Personality

[snoodle]

I find that someone could be just okay looking but if they are friendly and have a good personality they start becoming more attractive to me with time. And also the opposite is true. Someone can be super good looking, but if they have a shitty personality, i will start finding them less attractive in time.

[Rose]

I like to be able to have a proper conversation with the person I'm dateing. If they can't string two words together, or have yet to pick up a book they weren't forced to read, then I'll probobly not be interested, even if you're Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie....Okay that's a lie, I'd do either, even if they were as dumb as a post. But I don't see either of them in my daily life, so personality is more important.

[Foxy Basket]

Do you all believe that writing on these boards, regardless if its the men or women, that you get a true feeling of that person's personality?

Very good question. On the one hand, it's a lot easier to communicate on this forum than it is in a loud club like Goodhandy's. . . on the other hand, there's no backspace button in real life, and you can't "unsay" things you've already said.

I'd say that people's posts give you an indication of who they are, but certainly don't tell us the whole story. Then again, the relative anonymity that the internet provides allows people to say things online that they would never dare say to someone in person. So, perhaps online posts are a better representation of people's inner makeup than we might think; we just constrain ourselves in the real world to avoid conflict.

I'm afraid I don't really have an answer for you, Rantsalot - I suppose it depends on the person, and depends on how open and honest they choose to be. I have a friend who's researching this very phenomenon, so when he finishes his paper in May, I'll be sure to send it to you.

[toban]

Right on, Rose!

I like to be able to have a proper conversation with the person I'm dateing. If they can't string two words together, or have yet to pick up a book they weren't forced to read, then I'll probobly not be interested, ................ so personality is more important.

I find that in general, outcall visits tend to be handled by the girls as, "get it done, get out", and I really have no interest in that. I know from my experience, and from what I read here, that some girls do offer a chance to get aquainted but that is not the norm.


Because of this I very seldom go the outcall route, and prefer to pay some extra to have the girl visit me, where the session can be a bit more directed by my prerferences. I prefer some conversation to be able to get a sense of who I am with. To facilitate this, I like to offer a glass of wine to allow us some time to talk and get to know a bit about each other before anything else goes down.


Actually I find it very disappointing when my visitor starts disrobing while walking in the door. Sheesh! I don't need that badly!

[snoodle]

Actually I find it very disappointing when my visitor starts disrobing while walking in the door. Sheesh! I don't need that badly!

I agree. I like to get started kissing and fondling each other while we still have our clothes on. And gradually tearing our clothes off as the passion gets more intense. It's much more sensual that way.

[sensual_lover20]

I have met many on the board and actually of all who I met their character matches bang on with what they write. I have seen this in Rantsalot, youngboy4ts, Nikki, Marlena and so on....

[kristopin]

It's RIDICULOUSLY HARD to not create a mental picture of what we may think others are like

I've been thinking about this topic and when the time comes for it to die off then fine but for now I got another thing to ask.



Do you all believe that writing on these boards, regardless if its the men or women, that you get a true feeling of that person's personality?

i dont think that you can tell a persons true personality from thes boards. as i told nikki once you have to be able to look into a persons eyes.

so many people are too deceitful. the old saying cant judge a book by its cover.

[sadeh]

dilusions

well if you focus on being optimistic, rather than thinking pesimistic,
you just might find the answer you want.....

focus on what you want, not what you don't want

cheers

i dont think that you can tell a persons true personality from thes boards. as i told nikki once you have to be able to look into a persons eyes.

so many people are too deceitful. the old saying cant judge a book by its cover.

[Rantsalot]

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I have met many on the board and actually of all who I met their character matches bang on with what they write. I have seen this in Rantsalot, youngboy4ts, Nikki, Marlena and so on....

In seeing a person just once you may believe them to be a nice individual and even get that from the boards afterward.

O.K. Let me say a few things

• I have been banned from The Guvernment club permanently after telling the dj what i thought of his choice of music and style of play. Long story. You want to know the whole thing then ask.
• I have purposely driven on the sidewalks and in the opposite direction of one way streets in my city and other cities to make "shorcuts"
• Had a friend dress as a security guard to detain another friend of mine at a mall for "loitering"
• Did freestyle dance in the stands at a NY Yankees game

however

• I have met girls here and have had just long intellectual chats with them
• Provided massages

• Given a lift to girls to their house or another destination and even offered to get them a bite to eat.

