Men who are attracted to shemales...

[cumlover69]

Men who are attracted to shemales all fit into one of four catagories:

1. Closeted gay men who need the tits and ass so they don’t freak out about the dick.

2. Bisexual men who can get both needs met at the same time.

3. Porn-addicted straight men who need to keep crossing new boundaries to get aroused.

4. Straight guys who nonetheless have a narcissistic attraction to the penis.

[beast_]

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i'm 3 and 4

[jeff555]

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yeah I fall into 3 and 4 aswell baby..

[beast_]

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i think most here are in the same boat

[prettyboy]

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Though i can relate a little in each category, i think #2 is the best description of me.

[horny_guy]

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I am definitely #3. I might also be #2. #1 and #4 don't apply for me.

H_G

[Tony M]

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im def # 3.

And just realized a month ago i had this addiction to prostitutes and crossing new boundries.

I started off going to massage parlours when i was 16 and when that wasnt working it escalated into women prostitutes and when that got old i would get massages from men, and when that got old i started to see transsexuals but wouldnt do anything crazy and it took about 5 visits before i stuck my dick in one and then eventually i let one cum on me and then eventually i sucked one off and then eventually let one stick her dick in me....and it took me until last month to realize why i kept throwing money away and trying to reach new empty levels of pleasure. I was addicted.

im sure many of you can relate...

[bubblee]

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im def # 3.

And just realized a month ago i had this addiction to prostitutes and crossing new boundries
im sure many of you can relate...

I can relate and admire the honesty of your post -- even if you are of course anonymous.
What have you done since realizing your addiction? Are you trying to stop it or go with the flow?

For me, the porn portal led to my fascination with T-Girls although I've (by choice) only had very limited actual experience. And I've pretty much stopped all other forms of mongering (good word for a bad habit!)
The problem with porn though is once you open the gates of fantasy, it's very hard to close them again. I know there is an attitude pervascent here of 'if it feels good, do it'. But when there are so many personal consequences and STD risks attached, that sounds like pretty empty advice.

Lastly, does this original list come indirectly from a column written by Nina Arsenault mentioned elsewhere. It sounds familiar but the perceptions are right on.

This is an important topic. I'd like to hear what others have to contribute.

[Goodlookingguy25]

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hmm very intresting topic i barely post here mainly just a lurker. i honestly believe i dont fit to any of those 4 catogories im just a totally straight guy who loves attractive women/tgirls. i cant say that its whats between there legs that attracts me to ts girls. i dont have an answer for this not sure if anyone is like me or not. if i find a tgirl passable and attractive to my standards which can be high and picky sometimes must have a set of (i wont even date a gg if she lacks in the tits departnment im just a boob guy is all, big visual turn on for me)nice body, or at least and handfull, nice ass, totally femine, and very passable than i would date a tgirl. i have been with 2. both were girls i just fooled around with. i was freaked out about the surprise at first but after a couple of meeting was totally ok with it. i have gave bj but honestly did nothing for me just something i wanted to do, to please the person i was with, rimming was ok, but drilling those tight asses, gotta say what a feeling my first time was wow maybe i just like fucking tgirls/gg in the ass i dunno well thats my version. as for being a bottom i think i can honestly say no i never have and dont plan on doing it either not something i feel the need to experiment with im the guy im on top. u guys might think im full of shit and im not admiting/hiding something totally not the case i being real in what intrests me im sure others feel the same as i do.

[Tony M]

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I did stop completely but the past few days i noticed myself searching the local ads if there were any new shemales in town. And i ordered a few porn movies. Its like i couldnt help myself. But im gonna stop. A few setbacks.

I realized it after I got blasted it in the bottom by a tgirl again and thought to myself that i dont know why im doing this because i surely dont enjoy it, and im always reluctant to suck them or touch their cocks but i do it a little anyway because i feel they want me to. I dont know. But i really need to stop because i dont get satisfied doing it and i've probably spent over $10,000 over the past decade on porn, prostititues, massage parlours, etc. Maybe even more. The only times i wouldnt go was when i had a girlfriend, and that constituted five of those years so imagine.

I guess i also did it because the porn made me horny and maybe i was looking for some loving that i wasnt currently getting from not having a girl friend and needed an outlet but then after watching so much porn and seeing so many hookers after a while it doesnt have the same affect so i needed to keep pushing the enveloppe. Christ, i would get massages from men and then let them suck me off, yet i wouldnt touch them with a ten foot poll. In either case, porn and visiting prostitues is an addiction. I have to stop. Sorry if this is a downer post.

[animuszaphodius]

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I'm definitely 3. Maybe 2 and 4.

[bubblee]

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I did stop completely but the past few days i noticed myself searching the local ads if there were any new shemales in town. And i ordered a few porn movies. Its like i couldnt help myself. But im gonna stop. A few setbacks.

In either case, porn and visiting prostitues is an addiction. I have to stop. Sorry if this is a downer post.

Don't be sorry. It's actually refreshing to hear what's on someone's mind apart from the 'She's hot' type posts on this wonderful forum. It may help to know that some 'experts' believe that porn addiction is not so much an addiction as it is a behavioural problem. In other words, it's not crack (even if she has one) and behaviour can be modified. The term 'addiction' crops up with self-appointed Dr. Phil experts who seem to be cashing in on treatment programs. And I hate the ++++ overtones of 12-step programs.

I'd like to know more about how to help oneself to control or cessate pornophilia when it gets out of whack. What you describe sounds familar with the steadily escalating taboo-busting behaviour. Clearly, we're not alone when you consider that T-girl porn is the fastest rising part of the market.

In the pre-internet world, all this would have been unthinkable. No disrespect at all to T-girls either. Apart from the whole pan-sexual mystique -- I admire their sheer commitment to being who they have to be. Amazing. And 'uneasy is the head that wear the crown' as Shakespeare quoth.

Hey Tony M. Maybe similar people in this forum can help each other a bit deal with the problem. That's what I find so difficult -- to find anyone I can talk to about all this. I do have one close girl/friend with whom I discuss but apart from that it's top secret which to be honest, might also be part of the fascination.

[bottomguyusually]

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#3 Three for me

[cadillac]

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# 3 all the way..some of these t girls are simply stunning

[rebecca]

I am 2,3,4, plus I am a closeted CD. I love that TG are so fem. I have never been with one, but have always wanted to. I think I would love to look up at such a pretty face and tits while I handle it down there. I'd also like to feel it rubbed between my cheeks and up in there. I imagine so many possibilities.