Dating and Relationships

[tao1kiku]

I am curious how you have transgender friends? I have never encountered anyone who is transgender in my entire life. Or maybe I have but I didn’t know it.

Hmm, I have transgender friends like I have straight and gay friends. Trans women are people, have personalities, feelings, like to have a social life, they enjoy life and the company of other people they like to go out and do things or just hang out and watch TV. Just like straight and gay friends of mine. I'm sorry you live a cloistered life, maybe if you got out once in a while, or moved to a larger city, you will actually meet some. And yes, you may have met some trans women and not known it. Try getting to know the person first, not what's between their legs.

[Guest]

Hmm, I have transgender friends like I have straight and gay friends. Trans women are people, have personalities, feelings, like to have a social life, they enjoy life and the company of other people they like to go out and do things or just hang out and watch TV. Just like straight and gay friends of mine. I'm sorry you live a cloistered life, maybe if you got out once in a while, or moved to a larger city, you will actually meet some. And yes, you may have met some trans women and not known it. Try getting to know the person first, not what's between their legs.

Wow, I never would have thought that transgender people are human beings without your enlightenment. Thank you for this insight.

Clearly I touched a nerve but I was genuinely curious. It’s true, I don’t frequent bars or many public spaces. I have very few opportunities to meet anyone. So I am not likely to encounter anyone of any sexual orientation or gender identity. Actually I am not really interested in what anyone has between their legs.

[drigger]

Wow, I never would have thought that transgender people are human beings without your enlightenment. Thank you for this insight.

Clearly I touched a nerve but I was genuinely curious. It’s true, I don’t frequent bars or many public spaces. I have very few opportunities to meet anyone. So I am not likely to encounter anyone of any sexual orientation or gender identity. Actually I am not really interested in what anyone has between their legs.

Excellent rebuttal. Some of these old timers like to stir the pot. I don't think you hit a nerve buy find the way you dodged his attempt at hitting your nerve refreshing.

All of your posts are well written and favorable to read. Keep it up Escierto

[YvonOrator]

Sign up for several dating sites. The search will become more extensive and there will be more chances to meet the person.

[zorrinn]

In my experience meeting trans woman randomly isn't easy. So far I have met around 3 of them in normal circumstance, working a regular job. I did not ask them out, as they were not my type. However, out of the 3, one was so passable that anyone could easily miss her. She was gorgeous, but I had a GGF with me.. so didn't ask her out.

I however fell totally in love with an escort in Toronto. She liked me a lot as well... but she was only focussed on making money. This is by no means a generalization. But I guess she was in that phase of life. Some years later, she regretted for being so materialistic and admitted that she now wants my company and date me. Alas! It was too late... I had moved on.

A friend of mine left Toronto and travelled to Brazil and Columbia. He lives off rental income and as the $$ goes a long way in those countries, he moved there.
So he started living there and dated trans women quite easily. He met highly ambitious, career women living busy lives and working as lawyers and doctors. He is now married and settled with someone working at the UN as a legislator of some sorts.

From his experience (anecdotal as it maybe), he always insisted on taking your time and get yourself out there in the dating scene, in the trans community. Make friends, go to house parties... sooner or later you'll meet someone. It took almost 4 years for him... but now they're the happiest couple.

Perhaps someday I too shall set my sails to the southerly or easterly winds. Let's see.

[alex99]

The best way to get a tgirl is to act like you don't know she's a tgirl, and then one day, you're like, 'omg what? you have a penis? I had no idea, but I love you for who you are.' But at that point, do NOT act like you want anal, and if you've been to the rodeo before, make sure to clench those butt cheeks real tight, because trust me, they will know and be like, 'bitch, why's that ass so loose?' Most want straight guys who aren't into trans because many secretly lust over tight straight man's ass, i.e. the ones with enough power to literally rip a dick straight off.

[Discrete84]

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In my experience meeting trans woman randomly isn't easy. So far I have met around 3 of them in normal circumstance, working a regular job. I did not ask them out, as they were not my type. However, out of the 3, one was so passable that anyone could easily miss her. She was gorgeous, but I had a GGF with me.. so didn't ask her out.

I however fell totally in love with an escort in Toronto. She liked me a lot as well... but she was only focussed on making money. This is by no means a generalization. But I guess she was in that phase of life. Some years later, she regretted for being so materialistic and admitted that she now wants my company and date me. Alas! It was too late... I had moved on.

A friend of mine left Toronto and travelled to Brazil and Columbia. He lives off rental income and as the $$ goes a long way in those countries, he moved there.
So he started living there and dated trans women quite easily. He met highly ambitious, career women living busy lives and working as lawyers and doctors. He is now married and settled with someone working at the UN as a legislator of some sorts.

From his experience (anecdotal as it maybe), he always insisted on taking your time and get yourself out there in the dating scene, in the trans community. Make friends, go to house parties... sooner or later you'll meet someone. It took almost 4 years for him... but now they're the happiest couple.

Perhaps someday I too shall set my sails to the southerly or easterly winds. Let's see.

[omaski]

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