out that those men just want to get fucked themselves and they don't have to put in any effort to look pretty.

Oh well, anal stimulation is fun for everyone.

[sadeh]

sadeh

Hmm.. I prefer someone who's enjoying it rather than someone who's not.. Face down, ass up, good slut.. Just try to be quiet while I fuck you..

Please scream into the pillow..



LMAO! Was nice to meet you when you were here..

[Shyla Wild]

I am interested to know why it is assumed that because a man enjoys anal stimulation that he wants to be a sissy? I do it in an escort session because it feels good; I have no ambitions to be called a woman or a sissy. Is this just something that is so common that it is assumed by the provider?


I actually have had issue with this in a session where, when I asked for my turn on the anal train, the provider just assumed I wanted to be treated like a female submissive sissy and started talking that way, and we had an awkward exchange when I was trying to explain it was just simply the sexual feeling of it, nothing more complex than that.

No no it is not assumed. Some people just roll like that. These are people that do not understand their own transition. If they did, they would quickly realize, that gender identity is very different from sexual preference. You can have gay men that are both tops and bottoms, neither would want to be considered a sissy or a women...they are men.


You are totally right vancouverman.


Insulting clients that enjoy to bottom is ubsurp. One of the rules of escorting or shooting porn, is "Never agree to something you are not comfortable doing." So if you take these type of clients, and it's not your cup of tea....DON'T COMPLAIN. If you don't take these clients and your income stay stagnant or declines...DON'T COMPLAIN. FACT: Tops make more money and rule this industry. Girls that bottom only should face reality. If I were given the choice between banging a smoking hot tranny or banging a smoking hot GG I would take the GG every time. WHY? I like options....GG have more options for a top. Honestly...sexually what does a "strictly only bottom"offer that a GG does not? Her penis that she doesn't want to use? Those years are over. Those were the early years of TS escorting before something called CHOICE. Today, clients have a choice which is great for the market, complaining that someone else is willing to do what you won't.....

[TSFantasia]

No no it is not assumed. Some people just roll like that. These are people that do not understand their own transition. If they did, they would quickly realize, that gender identity is very different from sexual preference. You can have gay men that are both tops and bottoms, neither would want to be considered a sissy or a women...they are men.


You are totally right vancouverman.


Insulting clients that enjoy to bottom is ubsurp. One of the rules of escorting or shooting porn, is "Never agree to something you are not comfortable doing." So if you take these type of clients, and it's not your cup of tea....DON'T COMPLAIN. If you don't take these clients and your income stay stagnant or declines...DON'T COMPLAIN. FACT: Tops make more money and rule this industry. Girls that bottom only should face reality. If I were given the choice between banging a smoking hot tranny or banging a smoking hot GG I would take the GG every time. WHY? I like options....GG have more options for a top. Honestly...sexually what does a "strictly only bottom"offer that a GG does not? Her penis that she doesn't want to use? Those years are over. Those were the early years of TS escorting before something called CHOICE. Today, clients have a choice which is great for the market, complaining that someone else is willing to do what you won't.....

This last part is such utter nonsense to say the only men interested in t-girls are wanna be bottoms otherwise they would go to a GG. There are tops and bottoms amongst gay men, tops and bottoms amongst bisexual men, and certainly tops and bottoms amongst t-girl admirers/hobbyists. Guys who are tops in any category have NO interest in anal penetration or probing of any kind during sex. They are turned on by the femininity of the t-girl and their standards are typically higher than the bottoms ,who are turned on by any CD, tranny, or t-girl with a big cock! To say a trans woman doesn't compete with GG women is nonsense. This is what bottoms want to believe that their cravings are the norm otherwise why would a guy be interested in a trans woman.

The demand may be higher for tops at the present but there will always be a market for attractive bottom t-girls, as why would a guy NOT interested in receiving anal go to someone who is going to try that on them because that's their thing? A lot of top only providers DONT bottom so guys who love giving anal to a t-girl again aren't coming to see them. TOP only SPs tend to be more dominate, masculine and "trannyish" in their mannerisms, which is not appealing to guys who want a feminine looking and acting girl.

As for the OP poster's question I never had a problem with guys enjoying what I had offered to give them in the context of an escort appointment. And I'm all about doing what I love to do and make money doing it rather than gritting my teeth and doing what I don't for any amount of money. If your doing what love doing in your escorting that's great and all the power to you.

