Tgirls Only Just a date

[looking4sm]

Re: Tgirls Only Just a date

Good for you Tia, getting asked for dates,
But I’m the one who is asking to go on a date (hahaha)

Do I sense Tia that you are getting cold feet
If I recall, not to long ago you where saying it would be hard for you or you girls
To get a real boyfriend
I just put a post in here looking for a simple date,
Not sex, not companionship just a plain old simple date.
I think Tia was the only girl to reply, and she said NO,
But would go on a paid date.
I luv ya Tia, …..thinking like a real woman $$$$

[Tia Phoenixx]

Re: Tgirls Only Just a date

Thanks sensuallover20..that is really the point...love and my work may conflict each other!

And looking4sm...no u r not the only one who ask me on date, there is at least 5 more e-mails with their pics asking same thing after i posted my comment on this topic. And honestly, three of them are really good looking. Nevertheless, i am NOT really into look. I am MORE into personality and brain. Good look is a plus but definitely not necessary. To ALL of them i replied almost the same thing as i replied to you. So do not be too bitter on this regards.

A pretty shemale can have sex so easily, so we need a REAL boyfriend to share our lives with, not merely only sex. (Imagine me dressing nicely on the street..i could get a good man for sex within minutes. Probably almost everyman as long as they are not 100% gay or 100% straight).

Yes, i think for all of us..it is difficult to have a GOOD boyfriend/girlfriend to grow together with. And even more difficult for us, working shemales escorts.

Tia

[sensual_lover20]

Re: Tgirls Only Just a date

Well said Tia!

[looking4sm]

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Still not any sign of a date
is there any Tgirl in here who wants
a normal boy girl date,

[ShelbyWylde]

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Sorry, but I think this is a recipe for disaster! Either you are a client or you are a friend. I guess sometimes clients can become friends.

Why not make it a paid date? After all the word "escort" does not necessarily mean there has to be sex. Some female SPs offer a rate for accompanying clients to functions wihtout sex.

I hope I didn't offend anyone with my views. I would be curious to hear what others think.

Kink

I agree totally, I certainly have had many clients that enjoy dinner dates, concerts, dancing, etc. It certainly makes for a even more enjoyable evening for both parties.
As I am strickly a outcall gal I have always advertised this.
The best GFE comes when you have a real GFE.
xoxo
S

[slover]

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i have read everyones blurbs on here..........all i get out of it is

whether you wanna be friends or need an escort t-girls wont do nothing for free.........

what a joke, a guy has to pay a t-girl to go on a date........what happened to going out as friends..and each pay there own way...........you are a working girl when you prositute or escort.........when you meet at a bar and someone picks you up and you agree to a date .. you are not working when this happens.......so why do the t-girls on here say guys have to pay for time.....get real!......you are either on a date.....or you are working..........if you are working then get paid by clients. not by dates who are trying to get to know you, well some actually wannaknow yous not just for sex.........

[ShelbyWylde]

Re: Tgirls Only Just a date

i have read everyones blurbs on here..........all i get out of it is

whether you wanna be friends or need an escort t-girls wont do nothing for free.........

what a joke, a guy has to pay a t-girl to go on a date........what happened to going out as friends..and each pay there own way...........you are a working girl when you prositute or escort.........when you meet at a bar and someone picks you up and you agree to a date .. you are not working when this happens.......so why do the t-girls on here say guys have to pay for time.....get real!......you are either on a date.....or you are working..........if you are working then get paid by clients. not by dates who are trying to get to know you, well some actually wannaknow yous not just for sex.........

when I date its always dutch.
guys still just want to do ya and drop you just as fast
So really whats the point
maybe you should try lavalife
good luck
S

[stiggy78]

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Shemales are just in it for the money?

[prettyboy]

Re: Tgirls Only Just a date

She Males need to make money as everyone else does. Have any of you men ever worked alongside a shemale in a regular job?
If you are in a position to hire, would you hire a shemale? The girls cannot live off dates and friendly cuddles in front of the boobtube.
Of course shemales desire loving trusting  companionship in their lives,difficult enough for straight and gays to find, much more difficult for our girls who are forced to exist on the fringes of our society.
If you desire to find a relationship with a shemale you must enter their world, spend time in places that they frequent, pay hourly for the privelage if necessary, and if you meet someone that there is 'a chemistry' with ,you may be fortunate enough to develop a friendship and ultimately a relationship . Unless you are a handsome  young buck lucky enough to be picked up by one of the girls as a piece of meat for a good f**k, you're going to have to do more than send emails asking for dates.

