what's the best way to get a TS date/gf/FWB

[cameeindos]

I'm kind of tired with escorts, but i live in a small country, where there are a few TSs, but as a professional in a conservative country don't wnt to fuck up my business. this is a weird question to ask, but can I get an FWB from craiglist or backpage?

[candyhilton]

yes... you and every other of the 1000's of cheap fucks that want freebie's.
dream on

I'm kind of tired with escorts, but i live in a small country, where there are a few TSs, but as a professional in a conservative country don't wnt to fuck up my business. this is a weird question to ask, but can I get an FWB from craiglist or backpage?

[Klaus]

yes... you and every other of the 1000's of cheap fucks that want freebie's.
dream on

That seems like a very jaded answer to a legitimate question Candy.

Wanting a relationship rather than a paid situation is a less likely event for cameeindos, but it is not impossible.

[Rockheart]

yes... you and every other of the 1000's of cheap fucks that want freebie's.
dream on

So you are saying that no tgirls do it for free, and none ever want a boyfriend?

[JerryW]

yes... you and every other of the 1000's of cheap fucks that want freebie's.
dream on

You think no tgirls lead normal lives,get out of your closet and open your eyes.Your posts are nearly all negative.

[alex99]

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[candyhilton]

Theres a difference between being negative and standing up for yourself and not being taken advantage of (my tranny chasers and bum trannies... funny enough).

And I'm saying tgirls of course do want relationships BUT from what they've told me 1st hand is that guys pretend to want to date them but only behind closed doors. I only go by what they've told me, when u hear it from the horses mouth... the proof is in the pudding.
We like to use the 99 to 1 rule, 99% of guys say they want to date one, then once they get what they want... their outta there so far... while the 1% do actually wanna publicly go out and be seen with a trans girls, not caring how society views them.
Thats the truth.

[greep]

So you are saying that no tgirls do it for free, and none ever want a boyfriend?

What she is saying is she is a cheap money hungry individual who expects men to pay her for here affection. Well guess what Candy, you aint getting any younger so you better silk every man you ever come in contact with, because soon no one is going to pay you for anything...

[alex99]

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[Rockheart]

Theres a difference between being negative and standing up for yourself and not being taken advantage of (my tranny chasers and bum trannies... funny enough).

And I'm saying tgirls of course do want relationships BUT from what they've told me 1st hand is that guys pretend to want to date them but only behind closed doors. I only go by what they've told me, when u hear it from the horses mouth... the proof is in the pudding.
We like to use the 99 to 1 rule, 99% of guys say they want to date one, then once they get what they want... their outta there so far... while the 1% do actually wanna publicly go out and be seen with a trans girls, not caring how society views them.
Thats the truth.

But the point is you are painting all guys with the same brush.
You are generalizing unfairly.

It is not just tgirls that have this happen. Guys want to get sex. Sometimes they get sex and don't call back or want a relationship, this does not automatically mean that they should get charged.

Your 99% rule is just made up.

I would say you are 100% wrong to call anyone a Loser or Cheapskate unless you know them.

I am fully willing to go anywhere with tgirls but I get the exact same treatment as everyone else, I am a cheap loser for trying to date a tgirl.

These reasons you bring up are not correct and is purely innuendo.
If you yourself only have sex for money that is one thing,
but don't try and say you do it because all men are bullshitters.

If you only want money, just say it!
Don't say all tgirls agree, because that is not the case.

If you live by the mantra of "I am already having sex so I may as well get paid for it" then you are not objective to the reality of relationships.

[ladyluv]

I'm kind of tired with escorts, but i live in a small country, where there are a few TSs, but as a professional in a conservative country don't wnt to fuck up my business. this is a weird question to ask, but can I get an FWB from craiglist or backpage?

I met some on Plenty of Fish before.

[Locomotion]

I think the 99% Candy is referring to are the muscle bound imature airhead dudes under 30 ... you know, the ones that the majority of t-girls seem to desire as boyfriends.

Unfortunately those much desired young pups are conflicted with their attraction to the 3rd sex, and this is why they do not want to be seen in public with t-girls ... it might spoil the superficial macho image that they hold of themselves.

