Originally posted by TashaJones
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I fly at least once a month, in both Canada and to the States. Not once have I had any issue with boarding my plane. Further more no one has blinked an eye because my passport says M. It is a non issue because I have a recent photo of myself. If you change your look, as most transsexuals do as they go further though there transition. Maybe updating your picture would be a simple way to not confuse people or have unnecessary issues while traveling it is just common sense.
I think Crag was correct in his statements that safety needs to come first. With the world that we are living in today, we all have to give up some rights. I do not think this issue is about gender. I think it is more about matching the picture with how you look on the day of travel. That is one of the first things they look at when looking at your passport. If you look different then your passport photo, it is there job to protect the rest of the passengers by going the extra mile to confirm your identity.
This could also be an issue with identity theft. Some guy could steal some girl?s wallet, dress as a woman and because there worried about offending the Transgender groups is allowed to walk right though. In that case anyone could just walk though. That would not be a flight I wished to take.
The other thing that makes me laugh. When I see a girl posting about how she was treated and not allowed to use the woman?s bathroom or people were stirring at her and making fun. Well here are a couple rules that might help because reality is life nor people are always very kind.
If you are just starting your transition or are not passable, it might be better to dress down until the day comes you are able to walk the streets in the day without concrete on so no one notices your 5?o clock.
This one really gets me going, act like a lady while in public. There is no need to look like some Good Will street walker mid day while picking up your kids from school or doing some shopping. There is nothing wrong with blending into the world and not having to be noticed, because that will get you the wrong attention. There is a time and place for that. You want to be a lady then act like one because those looks you?re getting are NOT looks of approval but looks or disgust and embracement.
There are rules for a reason, we may not agree or like them but most are there to protect us. We all have to bend over and take it up the ass dry now and then so we have the freedom most countries do not have. It seems that every rights group these days picks a issue out of a hat or searches for one so they have something to complain about. May I suggest we deal with issues within our own group first!
Here is an issue you can complain about. How Trans people are represented in pride. So the general public watches on there tv?s at home some red neck who thinks we are all freaks. What do we do, prove him right. First we have a bunch of ? naked guys making out on then street just because they can. Then you have some 300 pound gay guy, in a dress, wig with a bread dancing on some float for all the world to see and that is what the public sees us as. A big fat gay guy in a dress with facial hair wearing woman?s clothes. I do not get what any of that has to do with Pride to begin with. But, the big question is, were are our fellow sisters who are fighting for our rights on such issues when a real issue so close to home comes up? That?s right partying next to the big fat guy in a dress.
At least in 2010 we had Mandy & Todd walk the frontline for our rights?.where were all the Trans that could have walked with them again? Would that not have been the correct time for them to take the spotlight and walk as a proud group? For them to have a voice as one of our ?sisters? was leading the Pride with honour? Not to mention that the tv stations all took notice that this was the first Trans woman to have that honour. That could have been a giant leap in the public seeing what a Transsexual really looks like.
Sorry got off topic there, but I think that those points needed to be made for all those Trans who are standing up for our rights and letting there voices be heard.
Bottom line, this issue is not Trans related it is safety related. Pick your battles and clean up our own back yard before expect change from others.

I think Crag was correct in his statements that safety needs to come first. With the world that we are living in today, we all have to give up some rights. I do not think this issue is about gender. I think it is more about matching the picture with how you look on the day of travel. That is one of the first things they look at when looking at your passport. If you look different then your passport photo, it is there job to protect the rest of the passengers by going the extra mile to confirm your identity.
This could also be an issue with identity theft. Some guy could steal some girl?s wallet, dress as a woman and because there worried about offending the Transgender groups is allowed to walk right though. In that case anyone could just walk though. That would not be a flight I wished to take.
The other thing that makes me laugh. When I see a girl posting about how she was treated and not allowed to use the woman?s bathroom or people were stirring at her and making fun. Well here are a couple rules that might help because reality is life nor people are always very kind.
If you are just starting your transition or are not passable, it might be better to dress down until the day comes you are able to walk the streets in the day without concrete on so no one notices your 5?o clock.
This one really gets me going, act like a lady while in public. There is no need to look like some Good Will street walker mid day while picking up your kids from school or doing some shopping. There is nothing wrong with blending into the world and not having to be noticed, because that will get you the wrong attention. There is a time and place for that. You want to be a lady then act like one because those looks you?re getting are NOT looks of approval but looks or disgust and embracement.
There are rules for a reason, we may not agree or like them but most are there to protect us. We all have to bend over and take it up the ass dry now and then so we have the freedom most countries do not have. It seems that every rights group these days picks a issue out of a hat or searches for one so they have something to complain about. May I suggest we deal with issues within our own group first!
Here is an issue you can complain about. How Trans people are represented in pride. So the general public watches on there tv?s at home some red neck who thinks we are all freaks. What do we do, prove him right. First we have a bunch of ? naked guys making out on then street just because they can. Then you have some 300 pound gay guy, in a dress, wig with a bread dancing on some float for all the world to see and that is what the public sees us as. A big fat gay guy in a dress with facial hair wearing woman?s clothes. I do not get what any of that has to do with Pride to begin with. But, the big question is, were are our fellow sisters who are fighting for our rights on such issues when a real issue so close to home comes up? That?s right partying next to the big fat guy in a dress.
At least in 2010 we had Mandy & Todd walk the frontline for our rights?.where were all the Trans that could have walked with them again? Would that not have been the correct time for them to take the spotlight and walk as a proud group? For them to have a voice as one of our ?sisters? was leading the Pride with honour? Not to mention that the tv stations all took notice that this was the first Trans woman to have that honour. That could have been a giant leap in the public seeing what a Transsexual really looks like.
Sorry got off topic there, but I think that those points needed to be made for all those Trans who are standing up for our rights and letting there voices be heard.
Bottom line, this issue is not Trans related it is safety related. Pick your battles and clean up our own back yard before expect change from others.




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