[mrcute79]

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So true prettyboy.... So true.
You want the relationship's etc... you have to go out and look for them... they don't come to you.

[toban]

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.........when you meet at a bar and someone picks you up and you agree to a date .. you are not working when this happens.......so why do the t-girls on here say guys have to pay for time.....get real!......

OK slover, let's get real then:

In the "real" world, it is a well known fact that both guys and "female" hookers frequent bars to use them as a meeting place. Many sexual business transactions take place in bars between males and females. Some working girls use Escort Services to advertise for them, some use print or internet advertisements, some use the streets, some use bartenders, cab drivers, hotel desk clerks, etc to refer clients while some prefer to conduct their business in bars etc. etc. Knowing then, that a lot of guys go to bars with the express intention of getting laid, it seems like a good business decision on their part.

Working, transgendered girls are no different, so some may use a bar as a place to meet prospective clients.

When you go to a bar looking for a t-girl are you genuinely hoping just to find a friend? Hmmmm? If the girl is there hoping to make the rent payment, she is going to be very disappointed to have been picked up by a cheapskate who wastes her working time because he wants a freebie.

I would think a guy would have to be a very special person and be well known to her, before a working girl might ever be able to consider "dating" him as a real friend.

That is my opinion, and I don't think that there will be many responses to any ads asking shemales to befriend the advertiser.

[shy_girl]

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Is that why they are called "shemales" because they do not have a normal job? What if a tgirl has a normal job...is she also a shemale?

[Raven]

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Is that why they are called "shemales" because they do not have a normal job? What if a tgirl has a normal job...is she also a shemale?

I find 'shemale' to be a mildly offensive marketing term, and I don't know any girls who would call themselves such outside of the adult entertainment industry.

[Raven]

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.........when you meet at a bar and someone picks you up and you agree to a date .. you are not working when this happens.......so why do the t-girls on here say guys have to pay for time.....get real!......

OK slover, let's get real then:

In the "real" world, it is a well known fact that both guys and "female" hookers frequent bars to use them as a meeting place. Many sexual business transactions take place in bars between males and females. Some working girls use Escort Services to advertise for them, some use print or internet advertisements, some use the streets, some use bartenders, cab drivers, hotel desk clerks, etc to refer clients while some prefer to conduct their business in bars etc. etc. Knowing then, that a lot of guys go to bars with the express intention of getting laid, it seems like a good business decision on their part.

Working, transgendered girls are no different, so some may use a bar as a place to meet prospective clients.

When you go to a bar looking for a t-girl are you genuinely hoping just to find a friend? Hmmmm? If the girl is there hoping to make the rent payment, she is going to be very disappointed to have been picked up by a cheapskate who wastes her working time because he wants a freebie.

I would think a guy would have to be a very special person and be well known to her, before a working girl might ever be able to consider "dating" him as a real friend.

That is my opinion, and I don't think that there will be many responses to any ads asking shemales to befriend the advertiser.

That's pretty much true, Toban..but it does depend on the bar you're at. At Goodhandy's you'll find a lot of working girls and your scenario is pretty much the case, but if you were to bump into a chick like me at a fetish party or a rave or any of my usual haunts, well, that's just a chick out to have a good time..you shouldn't be shy about saying hello for fear of entering a transaction.

[ShelbyWylde]

Re: Tgirls Only Just a date

Is that why they are called "shemales" because they do not have a normal job? What if a tgirl has a normal job...is she also a shemale?

I find 'shemale' to be a mildly offensive marketing term, and I don't know any girls who would call themselves such outside of the adult entertainment industry.

Shemale certainly sits better with me then "tranny" any day of the week.
If youve been read Id rather be called shemale, I really don't find the term offensive at all even though
I see myself as simply female.
anyways back to dating
have a super sunday