If a t-girl really wants a full time boyfriend who doesn't care about being seen in public with her, she'd be better off going after someone over 40. But that rarely happens unless he has 5 commas in his income.

Plastic sticks to plastic...

But the point is you are painting all guys with the same brush.
You are generalizing unfairly.

It is not just tgirls that have this happen. Guys want to get sex. Sometimes they get sex and don't call back or want a relationship, this does not automatically mean that they should get charged.

Your 99% rule is just made up.

I would say you are 100% wrong to call anyone a Loser or Cheapskate unless you know them.

I am fully willing to go anywhere with tgirls but I get the exact same treatment as everyone else, I am a cheap loser for trying to date a tgirl.

These reasons you bring up are not correct and is purely innuendo.
If you yourself only have sex for money that is one thing,
but don't try and say you do it because all men are bullshitters.

If you only want money, just say it!
Don't say all tgirls agree, because that is not the case.

If you live by the mantra of "I am already having sex so I may as well get paid for it" then you are not objective to the reality of relationships.

[TSFantasia]

I'm kind of tired with escorts, but i live in a small country, where there are a few TSs, but as a professional in a conservative country don't wnt to fuck up my business. this is a weird question to ask, but can I get an FWB from craiglist or backpage?

Not sure what small conservative country your talking about if it's Iran or middle east you might be SOL, but most anywhere else you will likely find the non-passable cross dressers on craigslist or sex hookup sites looking for quickies and FWBs they will be the one's with a pic of just their legs in nylons and heels

Passable attractive feminine T-girls will be on some of the T-Girl dating sites ie TSDATING, Transgender Dating, etc and a lot of them on regular dating sites. You will of course have to sort through those only using those sites for P4P action just like the T-girls looking for real relationships have to filter through the players and one night stand guys.

No one will take out a non-passable T-girl out publicly unless they are themselves immersed in the LGBT community and not looking to appease the mainstream.

I dated one guy off POF, one off of Adultfriendfinder and my current BF off Zoosk not too bad for good ole red-necked conservative Sask

[candyhilton]

thank you Loco!!

Finally someone see's what Im talking about.
Its these shithead youngsters that are always on the prawl looking for freebie after freebie.
I find the over 40 crowd really has their lives together and know what they want.

And yes Crag I can see it from your view as well, but Im just stating my view.
I do have respect for you, and what u've done for the community.
And your anything but cheap!! U go on amazing trips throughout the year. Now thats amazing!! Travel rocks!

I think the 99% Candy is referring to are the muscle bound imature airhead dudes under 30 ... you know, the ones that the majority of t-girls seem to desire as boyfriends.

Unfortunately those much desired young pups are conflicted with their attraction to the 3rd sex, and this is why they do not want to be seen in public with t-girls ... it might spoil the superficial macho image that they hold of themselves.

If a t-girl really wants a full time boyfriend who doesn't care about being seen in public with her, she'd be better off going after someone over 40. But that rarely happens unless he is loaded.

Plastic sticks to plastic...

[TSFantasia]

I think the 99% Candy is referring to are the muscle bound imature airhead dudes under 30 ... you know, the ones that the majority of t-girls seem to desire as boyfriends.

Unfortunately those much desired young pups are conflicted with their attraction to the 3rd sex, and this is why they do not want to be seen in public with t-girls ... it might spoil the superficial macho image that they hold of themselves.

If a t-girl really wants a full time boyfriend who doesn't care about being seen in public with her, she'd be better off going after someone over 40. But that rarely happens unless he is loaded.

Plastic sticks to plastic...

I don't think age has much to do with it there are flakes, players, cheaters at all age levels. And older guys may feel they have more to lose in terms of reputation in the community, on the job, amongst family by dating someone who is transgender or a cross dresser. Therefore are even more likely to want a "discrete" and behind close doors fuck buddy only relationship.

And yes T-girls in their 20s and 30s want guys in the same age range it's not just about looks but also what they have in common in terms of taste in music, fashion, entertainment, etc. They don't want guys 20-30 yrs older unless they are looking for sugar daddies.