Make what you will of this but I believe this still doesn't give a true representation of myself. Guess what the point is is that you really must meet the person many times to know the whole personality otherwise you just meet a part of them and build up a mountain of expectations which could go sour if you dont meet them again say like after 6 months.

Then look what happens. CLient says bad things, the woman can't defend herself or vice versa.

Thats all I got.

[surfdude]

In seeing a person just once you may believe them to be a nice individual and even get that from the boards afterward.

O.K. Let me say a few things

• I have been banned from The Guvernment club permanently after telling the dj what i thought of his choice of music and style of play. Long story. You want to know the whole thing then ask.
• I have purposely driven on the sidewalks and in the opposite direction of one way streets in my city and other cities to make "shorcuts"
• Had a friend dress as a security guard to detain another friend of mine at a mall for "loitering"
• Did freestyle dance in the stands at a NY Yankees game

however

• I have met girls here and have had just long intellectual chats with them
• Provided massages
• Given a lift to girls to their house or another destination and even offered to get them a bite to eat.
• Make what you will of this but I believe his still doesn't give a true representation of myself. Guess what the point is is that you really must meet the person many times to know the whole personality otherwise you just meet a part of them and build up a mountain of expectations which could go sour if you dont meet them again say like after 6 months.

Then look what happens. CLient says bad things, the woman can't defend herself or vice versa.

Thats all I got.

well no it doesnt say who you are as a person rantsalot, in fact your mishmosh of randon things you've done that you posted makes it impossible to judge you, except the second series of facts in which it is you are, (and were at the time), being a player and trying to pull the heartstrings of the ladies here.

actually in all your perplexing randomness of these facts you've given, i can indeed anylize you.

you love trannys and every other thing in your life is unknown and confusing in this fucked up world in which people judge others unfairly.

but can you step up to the plate and get a wife who is transsexual and be yourself for these short years that is life?

[sensual_lover20]

I met Rantsalot about 3-4 times in person. He is opinionated as he is on the forum and also a kind person. Although he shows his daring side in his most previous post, I can assure you his posts are quite representative of what he is like in real life. For those posters who usually post just dirty stuff, that is obviously not representative of what they are like in real life. Even my friend, youngboy4ts, his grammar and spelling are not the best and in real life he has some speech issues. Even after he says bye in person or on the phone, he always says respect and always has a lot of respect for t-girls as in his posts. However, the best, if you don't get to meet him in person is prettyboy. His retoric humour that he displays in his posts is the same in real life which makes it a real treat. He is far out and creative, yet totally sane and happy with himself. I have a true respect for all of these persons forementioned. But no one here can doubt me that their posts are respective of their character in real life.

[Rantsalot]

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well no it doesnt say who you are as a person rantsalot, in fact your mishmosh of randon things you've done that you posted makes it impossible to judge you, except the second series of facts in which it is you are, (and were at the time), being a player and trying to pull the heartstrings of the ladies here.

actually in all your perplexing randomness of these facts you've given, i can indeed anylize you.

you love trannys and every other thing in your life is unknown and confusing in this fucked up world in which people judge others unfairly.

but can you step up to the plate and get a wife who is transsexual and be yourself for these short years that is life?

I do not pull heartstrings. I'm just a nice easy going guy and would treat every girl and guy the same way.

It's funny because this isn't the first time on the boards that men in general who show genuine affection towards t women or anyone for that matter get pointed out as "players" and that's a damn shame.

You buy a flower for a woman one day and then the next day you get coffee for another ... oh oh...you're a player. Wow. Reminds me of an instance once in Toronto.

I held a door open for a girl to get to the subway line and she looked at me and said "What do you want? What's your game?" I said "What do you mean? Just holding the door open." She then asked what the deal was and I replied I didn't understand ....

LOL....After a minute she came about and realized I was just being polite.

Almost get the same vibe here , its as if men can't be nice to t women and t women can't be nice to men without being labeled as having some kind of hidden agenda.


But again, surfdude hey, that's your perception and others may view it different. I respect what you got to say.

Speaking of respect. I agree with sensual lovers take on youngboy4ts and as I myself in meeting both of them I can honestly say that although you may only get a partial glance of what they are online meeting them in person you'd see that the positive aspects each holds just multiply.

OK....this wasn't meant to be a love everyone and everybody type of board cus its sounding like a watered down version of a family sitcom.


