Cancellations

[TSFantasia]

Thinking about doing it is not the whole of it.

Knock on wood! I have had very few cancellations in the last 2 yrs and fewer still no shows. First if a guy contacts me a day(s) in advance to set an approx. time I will get him to email me again to confirm the night before if a morn appt., in the morn for afternoon appt, in the afternoon for an evening appt. Then I tell him to email or text me again an hour before to get my address and directions if he needs. Then I tell him to text when he's on his way and when he arrives before knocking at my door. I do this because I know guys are doing a lot of "thinking about do it" before they actually get up the nerve to do it. If this is the case I likely won't hear back from them after the initial exchange or the furthest they will go is checking in the night before or half day before but wont text at the hour before mark.

I personally like email as it gives me a log of my conversation with someone and I only give out my phone # when it's gotten to the final hour confirmation and giving directions. This works for me as I have a pretty laid back sched. and I'm not trying to do back to back appts or cram through 6-8 appts a day like touring girls may try to do .

I can see this being a big problem in bigger centres with more competing t-girls as the guy may be emailing/texting 6 different girls at once to see who is available and who can do the appt when he wants. Then he goes with one if any and either doesn't let the others know he's not coming or makes excuses for not coming.

[ts natasha]

I am becoming to think Vancouver is full
Of flakes. From dates who offer 50$ of your
Asking donation tk even trying to include another
Person in the deal. And all the private callers that talk
They have a big dildo up their ass and they are no shows
Also. Just this morning a date books my time and does not
Show up and texts when he is suposed to be here.
Saying he can't make it move time up by 40 mins than
That tome comes up and he texts another 20 minute which
Now j am very upset. My ahem bf will be demanding
My booked time paid for. This was just outrufbt abuse of a
Very marginalized defenceless minority for their gain.
The city of flakes
Its actually written in other sitrsbthst this is the worst city to
Work in

[Kylie Storm]

Having been to vancouver and up and down the west coast of the united states, i feel like the guys on the west coast are much flakier than guys on the east coast and have heard several similar opinions from other girls visiting Vancouver.....maybe its the nicer weather that makes them big softies....who knows? But i do know i make the same amount of money in 3 days visiting other cities compared to 5 in vancouver.

[aguyoutthere1]

Having been to vancouver and up and down the west coast of the united states, i feel like the guys on the west coast are much flakier than guys on the east coast and have heard several similar opinions from other girls visiting Vancouver.....maybe its the nicer weather that makes them big softies....who knows? But i do know i make the same amount of money in 3 days visiting other cities compared to 5 in vancouver.

I remember Sunshine posting how she was fed up with Toronto men. At least I think it was Toronto. I believe it was about how much they try to undercut her price etc.

I'll be in Calgary soon, we'll see if I can piss her off there, tell her I'm from Toronto and offer her $100.00. ust kidding)

Just goes to show you, you never know what city demands what person.



KC

[Kylie Storm]

yes but Vancouver ..i have heard this from every traveling girls.....they always say "urgh whats up with this city its a bunch of flakes and time wasters....".personally i had a good experience in Vancouver and will visit again, but yes i could see the amount of useless calls compared to other cities.

[ts natasha]

This is disheartening
Guys think its funny
They gonna get traced and this shit fucked up
What am I ugly or something? What the fuck
Is going through thier heads thinking this is a game?
I'm old school this is not my first round here
Absokitley no one is anonymous in this world

[aguyoutthere1]

This is disheartening
Guys think its funny
They gonna get traced and this shit fucked up
What am I ugly or something? What the fuck
Is going through thier heads thinking this is a game?
I'm old school this is not my first round here
Absokitley no one is anonymous in this world [ATTACH=CONFIG]75532[/ATTACH]

i think you are really hot Natasha. I wouldn't cancel on you.
Try not to let it get to you. Sometimes being pissed off comes across in your attitude on the phone. Guys don't like being doubted. Some great advice has been given by other girls. Good Luck, and come test out Toronto market some time.

KC

[ssster2009]

What if she cancels

Here is one for you

emailed a girl last week, expressing interest in an appointment, we set one up for Friday. I told her I'd text Thursday night just to make sure we were good. We were good. I live 2 hours from her place, so I take the day off work and leave at 9:30 and drive over, meet is at noon. I text for her address when I'm in the vicinity. It's 10 to 12. She says she is tied up at her job for a few minutes and will take an hour to get ready. I'm not sure about the rest of you guys but this is quite common so I say I'll grab a beer and wait. An hour later I get a text, polite I have to say, saying that her plans have changed and she is going out of town with her friends, and they want to leave at 2. To her credit she said she would work around it and she would fit me in if I insisted. I didn't like my chance for decent service so I politely declined and told her I was not interested. I went to a massage parlour instead and drove 2 hours home. Really a wasted day.

