T-Girl Parties back Thursday Nights!

[kai_says_hi]

I was there for the recent Saturday event and it had a fair number of people. After midnight seems like it gets a bit busier too. I honestly just wish the boys would get a little more courage.

the thing that has surprised me the most is just that the admirers who go are more timid than the men I meet online or at m4/oasis, yet this event is SUCH a good opportunity for connecting and socializing at next to no cost, or a la carte of you want to go downstairs with someone. Compare that to paying over $100 to get in as a solo man at a sex club and potentially get nothing.

I am there just to network and wear some sexy clothes and have a few drinks personally. I’d love to see more guys show up just to vibe and flirt, take a load off.

respect for all the girls who do dances and keep the mood lighter. Some of the dances are the best part of the night, I love the spirit.

honestly I don’t think guys totally understand the gift this event is, or the promise of what it could be, but I think maybe there’s some stigma going around like it’s shameful or uncool to be there. That’s just an attitude thing. Everyone is friendly and happy to chat without any expectations. This can be a space where people build each other up.

Just my 2 cents anyway. I’ll visit again some time.

[Northfit1000]

Damn! Next time in Toronto I would love to check this out!

[Locomotion]

I was there for the recent Saturday event and it had a fair number of people. After midnight seems like it gets a bit busier too. I honestly just wish the boys would get a little more courage.

the thing that has surprised me the most is just that the admirers who go are more timid than the men I meet online or at m4/oasis, yet this event is SUCH a good opportunity for connecting and socializing at next to no cost, or a la carte of you want to go downstairs with someone. Compare that to paying over $100 to get in as a solo man at a sex club and potentially get nothing.

I am there just to network and wear some sexy clothes and have a few drinks personally. I’d love to see more guys show up just to vibe and flirt, take a load off.

respect for all the girls who do dances and keep the mood lighter. Some of the dances are the best part of the night, I love the spirit.

honestly I don’t think guys totally understand the gift this event is, or the promise of what it could be, but I think maybe there’s some stigma going around like it’s shameful or uncool to be there. That’s just an attitude thing. Everyone is friendly and happy to chat without any expectations. This can be a space where people build each other up.

Just my 2 cents anyway. I’ll visit again some time.

No offence meant, Mandy.

I’ll definitely go in for a beer at The Epochal Imp next time I’m in Toronto to give the new Goodhandys location a fair chance.

It definitely looks like a much cleaner, classier bar than the old location on Church.

I recall that back then it was pretty dead around 9 but was packed closer to midnight. Barbie Swallows was a regular walking around randomly flashing her dick to guys. lol

i probably missed out on a fun evening due to shyness.

I’ll be back. 😎

[kai_says_hi]

No offence meant, Mandy.

I’ll definitely go in for a beer at The Epochal Imp next time I’m in Toronto to give the new Goodhandys location a fair chance.

It definitely looks like a much cleaner, classier bar than the old location on Church.

I recall that back then it was pretty dead around 9 but was packed closer to midnight. Barbie Swallows was a regular walking around randomly flashing her dick to guys. lol

i probably missed out on a fun evening due to shyness.

I’ll be back. 😎

Kai here you quoted, not Mandy. I wasn’t responding to anyone specifically or calling anyone out, I was just giving some POV as a single girl who has gone twice before.

And shout out to the guys who do come say hi and have a small innocent chat, I know it’s not all super shyguys.

some day when I have more time I’ll try to write about why I use these spaces (this forum, mandys) when I’m not in SW. I have a genuine social curiosity and desire to make places better and tear down barriers. Trans women and their admirers are in a movement together.

i hope what I say doesn’t come off too sassy. I mean it morr in earnest than anything malicious.

[Throatpie-seeker]

Really looking forward to the next Saturday night party! Have never been out to one of these before!

[MandyGoodhandy]

See you soon 🙂