Nikki's New Column: Identity vs. Identification

[Rantsalot]

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Nikki. On the "advice for seeing a t girl" idea you and I know that I did write something on that which wasn't so well received by the male populous here a while back so perhaps if you are to write on the topic or a variation some may take it more to heart.

The female opinion and perspective is more widely accepted here that's for sure.

Then again some might perceive it as an excuse to just bash girls ....again ..... and raise ridiculous speculation, that always seems llke a popular outcome.

Then again what do I know?

[wet_dreamz]

Nikki:

Thanks for the most insightful article outlining your experience with the process...very will done in good taste and with a touch humour.

Congrats!

w-d

[intowntonight]

I have read numerous threads that have gone off the rails by having girls with different circumstances start slagging each other unmercifully. Your #2 option would be sure to create a firestorm of controversy and vicious debate, resultng in hurt feelings all around.

Sounds like a winner to me! (from a journalist's perspective)

P.S. Why not use the polling feature? A lot more people will click a radio button than will take the time to type a response.

Unfortunately, I am not....

Intowntonight

[konabuds]

Hi Nikki,

Your great as usual, keep smiling. Out of the four you typed, Tensions between different identities within the "trans" category. It would be helpful for everyone, trans, trans wannabes and us guys that love trans.

take care

[Foxy Basket]

Thanks for the suggestions, everyone. I haven't made any decisions about the topic for my next article, because school has been draining all my time. I don't think it's going to let up any time soon, so look for my next article in mid-December, at the earliest.

In the meantime, if you have any other ideas that you think would make for a great column, please feel free to let me know.

Thanks again!

[sensual_lover20]

Choose 1) or 4), but 1) from an admirers perspective.

[Foxy Basket]

Choose 1) or 4), but 1) from an admirers perspective.

Hmmm, now that's a really interesting topic! I assume you mean, advice on how an admirer can tell his friends and family that he's attracted to tgirls?

I like that idea a lot, because it's never been discussed, and I know a lot of guys are conflicted about having to keep their interest in tgirls to themselves. I'm not sure if any of my advice will be useful, though - I'd be constantly relating it to other forms of "coming out."

Some very interesting food for thought - thanks SL20!