Now I understand a lot of johns bail on girls but the reality is the girls are just as bad. I mean the last girl before this, when I called for her exact address said she wasn't ready and was at a restaurant, this appointment was made hours before. So again I wait and and I told her I was going to the liquor store and some other place which I can't remember and I'd call her in an hour. I swear this is true, she calls me back and asks me to pick up some wine for her. Long story short an hour later I call her back and she is still eating but asks me to pick her up at the restaurant, which I do and finish the date.

So that is the story of my last 2 experiences. I have been doing this for a while and have many more.

[ts natasha]

Yaaawn
Gone are the days when men picked up a
Lady coz she was nice looking smiled and
Was nice. Now they do so based on user reviews
Like she is a DVD player
So bad. We are ladies and should not be
Held to standards that based in sexism
Gender norms a d expectations
I never once wrote or told a story about
Any of you men and how sad some of your
Social skills are. How pathetic it is when your scared
To talk. I hear it in your voice over the phone...that pause?
Yea that awkward one. Its coz I'm waiting for you to grow up
And be a man ans realize I'm not judging you .
But maybe we should have. Most men are so socially awkward
And even less skilled sexually....
Cut out the porformance reviews and stop asking me if I like it

[rider014]

Yaaawn
Gone are the days when men picked up a
Lady coz she was nice looking smiled and
Was nice. Now they do so based on user reviews
Like she is a DVD player
So bad. We are ladies and should not be
Held to standards that based in sexism
Gender norms a d expectations
I never once wrote or told a story about
Any of you men and how sad some of your
Social skills are. How pathetic it is when your scared
To talk. I hear it in your voice over the phone...that pause?
Yea that awkward one. Its coz I'm waiting for you to grow up
And be a man ans realize I'm not judging you .
But maybe we should have. Most men are so socially awkward
And even less skilled sexually....
Cut out the porformance reviews and stop asking me if I like it

I can understand to a certain degree what you are saying, however, there is a big difference between hiring an escort and buying a DVD player. Most people nowadays will look for reviews on any major purchase they make as people work hard for their money and don't want to be ripped off or end up with a poor product. Being a consumer in today's world has changed to benefit us, as we used to only have advertising to influence our decision making when purchasing goods and services. I can't speak for any one else here, but I don't solely rely on reviews to make decisions here. I use them as an accessory after reading the ad first as with my DVD player, I can't really return a session that I didn't like and ask for a refund.
Scared?? Nervous is probably a better word to use here. Let's face it, we are about to have an intimate encounter with someone we don't know, so I would say that it should be human of us to be a little nervous.
Social skills, sexual skills..... Everyone is different, if we were all the same, the world would be a pretty boring place.

[escher24]

Yaaawn
Any of you men and how sad some of your
Social skills are. How pathetic it is when your scared
To talk. I hear it in your voice over the phone...that pause?
Yea that awkward one. Its coz I'm waiting for you to grow up
And be a man ans realize I'm not judging you .
But maybe we should have. Most men are so socially awkward
And even less skilled sexually....
Cut out the porformance reviews and stop asking me if I like it

I'm not judging you .

While I understand what you are saying, I do not think you realise that you are in fact passing judgement with every sentence.
How sad some of your Social skills are.
How pathetic it is when your scared to talk.
I'm waiting for you to grow up and be a man.
Most men are so socially awkward.
Less skilled sexually.

I also assume that this is how you make a living and naturally anything that threatens your living is going to illicit a response. However I do not feel that your opposition of reviews is legitimate. Try and see it from the clients perspective. Seeing an escort is a generally embarassing and private event for many. Sometimes escorts will lie about their ability to perform, lie about their looks, lie about prices. Sometimes escorts are unsafe mentally, unsafe with drugs, unsafe with protection. Sometimes escorts are not who they say they are, sometimes they are scam artists, sometimes they provide very poor service, sometimes they literally rob people. These are all important things, things that reviews help bring to light and prevent from happening.

The fact of the matter is, that if an escort provides bad service there is no way to get your money back. If the escort robs you, you are probably not going to go to the police because you are ashamed. So reviews are the easiest way to prevent these things from happening.

[ts natasha]

I can understand to a certain degree what yperde saying, however, there is a big difference between hiring an escort and buying a DVD player. Most people nowadays will look for reviews on any major purchase they make as people work hard for their money and don't want to be ripped off or end up with a poor product. Being a consumer in today's world has changed to benefit us, as we used to only have advertising to influence our decision making when purchasing goods and services. I can't speak for any one else here, but I don't solely rely on reviews to make decisions here. I use them as an accessory after reading the ad first as with my DVD player, I can't really return a session that I didn't like and ask for a refund.
Scared?? Nervous is probably a better word to use here. Let's face it, we are about to have an intimate encounter with someone we don't know, so I would say that it should be human of us to be a little nervous.
Social skills, sexual skills..... Everyone is different, if we were all the same, the world would be a pretty boring place.

