Is it next to IMPOSSIBLE to have a Tgirl relationship ???

[dan_calgary]

where do you meet, and i'm not referring to escorts,

mind you the escorts i have met, most seem to be very very unhappy with the guy they are with, so go figure.

what are the chances of meeting/dating a tgirl for possible relationship, I have read a few topics, and many guys have mentioned they would love to have a tgirl girlfriend but it is next to impossible (myself included)

what are the issues, and the pros/cons,

i hope i dont ruffle any feathers here, not intended,

tgirl should be, completely passable, full time girl 24/7, takes good care of self and her looks,

not a part time tv/cd, who looks like a guy, no offence intended,

why is it so difficult, obviously # 1 would be not as many tgirls as females out there,

do tgirls prefer variety with guys, cas most tgirls i meet, have a high sex drive,

it would be nice to hear the view of some escorts and what they are looking for in a relationship !

who out there would be serious about having a tgirl relationship ?

what does a tgirl look for in a relationship ?

well, many questions to be asked, im sure this will be an interesting topic, and we will all learn a little bit,

so lets get started,

[toban]

Great stuff on your requested topic!

Dan, a few days ago sensual_lover20 posted a link here to "A T-Girl Admirer's Four Phases" which I found to be a most enlightening Handbook written by an active TS, Renee Reyes. It deals with the exact subject you are inquiring about here, but from a TS' viewpoint.

http://tgirlforums.com/yabbse/showpost.php?p=160580&postcount=1

I'd recommend that you read through the pages that are linked to in that post, but you will also find much more related information on the topic if you will click on the link "Section Index" at the bottom left of that page. Boxed question marks identify those parts that are available now. Clicking on the question mark brings up a new section. Some sections are currently under revision so are unavailable.

[youngboy4ts]

where do you meet, and i'm not referring to escorts,

mind you the escorts i have met, most seem to be very very unhappy with the guy they are with, so go figure.

what are the chances of meeting/dating a tgirl for possible relationship, I have read a few topics, and many guys have mentioned they would love to have a tgirl girlfriend but it is next to impossible (myself included)

what are the issues, and the pros/cons,

i hope i dont ruffle any feathers here, not intended,

tgirl should be, completely passable, full time girl 24/7, takes good care of self and her looks,

not a part time tv/cd, who looks like a guy, no offence intended,

why is it so difficult, obviously # 1 would be not as many tgirls as females out there,

do tgirls prefer variety with guys, cas most tgirls i meet, have a high sex drive,

it would be nice to hear the view of some escorts and what they are looking for in a relationship !

who out there would be serious about having a tgirl relationship ?

what does a tgirl look for in a relationship ?

well, many questions to be asked, im sure this will be an interesting topic, and we will all learn a little bit,

so lets get started,

Most of the Canadian girls are taken so forget in Canada but if you seriously looking then what?s wrong with making escort girlfriend? Don?t forget after all they seek love and affections as we do. Now it?s up to you

If you are serious then there is some of dating website you can join and figure out but they all might be in US not in Canada.
There are website like urnotalone, AFF, and sexy ads.


Respect!!!

[merelypink]

hard but not impossible

[Batman]

Speaking as one who has been in a relationship with a beautiful t-girl (god I hate that label...but in the interest of clarity), I offer my views.

I met her by accident, random chance, one opportunity in a million. She taught me much about myself in the time we had together, but in the end my own immaturity and inability to deal with all the social and emotional complexities that come from being in any 'unorthodox' relationship caused us to fail as a couple. My greatest regret in life. I can honestly say that I was in love. If I had that chance again, with the knowledge and wisdom I've gained now, I'd marry her without question.

With that said, I will add that no matter how hard I try, or far I search, I have not been able to find another with whom I could enter into a relationship with. I've come to the conclusion that as long as I'm looking for a 'tgirl' to love, I will never find one because I've already objectified her. If I'm as 'enlightened' as I think I am, I should be prepared for a relationship based on much more than genitals. If gender truly doesn't matter, then I should be open to anything, not just a tgirl...

So, I stay single, meet pretty tgirls for fun when I get the chance (because that's what I'm physically attracted to) and if I should ever meet one accidentally (fate?) on a personal level, well I will thank whatever God I believe in at the time, and this time never let her get away.

If you stop looking so hard, you may just find what you're looking for. But the question is.....if you find her, will you be ready for her

My 2 Cents...
Peace

[TesticuLarry]

What are your chances of having a non-paying relationship with a T-Girl?:

Favorable:

http://www.buttsexstation.com/wp-con...ysurprise2.jpg

http://www.benjaminnicholas.com/tranny.jpg

http://i174.photobucket.com/albums/w...e/divine22.jpg

Unfavorable:

http://asianladyboy.kathoeysex.com/2t.jpg

http://www.platinumshemale.com/shema...rrari-0018.jpg

http://fhg.lb-69.com/lb-69/231_Mint_lqsqp/rss.jpg

I see a pattern emerging here from this empirical data.

[pioneer20]

If both parties are ready to be in a relationship, which by most is considered "unorthodox", I don't see why there isn't that possibility...works the same way with a GG, if one or both parties are not ready it won't work. The degree of "complications" if you can call it that is different; but as long as both are ready to face them then there shouldn't be a problem IMO.

