Shemales verses Transsexuals

[tslisaparadise]

what si the point of all this.

swearing, denegrating other people. this has no value.

this will be my last comment here.

i was not speaking about any medical authority. i was not denegrating other people for being who they are.

i have some very close friends who are cd,s and they are very nice people. they do not dress to have sex. they feel a need to be femminine. perhaps this is the beginning of their transition.

i have been very badly scarred by women and men and transwomen. i have very little faith left in humanity. hurting other people in anyway to me is a sin.

we have all seen how when people are divided they are conquered. the trans community. everyone inclusive, has to be able to get along and become a real issue for politicians.

perhaps i have just outgrown this forum.

language and definitions seem to be our greatist problem. we have seen people leave because of it.

i will seldom be here now. i have things to do.

as far as the new thread. well lets say that seems to be a waste of time.


Admin, good luck you are going to need it i think.

what is this like the 100th time youve said your leaving?maybe hanging around nikki too long huh you two are starting to sound the same

[Rose]

lets be honest:

all TS started as crossdressers.

all TS have masturbated a million times wearing women's clothes when they were guys.

why is this so controversial?

its just so stupid--everybody knows that TS start life as young guys who get off on dressing like woman. why act as if you never did it? why pretend it wasn't, at least in part, about sex.

but mainly, why this need to put down other people who haven't spent a fortune on surgery?

I don't speak for everyone who falls under the Transsexual label; but when I was a kid and crying myself to sleep because I felt I was in the wrong body, there was no sexual connection to the subject at all. I'm hardly sexual now, let alone when I was a child. I've never masterbated with any sort of clothes on(male or female) and when I have sex with someone I'm naked, before I went full time I never wore women's clothing(To me, crossdressing would be me dressing as a man). I was transsexual far before I ever even had a piece of female clothing on my body. Some girls may be fetishists, and former crossdressers as well, but not all of them are.

[Wiseone26]

I don't speak for everyone who falls under the Transsexual label; but when I was a kid and crying myself to sleep because I felt I was in the wrong body, there was no sexual connection to the subject at all. I'm hardly sexual now, let alone when I was a child. I've never masterbated with any sort of clothes on(male or female) and when I have sex with someone I'm naked, before I went full time I never wore women's clothing(To me, crossdressing would be me dressing as a man). I was transsexual far before I ever even had a piece of female clothing on my body. Some girls may be fetishists, and former crossdressers as well, but not all of them are.

co-sign, totally...

[milkandhoney]

I don't speak for everyone who falls under the Transsexual label; but when I was a kid and crying myself to sleep because I felt I was in the wrong body, there was no sexual connection to the subject at all. I'm hardly sexual now, let alone when I was a child. I've never masterbated with any sort of clothes on(male or female) and when I have sex with someone I'm naked, before I went full time I never wore women's clothing(To me, crossdressing would be me dressing as a man). I was transsexual far before I ever even had a piece of female clothing on my body. Some girls may be fetishists, and former crossdressers as well, but not all of them are.

your point is well taken. clearly, there are many shades of gray here

[loskop]

i beleive in respect of the person, if they don't like being called something don't call them that and it changes from person to person, i have been called you hard fucker and at the time looooved it cam instantly, have a good one

I think this is the real point. People often defend the names they use, explaining why those names aren't offensive because they didn't mean anything offensive..... it's really only secondary as to what your intention was - if the name offends, don't use it.