[xoxJanexox]

The demand may be higher for tops at the present but there will always be a market for attractive bottom t-girls, as why would a guy NOT interested in receiving anal go to someone who is going to try that on them because that's their thing? A lot of top only providers DONT bottom so guys who love giving anal to a t-girl again aren't coming to see them. TOP only SPs tend to be more dominate, masculine and "trannyish" in their mannerisms, which is not appealing to guys who want a feminine looking and acting girl.

This is the real utter none sense here! being feminine, attractive etc, have zero projection with which type of service one chooses to offer. You judge people choices on appearance and make bald assumptions. A lot of providers who are well know to be good tops are indeed very feminine.

A bottoming experience for a client could be soft and gentle (i.e. GFE type) or it could be rough and dominant, again there is a vatriety. This applies to GG women by the way. there are very feminine and attractive providers who choose to provide services that are not mainstream (strapon, sensual or cruel domination etc).

[cameeindos]

hehehe...wow, i really hit the hornets' nest...

i don't think personally being a bottom is less manly, if so then GG/GM strapon must be so, and fuck archaic gender norms. just made this thread to see if moaning causes more disgust at a "less man" bottom.

[TSFantasia]

hehehe...wow, i really hit the hornets' nest...

i don't think personally being a bottom is less manly, if so then GG/GM strapon must be so, and fuck archaic gender norms. just made this thread to see if moaning causes more disgust at a "less man" bottom.

Point blank?? Guys bottoming for t-girls or GG with strap-ons is a less manly action,yes. It is a role reversal in which the man is taking the female role and position of being dominated and penetrated and the t-girl/GG with a strap-on is taking the role of dominating and penetrating. The usual language in these type of sessions is referring to the man in feminine terms "make you my bitch" , "fuck your tight ass pussy" etc., etc.
If I heard you moaning like a woman I would assume that is the fantasy that is running through your head! While you may be a manly man's man in your everyday life in this scenario you are playing out the feminine role. It is what it is!

[vancouverman]

Point blank?? Guys bottoming for t-girls or GG with strap-ons is a less manly action,yes. It is a role reversal in which the man is taking the female role and position of being dominated and penetrated and the t-girl/GG with a strap-on is taking the role of dominating and penetrating. The usual language in these type of sessions is referring to the man in feminine terms "make you my bitch" , "fuck your tight ass pussy" etc., etc.
If I heard you moaning like a woman I would assume that is the fantasy that is running through your head! While you may be a manly man's man in your everyday life in this scenario you are playing out the feminine role. It is what it is!

why must you frame everything as domination and submission? Is that the only possible roles two people can play in your eyes? have you ever considered two people can fuck and be sexual equals and domination has no role to play with some people? People can fuck because it feels damn good; not because they want to be called a slut. It is a very common male trait to want to call women sluts and whores and all that stuff in the bedroom, but not everyone is into that line of thinking. I hate calling my sexual partners whores, that is just me. Maybe I am in the minority in a place like this but you need to accept that not everyone is looking to frame things through a d/s viewpoint.

People try to fit everything in tight little boxes with a nice bow on top. There is a lot of variety out there in how people approach sex with another person; you really need to open up your mind more than your own line of thinking. If I want to pay a TS to fuck me in the ass, that doesn't mean it is a pussy or I am your bitch or I am a submissive feminine dude. It is possible that I simply want you to do it because the sensations of anal sex are pleasant. Sometimes, it is just simple.

[TSFantasia]

why must you frame everything as domination and submission? Is that the only possible roles two people can play in your eyes? have you ever considered two people can fuck and be sexual equals and domination has no role to play with some people? People can fuck because it feels damn good; not because they want to be called a slut. It is a very common male trait to want to call women sluts and whores and all that stuff in the bedroom, but not everyone is into that line of thinking. I hate calling my sexual partners whores, that is just me. Maybe I am in the minority in a place like this but you need to accept that not everyone is looking to frame things through a d/s viewpoint.

People try to fit everything in tight little boxes with a nice bow on top. There is a lot of variety out there in how people approach sex with another person; you really need to open up your mind more than your own line of thinking.