You just justified your objeftifying actions akin to buying a
Product. You dont buy us. We are humans and we aren't perfect
I myself have never promised a big steel erection up your butt lol.
I kind of do feel sorry for your wives when you set expectations
On humans.
Maybe one way to do is increase your social skills and ask more
Questions and talk more. I have never sold a service I can't provide.
I state up front what I am. Maybe some of you just repulsed the girl
So much she can't perform. Refer back to the part we are humans .
We aren't machines. Tell me is this how you found your wife?
A date with a human should not be based on what another trick
Says. After all I hsve been seriously turned on by some tricks and some
I couldn't wait till they left

[ts natasha]

While I understand what you are saying, I do not think you realise that you are in fact passing judgement with every sentence.
How sad some of your Social skills are.
How pathetic it is when your scared to talk.
I'm waiting for you to grow up and be a man.
Most men are so socially awkward.
Less skilled sexually.

I also assume that this is how you make a living and naturally anything that threatens your living is going to illicit a response. However I do not feel that your opposition of reviews is legitimate. Try and see it from the clients perspective. Seeing an escort is a generally embarassing and private event for many. Sometimes escorts will lie about their ability to perform, lie about their looks, lie about prices. Sometimes escorts are unsafe mentally, unsafe with drugs, unsafe with protection. Sometimes escorts are not who they say they are, sometimes they are scam artists, sometimes they provide very poor service, sometimes they literally rob people. These are all important things, things that reviews help bring to light and prevent from happening.

The fact of the matter is, that if an escort provides bad service there is no way to get your money back. If the escort robs you, you are probably not going to go to the police because you are ashamed. So reviews are the easiest way to prevent these things from happening.

That's the way the world turns honey. Even when you buy a
Car from reputable dealer you aren't gsuranteed to have a functional
Car. There is no gsurwntee in life. Seeing an escort is not an embarrassing thing in life.
Not everyone demonized sex and prostitution like you do.
I wonder how many men wish when they look at me walking by that
They could tap this ass. Like I said in other writings your the one with
The issues. No one cares. They will forget as soon as they turn their
Heads. When will you all figure that out? And if your weak enough to
Get robbed by a ts escort than quit seeing transvestites lol
Here's a pro tip. If she gets hard and shoots cum its not a woman.
Especially in the presence of boobs. It takes transition level hormones
Tk make boobs snd that means testes shut off if other wise your seeing a
Extreme transvestite. I myself probably have 1/8 of your physical strength.
That would be stupid of me to try snd rob anyone. Again were not machines.
I would like to see you fuck Roseanne Barr and be told cmon you told me
It works. Right. I'm not a man with implants who learned make up.
I am woman and we don't fuck anyone. And yes I do pass judgement
As it has been passed into me. Plain and simple.
Personally i think that men are the ones who are the danger regardless
Of who is unsafe mentally after all 99% of all violence on this planet is
Perpuated by men . Sorry but your arguments are weak to this feminist.
Your answers are akin to rape apokogy.
Sexist
Objeftifying
Reducing a human down to sex
I really really wish thks law comes through so we hsbe the power again

[ts natasha]

But thank you over all for saying that visiting me.
Is embarrassing. Awesome way to go to reinforce negative
View points on us lol.
Nothing embarrassing about this little natural ts kitten

[rider014]

You just justified your objeftifying actions akin to buying a
Product. You dont buy us. We are humans and we aren't perfect
I myself have never promised a big steel erection up your butt lol.
I kind of do feel sorry for your wives when you set expectations
On humans.
Maybe one way to do is increase your social skills and ask more
Questions and talk more. I have never sold a service I can't provide.
I state up front what I am. Maybe some of you just repulsed the girl
So much she can't perform. Refer back to the part we are humans .
We aren't machines. Tell me is this how you found your wife?
A date with a human should not be based on what another trick
Says. After all I hsve been seriously turned on by some tricks and some
I couldn't wait till they left

You're the one who made the comparison to buying a product. I was just filling in the blanks as a consumer. As far as my social skill set? I have a very active social life with countless friends and sometimes I wish I was a little less sociable and had more time to myself. I don't put unrealistic expectations on people and and more often than not, put the needs of others before my own. I'm not a %100 sure what you're after here, but to me, you seem lonely and sad. Just an observation.