My Dilemma

[Lani]

You're Welcum!!!

On a side note, thank you Jen for your continued inputs.
Also to those who have sent me PMs.

Oh! you know you're always welcum with me lol!
What are friends for!, And you know that you can always count on my inputs whenever and wherever you want me to put it
I'm also very grateful that my input is welcum in yours,
unlike our other friend who always resented my input on his that's why I swear I'll never infuse my inputs on his (thread) anymore (unless of course he makes amends and buy me that jewelry I showed him last year from Tiffany's)

[Rantsalot]

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Oh! you know you're always welcum with me lol!
What are friends for!, And you know that you can always count on my inputs whenever and wherever you want me to put it
I'm also very grateful that my input is welcum in yours,
unlike our other friend who always resented my input on his that's why I swear I'll never infuse any of my inputs anymore on his (unless of course he makes amends and buy me that jewelry I showed him last year from Tiffany's)

Well, whoever that person Jen may be probably had health issues and/or something else bothering them.

I thought Louis Vuitton merchandise was the big thing now.

Well sensual lover I'll be there for you with continuing support in every fashion. Just take into consideration everything that everyone has said to you privately and publicly.

[sensual_lover20]

Dan-Calgary - Go for it. What are questioning! Shoot now, ask questions later

Prettyboy - I can always count on you for that realistic point of view.

Rantsalot - Thanks for the advice, very encouraging.

Jenllani - I'll give you input anytime!

Rantsalot & Jenllani - Get a room. Rants bring Tiffany and lots of wine

[cobbler]

Life is a carnival.
Two bits a shot.
You'll find someone. Be patient.
Just make sure you enjoy the ride because it's the only one you get.
Sounds trite but trust me it's true.

[Rockheart]

Just don't think you have to limit your self to girl or tgirls.
If you date girls and you feel tgirls are a "skeleton in your closet" you have to rethink your sexuality.
Maybe some are only sexually attracted to tgirls but end up finding a better emotional connection with a GG, no matter you still have to accept this as part of your sexuality.

Why can't you date both?
If you enter into a serious relationship with one or the other, then you become monogamous if you wish. Many escorts pick boyfriends that would still be happy with them working, others are looking for a man so they can quit working. You have to be able to see the difference there.

There is life beyond tgirl escorts. There is many tgirls in Canada and the USA that never escort and work regular jobs. There are also those who prefer to have a sugar daddy, but they never really escort.
I have met and dated many tgirls in Vancouver, Calgary & Toronto who date men and never escort or plan to. They go to school, work etc.
There are lots on the personals sites, just beware of escorts pretending to be looking.

I have been through your dilemma many times and I cannot quit tgirls cold turkey, it is just part of who I am.
Certainly life would be a lot simpler ifI could.
However if a hot GG was chasing me, I would be in there like a dirty shirt period. (as long as I was single or whatever)

I have had all sorts of propostions from many men but have never been interested in any of them. It wouldn't offend me to be call bi-sexual but certainly I am not gay. I like girls.

[sensual_lover20]

Just don't think you have to limit your self to girl or tgirls.
If you date girls and you feel tgirls are a "skeleton in your closet" you have to rethink your sexuality.
Maybe some are only sexually attracted to tgirls but end up finding a better emotional connection with a GG, no matter you still have to accept this as part of your sexuality.

Why can't you date both?
If you enter into a serious relationship with one or the other, then you become monogamous if you wish. Many escorts pick boyfriends that would still be happy with them working, others are looking for a man so they can quit working. You have to be able to see the difference there.

There is life beyond tgirl escorts. There is many tgirls in Canada and the USA that never escort and work regular jobs. There are also those who prefer to have a sugar daddy, but they never really escort.
I have met and dated many tgirls in Vancouver, Calgary & Toronto who date men and never escort or plan to. They go to school, work etc.
There are lots on the personals sites, just beware of escorts pretending to be looking.

I have been through your dilemma many times and I cannot quit tgirls cold turkey, it is just part of who I am.
Certainly life would be a lot simpler ifI could.
However if a hot GG was chasing me, I would be in there like a dirty shirt period. (as long as I was single or whatever)

I have had all sorts of propostions from many men but have never been interested in any of them. It wouldn't offend me to be call bi-sexual but certainly I am not gay. I like girls.

Very good point. I know everyone all has different wants, needs and desires. I never cared if one was an escort or not, although I prefer one who is not in the business or exiting. Perhaps it is time for a lifestyle change. Your dual option seems possible, but I have a slight inkling there will be that skeleton in my closet. I am long overdue for that trip to Thailand, I think it may be there where I can truly figure out myself. You have given me much advice on the land of these ladies. I would try my luck there and bring her back here. No shame in that. Just not quite sure how loyal these girls are (I am sure you must question my loyalty, but when your single you can do as you please). Craig, any other advice for me?