[TesticuLarry]

If both parties are ready to be in a relationship, which by most is considered "unorthodox", I don't see why there isn't that possibility...works the same way with a GG, if one or both parties are not ready it won't work. The degree of "complications" if you can call it that is different; but as long as both are ready to face them then there shouldn't be a problem IMO.

What percentage of passable T-girls do you suppose are looking for a relationship with the man himself and not just his wallet?

[Salvador]

great post

Speaking as one who has been in a relationship with a beautiful t-girl (god I hate that label...but in the interest of clarity), I offer my views.

I met her by accident, random chance, one opportunity in a million. She taught me much about myself in the time we had together, but in the end my own immaturity and inability to deal with all the social and emotional complexities that come from being in any 'unorthodox' relationship caused us to fail as a couple. My greatest regret in life. I can honestly say that I was in love. If I had that chance again, with the knowledge and wisdom I've gained now, I'd marry her without question.

With that said, I will add that no matter how hard I try, or far I search, I have not been able to find another with whom I could enter into a relationship with. I've come to the conclusion that as long as I'm looking for a 'tgirl' to love, I will never find one because I've already objectified her. If I'm as 'enlightened' as I think I am, I should be prepared for a relationship based on much more than genitals. If gender truly doesn't matter, then I should be open to anything, not just a tgirl...

So, I stay single, meet pretty tgirls for fun when I get the chance (because that's what I'm physically attracted to) and if I should ever meet one accidentally (fate?) on a personal level, well I will thank whatever God I believe in at the time, and this time never let her get away.

If you stop looking so hard, you may just find what you're looking for. But the question is.....if you find her, will you be ready for her

My 2 Cents...
Peace

[sensual_lover20]

What percentage of passable T-girls do you suppose are looking for a relationship with the man himself and not just his wallet?

Actually your wrong. They will go with looks before money. I would even say personality goes ahead of money. I have seen several girls in relationships with guys with no money, so they must find him very attractive in some other way. In fact, they make the same mistake as many other genetic girls like dating the assholes who treat them like shit. Also if the guy has a lot of money, he likely has a lot of prestigue and clout. I don't think he would openly associate himself in a relationship with a t-girl. Think about it.

[Salvador]

Also if the guy has a lot of money, he likely has a lot of prestigue and clout. I don't think he would openly associate himself in a relationship with a t-girl. Think about it.

Not trying to make waves but, I don't find that comment to be a comfortable one. Makes no sense to me.

I don't think the " having money " thing plays here.

[Haley]

As long as you guys keep thinking of t-girls as something that has to be hidden away, then you will never have a relationship with one. It's as simple as that. Stop thinking of us as "unorthodox". Stop loving our penis. Stop treating us differently that any other woman, and stop worrying about what others think. Once you do this, you shouldn?t have any problem finding a nice girl to be with.

The man I fall in love with will love me not because I?m trans, but regardless.

[TesticuLarry]

Also if the guy has a lot of money, he likely has a lot of prestigue and clout. I don't think he would openly associate himself in a relationship with a t-girl. Think about it.

No, definitely not openly, or any prestige and clout he has that's responsible for putting him in that superior position would surely dissipate, unless reparbates, deviates, and ne'er-do-wells were the subjects of his authoritative prestige and clout.

The closet (mothballs optional) seems to be the logical, clandestine arena, for a T-Girl relationship.

[Batman]

As long as you guys keep thinking of t-girls as something that has to be hidden away, then you will never have a relationship with one. It's as simple as that. Stop thinking of us as "unorthodox". Stop loving our penis. Stop treating us differently that any other woman, and stop worrying about what others think. Once you do this, you shouldn?t have any problem finding a nice girl to be with.

The man I fall in love with won?t love me because I?m trans, but regardless.

Haley,
I agree, and to some degree that's what I was trying to say. When I say 'unorthodox', I mean it as a social label. An enlightened society shouldn't have such a term, but unfortunately we do. I no longer concern myself with what society or religion deems normal or unorthodox, but I wasn't always like this. My need to be seen as acceptable to society at the time, was the reason my relationship failed. Boy did I do some growing up.
I no longer care what others may think. Why would I cheat myself out of something potentially wonderful, in order to please the very ones who try to restrain me? You only have one life. Live FULL.

As for 'stop loving our penis'.......if she has one, I think I will always love it....

[dan_calgary]

As long as you guys keep thinking of t-girls as something that has to be hidden away, then you will never have a relationship with one. It's as simple as that. Stop thinking of us as "unorthodox". Stop loving our penis. Stop treating us differently that any other woman, and stop worrying about what others think. Once you do this, you shouldn’t have any problem finding a nice girl to be with.

The man I fall in love with won’t love me because I’m trans, but regardless

maybe this is part of the issue, some t-girls think will want them to be hidden or we are embarassed to be seen with them, which for me is NOT the case, I will love a girl head to toe regardless of her body parts, if i like her, I like her, if I don't like her, it's not because she is a t-girl.

I don't look down on a girl because she is an escort, and I hope she would not look down on us because we are a customer,

maybe the guys have to be given a chance, and not stereo-typed. Because all of us are NOT like this.