In answer to your questions surfdude

Do I love t women? Yes.

Would I marry a t woman? Yes

Do I like the color white? Hell no

Is randomness part of life? Yes

Does life treat everyone fairly? No

Is Halloween gonna rock this year? DAMNED RIGHT IT IS!!! I CAN"T WAIT!!

Was the Spanish Inquisition a broadway musical? Uh....no...no it wasn't.

I threw in a few unrelated items , because....because......for dramatic effect? Just to get people to say.....

HUH?

WHAT?

Again, all about personality.



Ah well. Point being as I said in my previous post is that you have to meet and be with a person for a while to fully understand who they are. Lots of amazing girls out there with great personalities. Right? Right!


I'm through with this topic, said what I needed to say.

That's it that's all and that's the end.

[surfdude]

rantalot,
my anylization of you was based on the fact the your first string of facts were completely RANDOM stupid events, and your second string was COMPLETELY about helping t-girls out.

I mean wtf??

i stick by my description of you.

your first string isn't really all that nutty, if i was to tell my crazy adventures, almost every human on earth would be blown away,...including everyone on this exact forum! I'm a fucking nut!
damn no one except maybe an astronaut could have more stories that no one else would have.

but then to counter it, my second string would talk about my animal rights activism, my helping people learn how to read at my local library, my volenteering to help old folks out at a jewish center near me, (btw im not jewish), etc. etc. (theres more etc.'s)

maybe it would be something like i play basketball with my nephew once a week or something, (i don't have nephew, but what i'm saying is there isn't much substance to your second string at all, ITS ALL HELPING TRANNIES OUT!)

once again,...comeon man it's easy to figure you out.


you were making a point on how diverse you are, but i gotta say my second string wouldn't be how i bought a ts chick some coffee or gave her a ride. LOL! It doesn't show diverisy, it shows exactly were your mind is.


and that's cool, be and do who you are,....btw i would LOVE to have a ts wife and a normal life that goes with love and marraige, maybe i should post everything i've done to hopefully make that happen.

yah....held a few doors and bought some coffee myself

[Rantsalot]

You know me. No you don't. Yes I do ! No you don't !

Oh oh......

I feel a rant coming on soon .....


It will makes sense, actually no it won't but then again, yes it will.

So then ....

The aforementioned statement of another had declared that the cerebral propensity of yours truly signified the characteristics unto which they have confidence in the truth and reliability that they have "figured me out".


Pffft ....

Pfffft again.....

What I Rantsalot says makes no f***ing sense. I talk silly then talk smart. WTF?? My persona is reminiscent of a child. WTF


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Huh? What the hell was that all about??

Well you know me, don't you?

I Rantsalot am just trying to throw you off just so that you'll leave me alone. No , that can't be, I'm really being stupid and therefore am showing my true colors.

WTF

Exactly.

Ok, seriously , I got a question for everyone:

We all love t women, that's why we joined this forum but I need to ask.

"When there's something strange in the neighborhood, who you gonna call?"


I'M SURE PEOPLE ARE SAYING - "WHAT THE F*** ?!?!?!?!?!"

OK again I'm just being childish and immature and am proving it here, then again this has the works of a thespian, better yet, a Nobel Prize winning author don't you think??

Hey you all know me, don't you?



I'm a joker
I'm a smoker
I'm a midnight toker

I CAN JUST HEAR SOME FORUM MEMBERS SAYING RIGHT NOW - "WHAT IN THE BLOODY HELL IS THIS RESPONSE ALL ABOUT ?!?!?!?!?!?!"

Isn't it obvious??

Personality

I mean, it's so EASY to pinpoint.

[aguyoutthere1]

Personally, she has to be HOT. This is for a service provider, a one night stand a girlfriend or a wife. When it comes to a service provider, the hotter the better, in most cases I am only there for an hour and I hope we don't talk so much that I can tell her life story. Unless she is a repeat then getting to know her can be fun. Same thing goes for one night stands. I don't really want to talk more than we have to. Let's not waste time, let's just fuck our brains out. When it comes to something long term, from experience, no matter who she is, there will be times I am very tired of hearing her whine. Trust me, after time, you only tend to hear the whining. The kind, thoghtful, gentle, giving person you moved in with seems to change. (I'm sure I do too) So since I am sure that I will get tired of talking to her, I don't want to get tired of looking at her. SHE HAS TO BE SMOKIN HOT.

KC