[Rockheart]

Very good point. I know everyone all has different wants, needs and desires. I never cared if one was an escort or not, although I prefer one who is not in the business or exiting. Perhaps it is time for a lifestyle change. Your dual option seems possible, but I have a slight inkling there will be that skeleton in my closet. I am long overdue for that trip to Thailand, I think it may be there where I can truly figure out myself. You have given me much advice on the land of these ladies. I would try my luck there and bring her back here. No shame in that. Just not quite sure how loyal these girls are (I am sure you must question my loyalty, but when your single you can do as you please). Craig, any other advice for me?

As I said, a visit to Obsessions bar in Bangkok will change your life, i'm sure. Maybe go to a lady bar another night. (I recommend the Soapy Massages at least once) Do what you want almost no one will judge you in Thailand unless you are an asshole to people. Maybe go with a lady and a ladyboy sometime, however I have never done that, yet.
Other than bar fines a girl will almost never talk money in advance and often never mention money at all.

However as much as I thought I could get the ladyboy I was seeing a tourist Visa to Canada she just did not have enough work background to get it. So it ain't that easy unless you find one that can work a decent job.

However no better place to think things out than thailand.

They have very cheap beer too, and often free shoulder rubs while you drink them.

[snoodle]

This was a surprise SL_20.
You have given me alot of great advice over the past year and lifted my spirits when I needed it. I never met you in person, but I feel like I know you and I consider you a friend.
Thanks alot for everything, I mean it. Your a great guy.
I really don't know what advice to give you, because I kind of feel the same as you do. I'm thinking of quitting sex altogether. lol
All I can say is keep the friends you have made in the end that's probably the most important.
In terms of relationships, i'm sure one will come eventually, woman or T-girl, I don't think it matters that much. What's important is that she loves you and respects you.
So I say option 3. Keep your T-friends. But stay open minded for dating.
Eventually i'll come visit TO, but if you do quit going to Goodhandy's, you have to make an exception and come have a beer with me there. OK. LOL

Live long and Prosper

[sensual_lover20]

Snoodle, I'll make an exception just for you.

[Lani]

Mr. SLR-20

Dan-Calgary - Go for it. What are questioning! Shoot now, ask questions later

Prettyboy - I can always count on you for that realistic point of view.

Rantsalot - Thanks for the advice, very encouraging.

Jenllani - I'll give you input anytime!

Rantsalot & Jenllani - Get a room. Rants bring Tiffany and lots of wine

Sensual_loverboy20, You know very well that me and Rantzy are good friends, we are not an item and I am just joking when I say I won't post on his thread anymore, I will, If I find something interesting on the thread he will be posting, so far, I'm not yet in the mood (kidding).

I said this because I'm might not get lucky anymore coz, people might think I'm taken, I'm not. unless of course he would heed your advice lol!, but forget the wine as I don't drink.

[sensual_lover20]

My handle name is starting to grow on me. I should start signing sensual_lover20 on my documents. If they google the name t-girl forums pops up in the search.

[Lani]

Omg!

My handle name is starting to grow on me. I should start signing sensual_lover20 on my documents. If they google the name t-girl forums pops up in the search.

omg! that is scary, next thing my name could appear after they google your name. I might have to use another i.d.
SENSUAL_ JENNY sounds pretty cool, don't you think?

[sensual_lover20]

omg! that is scary, next thing my name could appear after they google your name. I might have to use another i.d.
SENSUAL_ JENNY sounds pretty cool, don't you think?

When I sign off on work I have done I put my initials. Once I put SL unconciously and erased it. That is not a good sign

[Lani]

Lol!

When I sign off on work I have done I put my initials. Once I put SL unconciously and erased it. That is not a good sign

Bad sign indeed! and much worse is if you keep signing off with the initials of the girl that's giving you a big dilemma. lol!

( then I guess it's a sign to see, you know who)

[sensual_lover20]

Bad sign indeed! and much worse is if you keep signing off with the initials of the girl that's giving you a big dilemma. lol!

( then I guess it's a sign to see, you know who)

To be honest I am more into this girl at my workplace than anyone. I know you think I really like Lucy or Nallah. They amazing girls don't get me wrong, but maybe in another lifetime. For now it's back to the workplace Besides, it's a recession so I won't be dropping $300 on anything but some sports gear maybe. My birthday is coming up though