Of course there are exception from every rule and generalization. I'm sharing my views from my observations of 8 years of active bisexuality and 3 yrs as trans escorting I haven't seen many exceptions myself. And in general I share my shared views of other trans women, who are actually transitioning with the eventual goal of SRS and not with the goal of being a rock star tranny with a huge cock!
So in general we are not going to encourage sexual activity that renders us useless after SRS and reinforces the idea that trans women are just trannies, shemales, t-girls whose only use is a fetish fuck! And that is one reason gay men are gay because anal sex just feels so damn good to them

[xoxJanexox]

So in general we are not going to encourage sexual activity that renders us useless after SRS and reinforces the idea that trans women are just trannies, shemales, t-girls whose only use is a fetish fuck! And that is one reason gay men are gay because anal sex just feels so damn good to them

Great, so the top gay men must be straight then!

[Shyla Wild]

This last part is such utter nonsense to say the only men interested in t-girls are wanna be bottoms otherwise they would go to a GG.

So is bashing men that bottom, funny how it's utter nonsense when the shoe is on the other foot...never said it was the only reason men see us, I said I would rather see a GG as I not only have more options, and it is cheaper, but also I don't have to worry about tranny's insulting my sexual preference.

Insulting men that bottom, means you are insulting 85% of my clientele and you are indirectly insulting me, Layla, Jane, Lola, Lucy, and any girl that is a known top. I don't insult or judge others...I expect the same.

Moreover, you claim that these are the only two roles "domination and submission" through your experiences. Perhaps if you worked other areas outside of Regina and Winnipeg you would be able to see that your sample group is not only much too small, but a nonrepresentative sample group for the overall results. Without weighing in bigger markets such as Calgary, Edmonton, Vancouver and Montreal your opinions may hold ground, but only in two of the least populated provinces outside the maritimes in the Country. For example, the cities I just mentioned and Ottawa all have bigger populations than the entire provinces of Manitoba and Saskatchewan

[TSFantasia]

Great, so the top gay men must be straight then!

No the top guys are gay because they are fucking the GUYS on the bottom! Lol

So is bashing men that bottom, funny how it's utter nonsense when the shoe is on the other foot...never said it was the only reason men see us, I said I would rather see a GG as I not only have more options, and it is cheaper, but also I don't have to worry about tranny's insulting my sexual preference.

Insulting men that bottom, means you are insulting 85% of my clientele and you are indirectly insulting me, Layla, Jane, Lola, Lucy, and any girl that is a known top. I don't insult or judge others...I expect the same.

Moreover, you claim that these are the only two roles "domination and submission" through your experiences. Perhaps if you worked other areas outside of Regina and Winnipeg you would be able to see that your sample group is not only much too small, but a nonrepresentative sample group for the overall results. Without weighing in bigger markets such as Calgary, Edmonton, Vancouver and Montreal your opinions may hold ground, but only in two of the least populated provinces outside the maritimes in the Country. For example, the cities I just mentioned and Ottawa all have bigger populations than the entire provinces of Manitoba and Saskatchewan

I fail to see how pointing out the obvious is "insulting" anyone. If you feel the need to stick a soother in the mouth of each client and give them "I'm still a manly man" button before they leave your sessions that's up to you
I don't think basic sexuality definitions change much from city to city or province to province. Though most guys want to believe that they are in an "alternative universe" when they are with t-girls actual sexual orientation definitions and studies say any guy engaged with transsexuals is involved in bisexual activity. Only guys fighting what they are find me pointing out the obvious as insulting.

[xoxJanexox]

No the top guys are gay because they are fucking the GUYS on the bottom! Lol

So if they top a guy they are gays. Aren't the bottoms assuming women role?
Aren't you genitally a cis-man?

I fail to see how pointing out the obvious is "insulting" anyone. If you feel the need to stick a soother in the mouth of each client and give them "I'm still a manly man" button before they leave your sessions that's up to you
I don't think basic sexuality definitions change much from city to city or province to province. Though most guys want to believe that they are in an "alternative universe" when they are with t-girls actual sexual orientation definitions and studies say any guy engaged with transsexuals is involved in bisexual activity. Only guys fighting what they are find me pointing out the obvious as insulting.

The obvious is that in some countries around the world you will be considered a psycopath for desiring to be a trans woman. This is what happens when people start judging each other! If the law in Canada granted you dignity and respect, then make sure that you uphold the same standards to others especially when you belong to an oppressed group to start with.